can you date your brothers ex wife

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  • ironanimal
    ironanimal Posts: 5,922 Member
    Have you always had hand-me-downs from your brother? There's a reason she's his ex btw.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    Sound like a bad idea.
  • undertall2014
    undertall2014 Posts: 30
    Isn't there some sort of Bro Code thing that you guys live by?

    Rule #1

    Trying to swoop his ex is dishonorable; a necessary rule, that has to be mentioned. It’s the biggest reasons for friends to part ways. The length of their relationship and who dumped who first does not matter stay clear. Don’t try and date, sleep with or even flirt with your friends ex , as they all should be off limits.


    I'm guessing brother trumps friend?
  • rondaj05
    rondaj05 Posts: 497 Member
    "This is my uncle... Wait, no, my step-dad... wait, no, my uncle..."

    :laugh: HAHAHA!! This is seriously what went through my mind.

    Consenting adults can do whatever they want but how do you explain this to the child?! :huh:
  • rondaj05
    rondaj05 Posts: 497 Member
    "This is my uncle... Wait, no, my step-dad... wait, no, my uncle..."
    Oooh, and if they have a kid.............................this is my cousin.......no wait my half sibling......wait my full sibling because we share mom's genes and some of dad's genes too?

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    Holy crap! Even WORSE!!! :noway: :huh:
  • LilPuertarican
    LilPuertarican Posts: 10 Member
    In my opinion, the fact that you asked the question is a clear indicator that somewhere deep within this situation bothers YOU. Pay attention to it. :smile:
  • howcanthatbetakenalready
    howcanthatbetakenalready Posts: 107 Member
    No, not okay. Regardless of what kind of person he is, he is your family.


    Family is what you make of it, not who is biologically included in it.
  • Mareebzz
    Mareebzz Posts: 45 Member
    Did anyone else notice that the OP started this thread in July, 2012???? Wonder what OP decided?? And my answer would be NO. NOT OKAY.
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  • howcanthatbetakenalready
    howcanthatbetakenalready Posts: 107 Member
    Did anyone else notice that the OP started this thread in July, 2012???? Wonder what OP decided?? And my answer would be NO. NOT OKAY.


    What the heck!

    Who keeps bumping these old threads up? I can't be bothered to actually look at the original posting time.:tongue:
  • GumboPrincess
    GumboPrincess Posts: 11
    Explaining to your nephew why your name isn't uncle anymore.. it's daddy!!

    Sounds like a good idea..go for it! Smh
  • kdb247
    kdb247 Posts: 326 Member
    I'm kinda in the same situation right now. I'm seeing my brothers ex. I wanna tell him but I cant rte. now.
    Yea, she is awesome. Feel bad for what he lost. Its been 20 years or more now. All of my friend know whats going on.
    Maybe even some of his. We are both in the same state of mind. Its been 20 years. We had no children. Never the less, I have always liked her. even when they were togeather, But nothing ever happened. You just know. I lost her when he lost her until recently when I ran into her. Now you know were we sit. Same as you. I'm going for it though. Best of luck to you...

    The OP needs info cause he's going through the same thing. Not really a Zombie issue. Maybe he could have just use the quote above and not bump up the July 2012 orginal??:indifferent:
  • _John_
    _John_ Posts: 8,646 Member
    nope, i don't have a brother.
  • SunofaBeach14
    SunofaBeach14 Posts: 4,899 Member
    Sure.

    Just be prepared for your brother to never speak to you again.

    That's not always a bad thing.
  • missyjane824
    missyjane824 Posts: 1,199 Member
    Hey, go for it. I mean, in biblical times you'd probably have been obliged to marry her, or stone her to death. Not really sure which one applies.

    Don't stone her to death.
    can't stop laughing at this.
  • Sweetnothing78
    Sweetnothing78 Posts: 86 Member
    The :heart: wants what the :heart: wants. I'm going with a YES!
  • BeachGingerOnTheRocks
    BeachGingerOnTheRocks Posts: 3,927 Member
    I have a half cousin who has a best friend, and he and the best friend switched wives. They're still best friends. And still married to each others' wives.

    Makes me wonder how that conversation went down. "Tradesies? Sure!"
  • Mother_Superior
    Mother_Superior Posts: 1,624 Member
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    What is this...the book of Deuteronomy?!
  • jackpotclown
    jackpotclown Posts: 3,275 Member
    faceoff_zps3bd8dcae.gif \m/
  • KapuaK
    KapuaK Posts: 39 Member
    NO...no matter what it may cause family drama. With so many other women in this world it's better to err on the side of caution then to dive into her world like that....especially since you have a nephew who could be confused about it all.

    There are other fish in the sea.
  • Jillian11905
    Jillian11905 Posts: 34 Member
    Ummm I say no. Even though it was a while ago I wouldn't. I wouldn't even date someone my sister or friend had a crush on.
  • vjohn04
    vjohn04 Posts: 2,276 Member
    faceoff_zps3bd8dcae.gif \m/


    lol so funny
  • NataBost
    NataBost Posts: 418 Member
    Read title. Nope. Read explanation. Nope.
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,961 Member
    Just off tangent here:

    If 2 identical twins marries 2 identical twins and both married couples have kids, aren't they really siblings? Things that make you go HMMMMM.

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  • tomomatic
    tomomatic Posts: 1,794 Member
    Think of the child and how he/she will call you "Uncle Daddy."
  • spoonful
    spoonful Posts: 200 Member
    Erm... erm... um... sure. Why not!
  • benefiting
    benefiting Posts: 795 Member
    of all the women in the world to date, you want to date your brother's ex??

    try again.

    This.
  • SamanthaD1218
    SamanthaD1218 Posts: 303 Member
    So you potentially become your nephew's step father?

    I'm reminded of an old song...

    My little baby then became a brother-in-law to dad
    And so became my uncle, though it made me very sad
    For if he were my uncle, then that also made him brother
    Of the widow's grownup daughter, who was of course my step-mother
  • spoonful
    spoonful Posts: 200 Member
    Negatory!

    Dude.... Your brother put his junk in that. No. Just no

    ROTFL
  • David_AUS
    David_AUS Posts: 298 Member
    Only you can really answer this.... If you are doing this out of a genuine love for each other - nothing anyone says will sway your decision. If there are other drivers driven out fear - loneliness, guilt, filling that hole in your heart then I would suggest ponder on these resolve them and see where the feeling takes you. I love this quote from cool runnings .."A gold medal"..."if you not enough without one you will never be enough with one"... Life is to short - live the life you love!

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