What is the one thing you can not over look when dating?

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  • tchell99
    tchell99 Posts: 434 Member
    insecurity, drinking to excess.

    Seconded. And adding a lack of intelligence (notably different than a lack of education).
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  • toolzz
    toolzz Posts: 163 Member
    the inability to worship me as I so deserve to be worshipped...that is a deal breaker.
  • amandakev88
    amandakev88 Posts: 328 Member
    can't overlook somebody who...

    1. makes mouth noises. BASDJFKLASDJFL;KASJF it makes my skin crawl
    2. is unemployed
    3. has a weird fetish [tried. nope]
    4. is crazy. im crazy enough for 2 people. i need somebody sane.
    5. has ever paid for sex.

    but mostly #1. serious.
  • amandakev88
    amandakev88 Posts: 328 Member
    the inability to worship me as I so deserve to be worshipped...that is a deal breaker.

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  • NatiaGonitellie
    NatiaGonitellie Posts: 355 Member
    when I was dating, I couldn't overlook

    *him being a mama's boy
    *surly nasty or mean behavior when drinking. (in my experience they just get worse over time)
    *clingy, i.e. constant phone calls, hanging on like a second skin, never let me have alone time.
    (I need want and demand my alone time)
    *Pore attitude. -- suns out bird singing and they just complain about bird crapping on there car and sun giving them cancer.
  • HawkeyeTy
    HawkeyeTy Posts: 681 Member
    Smoking.


    No way I could date a smoker...NOPE>
  • Hermit_Girl
    Hermit_Girl Posts: 65
    A womanizer
  • HawkeyeTy
    HawkeyeTy Posts: 681 Member
    A womanizer

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  • PhearlessPhreaks
    PhearlessPhreaks Posts: 890 Member
    Intellect, manners and class were my dealbreakers. It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how good in bed you are, how funny you are... if you don't have the intellectual capacity to keep up, or you're going to embarrass me... you're not my equal.

    ETA: The aforementioned mentality came about when I was single and living in a small ski town (excuse me, a drinking town with a skiing problem!) because I had my fill of being hit on by drunk out-of-town jackholes and the douches who thought a bigger girl would be happy with anyone thrown in her direction...
  • AtHomeFitness4U
    AtHomeFitness4U Posts: 30
    If she's a smoker (of ANYTHING), it's a deal breaker.
  • starlaca
    starlaca Posts: 779 Member
    Halitosis
  • moya_rargh
    moya_rargh Posts: 1,473 Member
    Smoking.
  • asimmons221
    asimmons221 Posts: 294 Member
    laziness.
  • HDHogger
    HDHogger Posts: 764
    Always late. Always!
  • lemonsnowdrop
    lemonsnowdrop Posts: 1,298 Member
    Someone who's bad in bed. There, I said it!
  • TattooedNici
    TattooedNici Posts: 2,141 Member
    A cheater, racist and/or a possessiveness. Nope, won't, can't.
  • SaBh93
    SaBh93 Posts: 114 Member
    I'm 21. I can't date someone with kids, nor a person with no motivation in life. I would like someone with manners too.

    These 3 are the 'no go' zones for me. Maybe this will change in 5-10 years, but for now.... NO.
  • burning2much
    burning2much Posts: 4,846 Member
    Personally, I can't stand drama!
  • mrfreestyle
    mrfreestyle Posts: 1,293 Member
    Smoking. Can't stand that.
  • bigbarnold
    bigbarnold Posts: 2,554 Member
    if she is taller than me. (I'm 6'5)
  • SugarBaby71
    SugarBaby71 Posts: 3,630 Member
    Smoking. Yuck!
  • bigbarnold
    bigbarnold Posts: 2,554 Member
    I agree! Smoking is disgusting!
  • rowlandsw
    rowlandsw Posts: 1,166 Member
    Not staying off the blasted cellphone for more than 20 minutes.
  • Mrsallypants
    Mrsallypants Posts: 887 Member
    Obesity. and a feminist.
  • AlongCame_Molly
    AlongCame_Molly Posts: 2,835 Member
    Smokes weed. I seriously CANNOT tolerate weed-breath. I literally gag.
  • ghostsnstuff
    ghostsnstuff Posts: 51 Member
    Cheater, racist, homophobic, rude, misogynist... need I go on?
  • brewji
    brewji Posts: 752 Member
    Cheater, racist, homophobic, rude, misogynist... need I go on?

    So...Rob Ford wouldn't be your #1 candidate.

    But I completely agree.
  • Crimson_Fire
    Crimson_Fire Posts: 2,504 Member
    No lying.
    No cheating.
    No more than two kids (I have two, and honestly can imagine ever being ok with more than four in the house).
    No more than one baby daddy.
    Must be able to support herself financially. I make good money. I will not be anyones golden ticket again. And yes, I pay for dates.
    Must be in to fitness and preferably lifting.
    Has to be in to some, but not all of, my "country" pass times. She doesn't have to enjoy everything I do, but we should share SOME hobbies.
    Being an Auburn fan is a big plus. Being an Alabama fan is not a deal breaker, but it is definitely two strikes. If you are from this state, you understand. If you aren't, you never will.
    I get two strikes. :(
  • CalistaBruno
    CalistaBruno Posts: 34 Member
    Misogyny.

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