What is the one thing you can not over look when dating?

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  • tchell99
    tchell99 Posts: 434 Member
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    insecurity, drinking to excess.

    Seconded. And adding a lack of intelligence (notably different than a lack of education).
  • toolzz
    toolzz Posts: 163 Member
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    the inability to worship me as I so deserve to be worshipped...that is a deal breaker.
  • amandakev88
    amandakev88 Posts: 328 Member
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    can't overlook somebody who...

    1. makes mouth noises. BASDJFKLASDJFL;KASJF it makes my skin crawl
    2. is unemployed
    3. has a weird fetish [tried. nope]
    4. is crazy. im crazy enough for 2 people. i need somebody sane.
    5. has ever paid for sex.

    but mostly #1. serious.
  • amandakev88
    amandakev88 Posts: 328 Member
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    the inability to worship me as I so deserve to be worshipped...that is a deal breaker.

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  • NatiaGonitellie
    NatiaGonitellie Posts: 355 Member
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    when I was dating, I couldn't overlook

    *him being a mama's boy
    *surly nasty or mean behavior when drinking. (in my experience they just get worse over time)
    *clingy, i.e. constant phone calls, hanging on like a second skin, never let me have alone time.
    (I need want and demand my alone time)
    *Pore attitude. -- suns out bird singing and they just complain about bird crapping on there car and sun giving them cancer.
  • HawkeyeTy
    HawkeyeTy Posts: 681 Member
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    Smoking.


    No way I could date a smoker...NOPE>
  • Hermit_Girl
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    A womanizer
  • HawkeyeTy
    HawkeyeTy Posts: 681 Member
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    A womanizer

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  • PhearlessPhreaks
    PhearlessPhreaks Posts: 890 Member
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    Intellect, manners and class were my dealbreakers. It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how good in bed you are, how funny you are... if you don't have the intellectual capacity to keep up, or you're going to embarrass me... you're not my equal.

    ETA: The aforementioned mentality came about when I was single and living in a small ski town (excuse me, a drinking town with a skiing problem!) because I had my fill of being hit on by drunk out-of-town jackholes and the douches who thought a bigger girl would be happy with anyone thrown in her direction...
  • AtHomeFitness4U
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    If she's a smoker (of ANYTHING), it's a deal breaker.
  • starlaca
    starlaca Posts: 779 Member
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    Halitosis
  • moya_rargh
    moya_rargh Posts: 1,473 Member
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    Smoking.
  • asimmons221
    asimmons221 Posts: 294 Member
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    laziness.
  • HDHogger
    HDHogger Posts: 764
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    Always late. Always!
  • lemonsnowdrop
    lemonsnowdrop Posts: 1,298 Member
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    Someone who's bad in bed. There, I said it!
  • TattooedNici
    TattooedNici Posts: 2,141 Member
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    A cheater, racist and/or a possessiveness. Nope, won't, can't.
  • SaBh93
    SaBh93 Posts: 114 Member
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    I'm 21. I can't date someone with kids, nor a person with no motivation in life. I would like someone with manners too.

    These 3 are the 'no go' zones for me. Maybe this will change in 5-10 years, but for now.... NO.
  • burning2much
    burning2much Posts: 4,846 Member
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    Personally, I can't stand drama!
  • mrfreestyle
    mrfreestyle Posts: 1,293 Member
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    Smoking. Can't stand that.