Do you get hit on?

_lyndseybrooke_ · April 30, 2014 5:56PM

I can honestly count the number of times I've been hit on in the past 7 years (since I met my husband) on one hand. I'm far from cocky, but I'm not ugly and I've got a decent body, especially with clothes on....

(No, I don't dress like this daily. It was a country-themed bachelorette party this past weekend.)

But I never get hit on. The girls I'm with get hit on, I see other girls getting hit on. But not me. I'm not exactly heartbroken about it, being married and all, but it does make me wonder what kind of look or vibe I've got going on that causes men to not approach me. In some cases, it''s probably the wedding ring. However, I asked my husband what he thought and he said, "You just look too smart and high maintenance. Guys probably think you're either going to reject them or make them spend all of their money before they can get into your pants." Say whaaa? Haha!

So, do you get hit on a lot? What is there to say about decent-looking girls that don't get creepy guys trying to hit her up in bars?

SGM_Adonis · April 30, 2014 6:00PM

The use of your bait, the cranking motion. The top water action. It has been expertly used.

laynerich15 · April 30, 2014 6:01PM

Nope

Mia_RagazzaTosta · April 30, 2014 6:02PM

Only here.

headofphat · April 30, 2014 6:04PM

You're from South Carolina and you don't dress like a country girl all the time? No wonder you don't get hit on. Country boys don't want no city girl. Pull yourself together.

phuckingbadasscutie · April 30, 2014 6:04PM

Maybe guys are intimidated by you.

DainaLC · April 30, 2014 6:04PM

Wow! I could have written this same thing about myself! Come on let's paddle this boat together!

thebrokentide · April 30, 2014 6:05PM

I get hit on at the most random times. Several older men on the streets have tried and picked me up. They both seemed older than my dad. I also go hit on in the gym while sweaty and while doing laundry. I never know what to do, I just laugh it off and walk away.

headofphat · April 30, 2014 6:05PM

Well I drive a VW bus and there is a saying that is pretty much true across the world, "chicks dig VW's", but no i never get hit on.

mralmayes · April 30, 2014 6:07PM

I used to when I was younger, but not really anymore.

MelisMusing · April 30, 2014 6:07PM

I never do get hit on really. I'm told I'm too "normal, smart, nice".

?!?!? lol

gdc2506 · April 30, 2014 6:08PM

My girl friend says that this happens to me all the time, by the waitresses when we go out to eat. I'm pretty sure they're just wanting a bigger tip.

krash999 · April 30, 2014 6:09PM

nope... never. i get flirted with, but ive been told that is only because those women want tips.... :brokenheart: :sad:

phuckingbadasscutie · April 30, 2014 6:09PM

I do - more than I'd like and no I am not being arrogant. It happens a lot even with my husband right next to me.

_lyndseybrooke_ · April 30, 2014 6:09PM

You're from South Carolina and you don't dress like a country girl all the time? No wonder you don't get hit on. Country boys don't want no city girl. Pull yourself together.

I managed to land me a good ole country boy without dressing like a redneck hoochie, thank you very much.

And I am a city girl - from Chicago originally. Maybe I give off that damn Yankee vibe, eh?

headofphat · April 30, 2014 6:10PM

nope... never. i get flirted with, but ive been told that is only because those women want tips.... :brokenheart: :sad:

It's not really flirting when it's their job.

Cameron_1969 · April 30, 2014 6:10PM

Maybe. . (just maybe) . . it has something to do with that rock that you are (hopefully) wearing on your left ring-finger. .

headofphat · April 30, 2014 6:11PM

You're from South Carolina and you don't dress like a country girl all the time? No wonder you don't get hit on. Country boys don't want no city girl. Pull yourself together.

I managed to land me a good ole country boy without dressing like a redneck hoochie, thank you very much. And I am a city girl - from Chicago originally. Maybe I give off that damn Yankee vibe, eh?

Yes we Southerners can smell a Yankee from a county away.

anissa333 · April 30, 2014 6:11PM

I NEVER get hit on...I think I must send out an unapproachable vibe....and I AM single...

_lyndseybrooke_ · April 30, 2014 6:12PM

You're from South Carolina and you don't dress like a country girl all the time? No wonder you don't get hit on. Country boys don't want no city girl. Pull yourself together.

I managed to land me a good ole country boy without dressing like a redneck hoochie, thank you very much. And I am a city girl - from Chicago originally. Maybe I give off that damn Yankee vibe, eh?

Yes we Southerners can smell a Yankee from a county away.

Well, dang. Good thing I caught a good one early on, then. He's stuck with this Yankee now, because it looks like I'd never have a date without him.

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