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Men: Abs on females...hot or not??

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  • Posts: 2,675 Member
    most men have abs like mine... shaped more like a keg than a 6 pack;

    Yeah, defined abs are attractive whether on a male or female. Naturally, HEALTHY is the key and overly defined abs, particularly in females, are a sign of insufficient fat stores and are not as healthy as they look.
  • Posts: 1,331 Member

    The only way abs would be man like is if they were on a man.

    I think he is saying women that take testorone. Not natural
  • Posts: 1,298 Member
    Awww yus I love knowing what men prefer when it comes to women's bodies. Then I do the opposite :drinker:
  • Posts: 3,942 Member
    I like it when it's subtle.
  • Posts: 121 Member
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    c'mon...who WOULDN'T find that sexy and feminine?...
    :sick:
  • Posts: 24,208 Member
    You can be hot or not with or without them.
    I don't get these chicken parts questions; the sum whole matters more than the parts.

    When you ask this, is it because you have them and are afraid of not being attractive?
    Or is it because you fear that this should only be a goal if it's attractive?

    Let me tell you, that fear - in either case - is not hot.
    Hot is the strength to decide and do what you want, for yourself, and then to be able to achieve what you want to accomplish.

    Eta - great we now have body builder shaming going.
  • Posts: 1,171 Member
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    Softly defined abs (as seen here) are hot in my opinion. Anything too defined, does not look appealing to me, on both men and women.
  • Posts: 1,331 Member
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    Softly defined abs (as seen here) are hot in my opinion. Anything too defined, does not look appealing to me, on both men and women.

    Agree
  • Posts: 121 Member
    LOL @ bodybuilder shaming.

    Please...it's called having a laugh at a silly question. Gain a sense of humor, buddy.

    BTW, we're allowed to like and dislike any body shape we want (as well as how it is achieved) because the appeal level of looks are all subjective. All I did was put a picture to what quite a few people were saying on here anyway.
  • Posts: 43 Member
    amanda_latona_6923_143937863631_91906923631_2531528_2278206_n_wtYLJIe.sized.jpg

    Softly defined abs (as seen here) are hot in my opinion. Anything too defined, does not look appealing to me, on both men and women.

    Beautiful! This is exactly the look I'm going for, I love the 'fit' look. But my boyfriend has said on repeated occasions he doesn't like abs on women even though he has them. Do I care? Not really because we all have different tastes and I know having abs is not what matters in the end because working on your body makes you look overall hot :) And who doesn't like that? And I have enough confidence to know that if I got abs (hopefully!! :smile:) my bf would love me still, I'm doing this for myself :laugh:
  • Posts: 946 Member
    Each to their own, it's all a matter of personal preference and taste...surely :flowerforyou:
  • Posts: 1,293 Member
    It really is down to preference at the end of the day! I for one think a nice well six pack on a chick is hot.
  • Posts: 24,208 Member
    LOL @ bodybuilder shaming.

    Please...it's called having a laugh at a silly question. Gain a sense of humor, buddy.

    BTW, we're allowed to like and dislike any body shape we want (as well as how it is achieved) because the appeal level of looks are all subjective. All I did was put a picture to what quite a few people were saying on here anyway.

    All you did was imply she specifically wasn't sexy or feminine.
  • Posts: 249 Member
    sure lets call it hot... its shows determination and hard work, which are sexy attributes too...
  • Posts: 613 Member
    Awww yus I love knowing what men prefer when it comes to women's bodies. Then I do the opposite :drinker:

    High five!
  • Posts: 208
    Abs are superhot, men or women!
  • Posts: 3,845 Member
    Who cares what other people think? If your body and fitness level make you happy, you win.
  • Posts: 1,597 Member
    hot
  • Posts: 32 Member
    Depends on how good she makes sandwiches.
  • Posts: 1,070 Member
    This thread needs more visuals

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  • Posts: 87 Member
    women with Abs = super attractive. The only thing more attractive to add is if they do squats!
  • Posts: 980 Member
    Shouldnt the question be 6-pack and not abs?

    I would hope she has abs, otherwise how else is she supposed to bend over?
  • Posts: 1,074 Member
    Very subjective question.....

    I think well defined abs are sexy on man or woman. However one can go too far and get too defined where *I* do not find it attractive. But a nicely defined 4-6pk is super sexy!!
  • Posts: 5,573 Member
    why should it matter if men find them hot or not? Do YOU find them hot on you? If so, work for them. And, by work for them, I mean eat decent and workout. If not, then don't. That's the only question that should matter.
  • Posts: 116 Member
    Don't care one way or the other.
  • Posts: 365 Member
    You can be hot or not with or without them.
    I don't get these chicken parts questions; the sum whole matters more than the parts.

    When you ask this, is it because you have them and are afraid of not being attractive?
    Or is it because you fear that this should only be a goal if it's attractive?

    Let me tell you, that fear - in either case - is not hot.
    Hot is the strength to decide and do what you want, for yourself, and then to be able to achieve what you want to accomplish.

    Eta - great we now have body builder shaming going.
    qft......
  • Posts: 16,414 Member
    Depends on how good she makes sandwiches.
    That is really the only question.
  • Posts: 3,275 Member
    I find abs with definition hot on women, but it's definitely not a deal breaker....I'm not having sex with your abs....now a well-defined sniz........there's something I can definitely get into.....\m/
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  • Posts: 16,414 Member

    Generally, I take your word on things... But this is something I have a hard time swallowing and would like more information. I don't see how this is possible.
    It doesn't make sense at all, actually.

    Women biologically hold onto fat more than men because it's needed for healthy babies.
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