Is it norm to watch porn?
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It can become addictive... some people really do have an issue. In moderation its fine0
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we watch porn together and look at porn pics separately. but we're honest about it. we even share things with each other that we like. if it's honest and open, i see nothing wrong with it, can even add a little spice to life!0
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It can become addictive... some people really do have an issue. In moderation its fine
Tell that to China0 -
Who doesn't love a bit of porn?????????
WHY NOT!!!!!!!!!! lol0 -
normal to watch it. normal to make it too.0
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Personally I'm a fan, but I can understand other people's moral reservations / objections.
It's an excellent warm up act though!
Let's bond over a love of pornography lol!
Huzzah0 -
Porn is okay to watch as long as you aren't watching all day long, not having sex with your partner because you are masturbating all day, or paying for it...free porn rules!0
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Yep!0
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Also, is the porn replaceing a normal sex life? Is he (or she) masturbating to porn excessively, but not engaging sexually with their partner? That's a problem.
To be fair, this is a big consideration.
It's normal to watch it, not to rely on it.
It should be a supplement, not a meal replacement!0 -
Interesting that a thread about excess is so popular on a website dedicated to helping (most people) deal with issues brought on by excess. Not a judgment on either side obviously because I'm on here too - just seems easy to criticize people about excess if it doesn't happen to be your issue.0
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I must be a rarity......never watched it:embarassed:0
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To each their own. I watch it and don't care if my SO watches it with or without me. I'm not threatened by someone on a screen but I guess it might be a problem if they didn't want to be with me.0
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Ever or all the time? I think it's probably disingenuous to say that anyone hasn't saw some porn they enjoy0
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Ever or all the time? I think it's probably disingenuous to say that anyone hasn't saw some porn they enjoy
Agree.
I don't talk about the porn I enjoy, but I do enjoy some porn. But really, it doesn't matter if other people deny that they enjoy it. Maybe part of the enjoyment that they get from it is the guilt. Guilt can trigger sexual arousal just as much as octopus tentacles and pizza delivery boys.0 -
I was in an LDR for 2.5 years, I watched porn daily, we moved in together 2 weeks ago and I haven't had a chance since because I've been too busy.
brown chicken, brown cow.0 -
There was a TV programme on British TV a few months ago that looked at this issue. It found that young men are finding it very difficult to sustain a healthy and happy sexual relationship as they are expecting their women to act and look like the women in porn movies. They expected certain behaviours and were disappointed that their women either wouldn't do or didn't like those acts.
Porn does not show "real" sex only women gagging for it and up for anything.
The prog also got 2 young men to go to a real shoot for a porn movie and meet the porn stars they lusted after. In reality they found the whole business unerotic, that there was something very sordid about the whole process and that the people concerned with making the movies were not happy and were (in some cases) being abused. This changed their views and they resolved to stop watching it, or stop watching it so much (some were spending hours online w******G).
My personal view is that it isn't normal to watch porn but it has become so and that disturbs me. I hated it when I found out my husband was watching and looking at porn (on tv, online and in books) and our relationship has suffered for this.0 -
viewing live sex i'm sure has a huge impact on the brain and neurochemistry, just like certain other things for which we have strong evolutionarily-programmed responses (e.g. danger, thrill seeking, drugs, food, actually having sex, and nurturance of babies). before the advent of film (when you either had to get permission to watch others do it or turn creep and spy) what segment of the population do you think was regularly brain-drugging themselves in this way by viewing live sex? what segment of the population is regularly doing this now? and no talks about this? porn is a modern drug, just like TV and the internet.0
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viewing live sex i'm sure has a huge impact on the brain and neurochemistry, just like certain other things for which we have strong evolutionarily-programmed responses (e.g. danger, thrill seeking, drugs, food, actually having sex, and nurturance of babies). before the advent of film (when you either had to get permission to watch others do it or turn creep and spy) what segment of the population do you think was regularly brain-drugging themselves in this way by viewing live sex? what segment of the population is regularly doing this now? and no talks about this? porn is a modern drug, just like TV and the internet.0
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Look, I like naked women! I'm a bloke! I'm supposed to like them! We're born like that. We like naked women as soon as we're pulled out of one. Halfway down the birth canal we're already enjoying the view. Look, it's the four pillars of the male heterosexual psyche. We like: naked women, stockings, lesbians, and Sean Connery best as James Bond. Because that is what being a bloke is. And if you don't like it, darling, join a film collective. I want to spend the rest of my life with the woman at the end of the table here. But that does not stop me wanting to see several thousand more naked bottoms before I die. Because that's what being a bloke is. When Man invented fire, he didn't say "Hey, let's cook!" He said: "Great! Now we can see naked bottoms in the dark!" As soon as Caxton invented the printing press we were using it to make pictures of - hey! - naked bottoms. We've turned the Internet into an enormous international database of... naked bottoms. So, you see, the story of male achievement through the ages, feeble though it may have been, has been the story of our struggle to get a better look at your bottoms. Frankly, girls, I'm not so sure how insulted you really ought to be.
Coupling - great show.0 -
Look, I like naked women! I'm a bloke! I'm supposed to like them! We're born like that. We like naked women as soon as we're pulled out of one. Halfway down the birth canal we're already enjoying the view. Look, it's the four pillars of the male heterosexual psyche. We like: naked women, stockings, lesbians, and Sean Connery best as James Bond. Because that is what being a bloke is. And if you don't like it, darling, join a film collective. I want to spend the rest of my life with the woman at the end of the table here. But that does not stop me wanting to see several thousand more naked bottoms before I die. Because that's what being a bloke is. When Man invented fire, he didn't say "Hey, let's cook!" He said: "Great! Now we can see naked bottoms in the dark!" As soon as Caxton invented the printing press we were using it to make pictures of - hey! - naked bottoms. We've turned the Internet into an enormous international database of... naked bottoms. So, you see, the story of male achievement through the ages, feeble though it may have been, has been the story of our struggle to get a better look at your bottoms. Frankly, girls, I'm not so sure how insulted you really ought to be.
Coupling - great show.
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This really does have me laughing out loud!0
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This really does have me laughing out loud!
Which part?0 -
me and my girl have talked about it a lot, and neither of us likes the thinking that the other is turned on by someone else
we even have an agreement not to comment on other people's bodies
there is no reason for her to hear me say some chick is pretty. And why would I want to say that, knowing it can only make her feel weird at best.
we are getting married in August, so ubber in love, and I hope it stays that way
she turns me on, and i turn her on
we are weird
THE GREEN MONSTER IS DEADLY = not worth the risk to us.0 -
viewing live sex i'm sure has a huge impact on the brain and neurochemistry, just like certain other things for which we have strong evolutionarily-programmed responses (e.g. danger, thrill seeking, drugs, food, actually having sex, and nurturance of babies). before the advent of film (when you either had to get permission to watch others do it or turn creep and spy) what segment of the population do you think was regularly brain-drugging themselves in this way by viewing live sex? what segment of the population is regularly doing this now? and no talks about this? porn is a modern drug, just like TV and the internet.
ooh SNAP got me there :blushing:0 -
viewing live sex i'm sure has a huge impact on the brain and neurochemistry, just like certain other things for which we have strong evolutionarily-programmed responses (e.g. danger, thrill seeking, drugs, food, actually having sex, and nurturance of babies). before the advent of film (when you either had to get permission to watch others do it or turn creep and spy) what segment of the population do you think was regularly brain-drugging themselves in this way by viewing live sex? what segment of the population is regularly doing this now? and no talks about this? porn is a modern drug, just like TV and the internet.
let me see..... Neanderthals, Cro-Magnons, Homo heidelbergensis, Homo erectus.... except it wasn't brain drugging. If you and your clan/tribe all live in the same cave or mammoth bone shelter, or just sleep around the campfire each night, you're going to see people having sex. A lot. All the time. Even in modern hunter-gatherer tribes where you have the extended family living in one small dwelling together........ they see each other have sex. Kids see their parents having sex. They grow up viewing sex as a totally normal way for two people to express love and have fun together.
There are other ways to see other people having sex without having to creep, spy or get permission, like if you all live in a cave together or something. I don't know how on earth you think humans managed to evolve without ever seeing other humans having sex. And I'm sure Australopithecines saw each other having sex a lot too. And ardipithecus. And the common ancestor of chimps, bonobos and humans... etc etc...
Do chimpanzees and bonobos and other great apes have brain problems (or are somehow drugging their brains) because they see other apes of their species having sex? Bonobos like to watch (although usually they join in) bonobos bred in captivity have been known to deliberately choose to watch porn (i.e. videos of other bonobos having sex).
The idea that sex should be done in private and kept all hush-hush and taboo is an extremely modern phenomenon invented by modern humans. We evolved in way less prudish societies.0 -
I would say it depends on if your partner satisfies you or not. If they can arouse you with out the aid of some actors acting to a **** story line then no. If you livee your life in a fantasy land where you need porn to get your jiggy on then yep.0
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It becomes annoying when your SO is watching porn and not engaging in sexual activities with you. That's when issues arise-issues that can stem from all sorts of things.
I had an SO who just thought the blonde trashy porn star look was super hot. It was tough knowing he watched porn with a specific type of female who had nothing in common with me physically. I was never going to look like that. I was never going to behave like that, and I struggled mentally with wondering why he had any interest in me.
But watching porn can be and is healthy for plenty of people.0 -
haha wow!0
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I love porn lol0
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