Is it norm to watch porn?

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  • Nissi51
    Nissi51 Posts: 381 Member
    I know this is the minority opinion, but I think its wrong and immoral. It objectifies women (and to a certain extent men), it presents sex in an unrealistic fashion, it decreases our sensitivities to deviant/abnormal sexual behaviors, and most of all it denigrates the meaning of sex to a mere activity instead of an expression of deep affection between husband and wife. Additionally, some people become addicted to it (much like a drug addiction) and it ruins those people's relationships sometimes for good. I believe it is one of the factors contributing to the general moral decline of our society.
    Now I know, based on the comments on this thread, that most of the people here disagree but I felt I needed to speak out.

    Welcome to america. Where porn, drugs, divorce and McDonalds are normal :drinker:

    ^^^^^ this
  • Gordon_L
    Gordon_L Posts: 4,475 Member
    No stock answer on this one. If watching it with SO, then both would have to have similar feelings about it and hopefully similar expectations...
  • MelsAuntie
    MelsAuntie Posts: 2,833 Member
    Porn is normal, harmless but usually boring in the long run. I don't care if my husband watches porn; he says he doesn't because he isn't interested. I believe him, he isn't into that at all anymore but even if he did I wouldn't care. Doesn't affect ME in any way if he does. For myself, live action porn is boring and I'm not interested in watching it, but Phil Foglio's erotic comic series "XXXenophile" is a great favorite of mine. Great art, always consensual, funny, absolutely unbridled imagination, and erotic as hell. Long sold out, hard to find, but worth every penny.
  • lookin4gains
    lookin4gains Posts: 1,761 Member
    I like food porn, like commercials for a perfectly grilled steak or cooking shows. OHHHHHH YEAHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!! mmmmmmmmmmmmmm
  • daw0518
    daw0518 Posts: 459 Member
    I don't think there's a problem with porn as long as people are able to understand the difference between it and reality. Porn is full of unrealistic penis sizes, unrealistic women, and unrealistic sex, not to mention objectification of women and a majority interest in male pleasure over female pleasure. That said, people have fantasies, and it's fine to indulge in them with care.

    In regards to being okay with a SO or spouse watching porn, I again don't think there's a problem. Most people initially learn what they like sexually by pleasuring themselves - what's wrong with wanting to go back to the basics once in awhile? I have a cousin who gets angry with her husband just for looking at a Playboy. That's ridiculous, in my opinion, and screams relationship insecurity. Ultimately I guess communication is key and if you have a SO with different beliefs surrounding porn/magazines/etc., you should probably reevaluate the relationship.
  • JenniTheVeggie
    JenniTheVeggie Posts: 2,474 Member
    I don't think it's abnormal but it depends on personal taste.... Me... I enjoy it and I don't care if a significant other likes it either.
  • Luke_I_am_your_spotter
    Luke_I_am_your_spotter Posts: 4,179 Member
    Nothing wrong with it.
  • iPlatano
    iPlatano Posts: 487 Member
    Watching some right now!
  • elprincipito
    elprincipito Posts: 1,200 Member
    being a loser and single i would say it should be normal.
  • Trechechus
    Trechechus Posts: 2,819 Member
    As a woman in a committed relationship: Yes, watching porn is normal and okay.
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  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    If watching porn isn't normal, then consider me abnormal as *kitten*. Porn is the best.

    AVN awards in Vegas in January...who's with me?! :bigsmile:
  • mank32
    mank32 Posts: 1,323 Member
    I don't know how on earth you think humans managed to evolve without ever seeing other humans having sex.

    just a moron, i guess :ohwell:
  • TheBadToe
    TheBadToe Posts: 246 Member
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  • CoolFellow
    CoolFellow Posts: 21
    As long as it's not getting in the way of your normal intimate life.....!

    watch and enjoy life...better together!
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