Do you think size affects someone's attractiveness?

@shimmerNsparkle,

Women can be equally as hard to de-code. I prefer a more equal combination of intelligence/personality and attractiveness, in that order. I personally have been trying to analyze women from afar via friendships and acquaintances and such and oddly enough, through my job. I use to work for an apartment complex in East Lansing MI, literally a block from campus, and down a street with numerous bars and restaurants.. My apartments I worked at we PARTY central on weekends. I had a Central Office by the main access doors, and heard NUMEROUS conversations of ladies walking by and talking about how they play games with guys and such.. Have also been told that women go for the bad boys because good guys don't always have courage to speak up and try and initiate conversation because they may be shy or feel unattractive.. I really hate that fact that there is no even ground for the sex's to align on when it comes to relations.. I personally, am not single, but not taken.. I am committed to someone who has been damaged, and I am trying to work with her on it, and really want to be with her. I am done trying to get a beautiful woman's attention when some douche could just step up and say three words, and she's gone..

Sure it does. Not only physical attraction, but, if someone is extremely heavy, their lifestyle comes into question.

Everybody can make the statement that sense of humor (or insert your term here) is very important in a relationship, but, upon first seeing someone, it's all about their physical attraction.

Go ahead ad beat me down and make your politically correct statements, but that's the way it is.

Hey, I'm very confident. I'm smart as hell. I'm funny as a motherfcker. I'm fat, too. No one has hit on me in 20 years.

Beautiful/handsome on the outside is nothing without the same on the inside

I think it has alot to do with confidence and how you come across to other people if you "look good you feel good" I strongly believe that however if you are a larger guy or girl then you are also quite self concious and I think people can sense that... ...

Of course it does. We're hardwired that way. But for many people, we can find attraction in something other than physical attributes if that initial "spark" isn't there.

Of course it does. We're hardwired that way. But for many people, we can find attraction in something other than physical attributes if that initial "spark" isn't there.

I think initial attraction can be.. something as simple as liking the way someone smiles or the look in their eye when they glance your way it doesn't necessarily always mean a physical attraction to the body etc

I think if there is no spark then it wont matter how good looking the person is if its not there its not there!

definetely it does affect, yiu can't consider sexi the fat!

Okay, personally I don`t think so.

I`m a 23 year old female, and I'm bigger. I'm currently 259 pounds. I`m curvy, big hips, *kitten*, and I have a chest. I don`t think that being `TINY, or MASSIVÈ" effects anything.

I know I'm a bigger lady but honestly does size really matter? You can be beautiful with a bigger or small body!

It all depends on the person. Personally, I don't find obese women attractive. I also don't find extremely skinny women attractive either.