How do you know if you're in the friend zone?

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Scumbag_Gil
Scumbag_Gil Posts: 397 Member
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What are the signs? How can you tell? Is it possible to get out?
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  • Alluminati
    Alluminati Posts: 6,208 Member
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    First!
  • AllOutof_Bubblegum
    AllOutof_Bubblegum Posts: 3,646 Member
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    You'll know the signs when you see them. They're not always the same, but they're usually pretty clear. And even if it were possible to get out of the FZ, (it usually isn't) why would you want to? Why would you want to fight to be in a relationship that the other person just isn't feeling?
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
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    No sexual banter, nudes, or sexting.
  • LolBroScience
    LolBroScience Posts: 4,537 Member
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    No sex, no sex, and alcohol
  • baba_helly
    baba_helly Posts: 810 Member
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    you don't have sex and you haven't seen her naked

    sorry brah

    eta: it might be possible to get out if she sees your junk and really likes it
  • AllOutof_Bubblegum
    AllOutof_Bubblegum Posts: 3,646 Member
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    You'll know the signs when you see them. They're not always the same, but they're usually pretty clear. And even if it were possible to get out of the FZ, (it usually isn't) why would you want to? Why would you want to fight to be in a relationship that the other person just isn't feeling?

    What if she's the one

    If she's FZed you, she's clearly not. Quit trolling.
  • mallorytravels
    mallorytravels Posts: 86 Member
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    If you think you might be in the friend zone, you're in the friend zone. Sorry.

    Stories of guys getting out of the friend zone are few and far between. You're best off taking a step back from your friendship with this girl until you resolve your feelings. Otherwise you might need to stop being friends entirely.
  • Mr_Bad_Example
    Mr_Bad_Example Posts: 2,403 Member
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    What are the signs? How can you tell? Is it possible to get out?

    Shouldn't you already know the signs?
  • Achrya
    Achrya Posts: 16,913 Member
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    hC380740D
  • Mr_Bad_Example
    Mr_Bad_Example Posts: 2,403 Member
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    You'll know the signs when you see them. They're not always the same, but they're usually pretty clear. And even if it were possible to get out of the FZ, (it usually isn't) why would you want to? Why would you want to fight to be in a relationship that the other person just isn't feeling?

    What if she's the one

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  • ge105
    ge105 Posts: 268 Member
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    I used to get friend zoned a lot. It was usually pretty easy to know- it went like this:

    Me: "I like you"

    Him: "Eeeehh..um... can we just be friends?"

    Me: "Ok sure"

    Done- I knew I was in the friend zone. Just talk to them.

    ps- two of these guys actually became my best friends in university- it doesn't have to be soul crushing, just don't take it too personally!
  • EmilyTwist1
    EmilyTwist1 Posts: 206 Member
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    hC380740D

    QFT
  • dnak17
    dnak17 Posts: 16 Member
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    You'll know the signs when you see them. They're not always the same, but they're usually pretty clear. And even if it were possible to get out of the FZ, (it usually isn't) why would you want to? Why would you want to fight to be in a relationship that the other person just isn't feeling?

    What if she's the one

    If she's FZed you, she's clearly not. Quit trolling.

    This.

    Also, since when did befriending a woman become such a bad thing?
  • Derp_Diggler
    Derp_Diggler Posts: 1,456 Member
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    If after brunch and the museum she won't watch a documentary with you, you've been F-zoned.
  • EmilyTwist1
    EmilyTwist1 Posts: 206 Member
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    There's a really simple way to find out. Tell her how you feel, then ask her how she feels.
  • DLDzioba
    DLDzioba Posts: 422 Member
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    When you befriend a person just to get sex, you're in the 'friend zone'. You are also an *kitten*.

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