How do you know if you're in the friend zone?

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  • smantha32
    smantha32 Posts: 6,990 Member
    And even if it were possible to get out of the FZ, (it usually isn't) why would you want to? Why would you want to fight to be in a relationship that the other person just isn't feeling?

    This.
  • EmpireBusiness
    EmpireBusiness Posts: 333 Member
    You know you're in the friend zone when a member of the sex you desire doesn't feel obliged to reward your acts of basic human decency with sexual favors.
  • smantha32
    smantha32 Posts: 6,990 Member
    You'll know the signs when you see them. They're not always the same, but they're usually pretty clear. And even if it were possible to get out of the FZ, (it usually isn't) why would you want to? Why would you want to fight to be in a relationship that the other person just isn't feeling?

    What if she's the one

    If she's FZed you, she's clearly not. Quit trolling.

    You obviously don't know anything about true love. I'm sure the more she gets to know me she'll feel the same.

    says people who spend years in the friend zone before wising up.
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  • LucasEVille
    LucasEVille Posts: 567 Member
    Just talk to her. Communication is the key.

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  • Achrya
    Achrya Posts: 16,913 Member
    When you befriend a person just to get sex, you're in the 'friend zone'. You are also an *kitten*.

    disagree

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  • EmpireBusiness
    EmpireBusiness Posts: 333 Member
    If after brunch and the museum she won't watch a documentary with you, you've been F-zoned.

    ^^This

    I would never watch a documentary, even if it had a 'happy ending.'
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
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    But, but, I AM A NICE GUY

    Hahaha.

    Except they're never nice guys. Nice guys don't become your friend for the purpose of getting to bang you. That's what manipulative creepy guys do.

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  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
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    But, but, I AM A NICE GUY

    Hahaha.

    Except they're never nice guys. Nice guys don't become your friend for the purpose of getting to bang you. That's what manipulative creepy guys do.

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    BUT I AM A NICE GUY, GIRLS JUST LIKE BAD GUYS THAT TREAT THEM POORLY. BECAUSE THEY ARE SL*TS AND LIKE BEING TREATED LIKE WH*RES. GIRLS DON'T KNOW HOW TO BE LIKE A LADY.
  • EmpireBusiness
    EmpireBusiness Posts: 333 Member
    Wow you guys got it all wrong. I'm not looking for just sex or a one night stand. Haven't even thought about that. Yeah she's really attractive but I want something beyond that. I want to feel wanted, cared for, loved. I would be happy to lay in her arms and feel all that.

    Weird. Based on your previous forum activities, I just assumed you wanted cute girls that took open drinks from strangers.
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    Just talk to her. Communication is the key.

    Yea because talking to a girl is soooooo easy. They just tell you what's on their mind! Hahaha

    Thought you were a go-getter, Gil.

    This girl is different man. I feel like I'm in the movie 500 Days of Summer :/

    Doesn't sound worth it. Find a girl that will put out easy. If you are a true scumbag like you say, you will do that.

    ^^This
  • patb987
    patb987 Posts: 44 Member
    Take control, make your move and leave it all on the table. My advice get tickets to a comedy show in your area, do a light dinner before, and kiss her after the show, and I mean kiss her, not some pansy *kitten* leaning in stuff and meeting half way. If she likes you at all, you will have a good night, if not, sorry she doesn't dig you, ,move on... Its not like she is just going to wake up some day and be like omg I like him so much now...
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  • Mr_Bad_Example
    Mr_Bad_Example Posts: 2,403 Member
    Wow you guys got it all wrong. I'm not looking for just sex or a one night stand. Haven't even thought about that. Yeah she's really attractive but I want something beyond that. I want to feel wanted, cared for, loved. I would be happy to lay in her arms and feel all that.

    So... you actually are looking for sex then.

    Or this.
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  • redheaddee
    redheaddee Posts: 2,005 Member
    You're not getting laid. Friend zone.
  • Rocket_Man44
    Rocket_Man44 Posts: 896
    Well you talk to them...then ask them out. If she accepts Allgood...if not you're friend zoned. Move on...plenty of fish in the sea..
  • EmilyTwist1
    EmilyTwist1 Posts: 206 Member
    Just talk to her. Communication is the key.

    Yea because talking to a girl is soooooo easy. They just tell you what's on their mind! Hahaha

    If you are not able to communicate completely honestly with her before a relationship starts, then you likely won't be able to do the communication necessary to keep the relationship healthy. Without it, you'll be in for a lot of drama and heart break.
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  • MelaniLight
    MelaniLight Posts: 738 Member
    Just talk to her. Communication is the key.

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    Hahahahahaaaaa! Sounds about right.
  • Phoenix__Rising
    Phoenix__Rising Posts: 9,981 Member
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  • LucasEVille
    LucasEVille Posts: 567 Member
    Wow you guys got it all wrong. I'm not looking for just sex or a one night stand. Haven't even thought about that. Yeah she's really attractive but I want something beyond that. I want to feel wanted, cared for, loved. I would be happy to lay in her arms and feel all that.

    So... you actually are looking for sex then.

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  • Biggirllittledreams
    Biggirllittledreams Posts: 306 Member
    hahahaha being sexist sucks eh?
  • NaomiNoel21
    NaomiNoel21 Posts: 30 Member
    It's simple. If she doesn't want to be with you romantically, she's not the one for you.
  • Rocket_Man44
    Rocket_Man44 Posts: 896
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    Hahhaa I have a friend whose exactly like this..!
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  • EmpireBusiness
    EmpireBusiness Posts: 333 Member
    The OP when he's outside the window of the girl he is stalki...err.. friend zoned with:

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