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  • Posts: 4,585 Member
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    ETA; FIFY
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    My question is, why? My friends list couldn't tell you anything at all about my sex life. Not because I'm prude, but because what's going on in my bedroom (as you put it) is nobody's business but mine.

    Something about a trap.

    I think.
  • Posts: 3,730 Member
    Did someone in this thread show her lace-covered *kitten* in a photo on MFP?
  • Posts: 8,680 Member
    I now know more about your sex life than my best friend of 36 years' sex life. But it's no one's business ...

    That does not sound like a best friend. You sure this person feels the same about you?
  • Posts: 495 Member

    thank you! :)
  • Posts: 3,194 Member

    That does not sound like a best friend. You sure this person feels the same about you?

    for all you people know, it could all be a big tangled mess of lies. but then again, maybe not. GIF me and whatever, but im not the ones commenting on a random person's stuff and taking it seriously
  • Posts: 16,414 Member

    for all you people know, it could all be a big tangled mess of lies. but then again, maybe not. GIF me and whatever, but im not the ones commenting on a random person's stuff and taking it seriously
    We're just glad you're not the town slut.
  • Posts: 3,194 Member
    We're just glad you're not the town slut.

    that's my friends job.
  • Posts: 5,214 Member

    for all you people know, it could all be a big tangled mess of lies. but then again, maybe not. GIF me and whatever, but im not the ones commenting on a random person's stuff and taking it seriously

    So you personally know that OP and you're actually the town slut?
  • Posts: 3,194 Member

    So you personally know that OP and you're actually the town slut?

    who knows these days
  • Posts: 4,585 Member

    that's my friends job.

    Nice way to talk about a friend.
  • Posts: 3,194 Member

    Nice way to talk about a friend.

    hey shes admits to it. says guys can do it why cant she
  • Posts: 21,219 Member

    hey shes admits to it. says guys can do it why cant she

    You have some screwed up double standards. A guy has sex with lots of girls and it's okay. Your friend has sex with a bunch of guys and she's a slut?
  • Posts: 3,194 Member

    You have some screwed up double standards. A guy has sex with lots of girls and it's okay. Your friend has sex with a bunch of guys and she's a slut?

    I don't call her that persay. She calls herself that to her friends and people who are mean to her because people judge her for having an entertaining lifestyle. Always take the joke upon yourself and it takes the fun away from the person who made fun of you
  • Posts: 2,516 Member
    Did someone in this thread show her lace-covered *kitten* in a photo on MFP?

    This was my initial thought, good thing it was lace underwear and not latex. You know, allergies and all.
  • Posts: 21,219 Member

    I don't call her that persay. She calls herself that to her friends and people who are mean to her because people judge her for having an entertaining lifestyle. Always take the joke upon yourself and it takes the fun away from the person who made fun of you

    Doesn't matter if your friend jokes about it, it's your job as her friend to have her back. That means not talking about her sex life or calling her a slut behind her back, even in joking.
  • Posts: 4,585 Member

    I don't call her that persay. She calls herself that to her friends and people who are mean to her because people judge her for having an entertaining lifestyle. Always take the joke upon yourself and it takes the fun away from the person who made fun of you

    If one of my friends called me the town slut to a bunch of strangers, we wouldn't be friends for much longer. But, then, my friends and I are nice to each other. It works out well that way.
  • Posts: 16,414 Member

    Doesn't matter if your friend jokes about it, it's your job as her friend to have her back. That means not talking about her sex life or calling her a slut behind her back, even in joking.
    I'm curious how all these people know about her sex life.

    I mean, I grew up in a small town and no one but those I told knew anything about my sex life. In fact, most people thought I was the sweet and innocent one in my group of friends and thought my VIRGIN friend was a slut (and I of course had her back, as you say).
  • Posts: 3,730 Member

    I don't call her that persay. She calls herself that to her friends and people who are mean to her because people judge her for having an entertaining lifestyle. Always take the joke upon yourself and it takes the fun away from the person who made fun of you

    I think you mean "per se"... but you don't actually mean "per se" either.
    What you mean is: "not to her face."
    And it appears that you are one of the mean people who judge her.
  • Posts: 3,730 Member

    This was my initial thought, good thing it was lace underwear and not latex. You know, allergies and all.

    HA! I'm glad you wondered that, too. I thought I might have been the only one! I'm sure that gem of a thread is long gone... would be cool to deny or confirm, though.
  • Posts: 779 Member
    Yeah but if you are single and want to be, I'm assuming you have no sex drive. In a relationship, you are at least guaranteed to get laid once in a while without even trying

    Not necessarily. Sometimes you just find an alternate way to deal with that sex drive that doesn't involve a relationship partner. That will vary between individuals. Some may choose to have casual partners ("Friends with benefits" seem to generally consider themselves not to be in a relationship), and some may go the abstinence route. Even if they do go the abstinence route, just because you're not doing something doesn't mean you don't have a drive to do it.
  • Posts: 3,194 Member

    I think you mean "per se"... but you don't actually mean "per se" either.
    What you mean is: "not to her face."
    And it appears that you are one of the mean people who judge her.

    No way! I've known her since I was five years old, silly. I call it to her face, but I dont do it as if I'm greeting her and say hey, slut, hows your day.
  • Posts: 4,941 Member
    I don't know... maybe it's just me, but I don't feel comfortable calling any woman a slut or a b***h or anything like that... even if they want to take that word and make it there own... It's just so demeaning to me..

    but that's my opinion on name calling...
  • Posts: 3,194 Member
    I don't know... maybe it's just me, but I don't feel comfortable calling any woman a slut or a b***h or anything like that... even if they want to take that word and make it there own... It's just so demeaning to me..

    but that's my opinion on name calling...

    I guess my close friends and I don't consider cuss words to be called at each other demeaning. We don't do it openly but if in convo in private or hanging out, yes
  • Posts: 1,492 Member
    Yeah but if you are single and want to be, I'm assuming you have no sex drive. In a relationship, you are at least guaranteed to get laid once in a while without even trying

    Nope. Not true.
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    Just the way I like it ^_^

    ahhhh exactly. Perfect!
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    Nope. Not true.

    Not even close to true lol. Opposite.
  • Posts: 2,008 Member
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    Just the way I like it ^_^

    I like you.

    My idea of a perfect home would be a gated estate... man(and woman) eating lions outside the gates.... on an island..... with man(and woman) eating sharks swimming in the water..... the land on the other side of the water would have a 10 mile radius mine field.....

    That's home.
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  • Posts: 2,008 Member
    Yeah but if you are single and want to be, I'm assuming you have no sex drive. In a relationship, you are at least guaranteed to get laid once in a while without even trying

    If you want something done right, do it yourself.
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