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  • p90x_Dude
    p90x_Dude Posts: 332
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    Now as always I have to speak up for the fellas, lately I've noticed a much more bold and assertive species of woman. Ones that have no problem telling a man who is a complete stranger what they want from him (usually it is not hugs/cuddles and sweet nothings). Is the tide shifting or is society just more tolerable to aggressive females?

    I also find that a lot of younger women my age and a bit younger (16-mid 20s maybe) are... a lot... how would say that.. promiscuous thats the word! hahaha They treat themselves as pieces of meat! I did once as well. With that being said

    Father figures these days are quite low... A father is a very important role and with a father missing or even a bad relationship with your father (like I had) you still need that male figure love. So where do girls turn? To guys looking to fill that void that their father never could.

    Im positive that the media plays a HUGE role in this as always! We are always being taught how to look and act from that and now a days it seems you cant watch a comedy movie (lots of others) with out there being nudity in it, or it being all about sex.

    Another reason I was very promiscuous was that my husband used to watch porn so I would try to compete with that. Women are very competitive and when the media is coming from all angles we (or at least I) felt that i needed to step it up to become desirable. had to compete with porn, media and other women. I thought the more sex I would give to my husband in any which way he wouldnt turn or look at any of that.. but of course that didnt work hahaha

    i dunno.. those are some of my theories and experience with it all.. Perhaps thats why women now act these ways *shrugs* Thank God, he took me from that state of mind!


    Hit the nail on the head. A good father shows a daughter what love is so every word of seduction from a predator won't work. Likewise good father shows his son what is means to treat a woman with respect even if sometimes she doesn't display that she deserves it. I'm teaching my son to NEVER disrespect (don't be stupid now) a woman whether with words or actions.

    dude... you totally rock, brother! Wish there more of us Y chromosone carriers with your attitude!
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    Amen bro, I owe it all to two people (Christ Jesus and an awesome father - I'm very fortunate)

    I can actually add to that, just a wee bit... the Good Lord, and both of my fathers! Aye yup, first the Dad who adopted me, and then much later in life, my genetic father. A guy couldn't have asked for 2 more wonderful, loving examples of how to be a man.

    Now that is awesome, you're definitely fortunate. Not too many people can say they were blessed with an awesome adoptive and biological father.
  • Loretta_Jo
    Loretta_Jo Posts: 609 Member
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    I was walking down the stairs at my sons condo….he was not far behind me. When we got to the bottom of the stairs my son told me that Mr. Jones was looking out his window checking me out. My son added Mr. Jones is 90.….to him you are a sweet young thing. :laugh:

    I have been checked out at Wal-Mart time or two. One man stared at my boobs so hard and with such big eyes that I wanted to slap his face….I turned around and walked away.

    LoJo :flowerforyou:
  • TamTastic
    TamTastic Posts: 19,224 Member
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    Well, my hubby was talking to a friend and told them "Yeah, Tami looks so great!! I feel like I'm bangin a supermodel!" :huh: :huh: :huh:

    Um, I GUESS that's flattering?????????????? :laugh: :laugh:
  • JeremyInvincible
    JeremyInvincible Posts: 264 Member
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    This thread is totally win.

    Wish I had been around to add to it.

    You folks completely rock. :wink: