women who dont shave

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  • theskinnyonme
    theskinnyonme Posts: 443 Member
    I am single and I admit in the colder months I dont shave. When its warm I shave, if I had a man, I d prolly shave...maybe lol
  • johnmurphymfp
    johnmurphymfp Posts: 2,590 Member
    I am single and I admit in the colder months I dont shave. When its warm I shave, if I had a man, I d prolly shave...maybe lol

    Are we talking legs and arm pits?

  • giggitygoo
    giggitygoo Posts: 1,978 Member
    Waxing solves all of the problems. No shaving, no stubble. Bare to fuzz and repeat.
  • jenny24012014
    jenny24012014 Posts: 83 Member
    zSandman wrote: »
    Huge turn off. Especially armpit hair. I attribute it with hygiene.

    Which is why all the men who don't shave their armpits are incapable of being anything but stinky and dirty.

    Personally I shave my armpits more often than my legs but get pretty hairy before I bother doing either. My husband seems to be able to suppress his gag reflex enough to still want to sleep with me.
  • People who disapprove of women with body hair are immature as hell. A body grows hair, if it wasn't natural, it wouldn't happen. There is nothing unclean about it, either, that's total crap. I find it hilarious when men say its gross and dirty - what about your own bodies then, huh? If you wouldn't touch a woman with body hair - why should she touch you? Why not keep yourself to the same standards?

    Preferring either or for aesthetic reasons is fine but that kind of child and uniformed attitude should be rectified when you grow up. I can't stand the 'taboo' that surrounds something as natural as body hair, particularly someone else's body hair. Shaming women who don't shave is just awful.

    It's everyone's decision to do what they want with their bodies, be it go completely hairless or be au natural and proud, and everything in between.

    Here's a fact: the reason women in the UK/US started to shave their bodies is because during the war (the second, I believe) they started marketing razors towards women in order to generate more money. Before that, women didn't shave. Of course, it varies in different cultures, but that's what happened in the West.
  • theskinnyonme
    theskinnyonme Posts: 443 Member
    I am single and I admit in the colder months I dont shave. When its warm I shave, if I had a man, I d prolly shave...maybe lol

    Are we talking legs and arm pits?
    Legs and shave armpits less often in the cold months.
  • zSandman
    zSandman Posts: 76 Member
    zSandman wrote: »
    Huge turn off. Especially armpit hair. I attribute it with hygiene.
    So you shave your pits then, or are you one of the gross people?

    Strong personal attack.
  • coffeeebeanzzz
    coffeeebeanzzz Posts: 17 Member
    I shave a few times per week! I don't necessarily think natural hair on women is gross. But personally, I am not a fan & would much rather be nice & smooth. I like rustic hairy guys though ahha:)
  • Silverdracos
    Silverdracos Posts: 110 Member
    My legs only really get shaved if they're going out in public. Because they're white and the hair from the knees down is dark. I didn't even do it very often for the swimming pool this year. I'm fine with armpit hair until you start sweating. Armpit hair dripping with sweat makes my skin crawl. And I keep mine shaved every few days or I get itchy.
  • LeenaJean
    LeenaJean Posts: 276 Member
    People who disapprove of women with body hair are immature as hell. A body grows hair, if it wasn't natural, it wouldn't happen. There is nothing unclean about it, either, that's total crap. I find it hilarious when men say its gross and dirty - what about your own bodies then, huh? If you wouldn't touch a woman with body hair - why should she touch you? Why not keep yourself to the same standards?

    Preferring either or for aesthetic reasons is fine but that kind of child and uniformed attitude should be rectified when you grow up. I can't stand the 'taboo' that surrounds something as natural as body hair, particularly someone else's body hair. Shaming women who don't shave is just awful.

    It's everyone's decision to do what they want with their bodies, be it go completely hairless or be au natural and proud, and everything in between.

    Here's a fact: the reason women in the UK/US started to shave their bodies is because during the war (the second, I believe) they started marketing razors towards women in order to generate more money. Before that, women didn't shave. Of course, it varies in different cultures, but that's what happened in the West.

    I truly love this <3
  • zilannoj
    zilannoj Posts: 138 Member
    I haven't shaved in years. I used to spend so long shaving and though I'll do it once in a while out of curiosity, I ask myself, "Why?" I understand why people think it's disgusting. It's just what we're conditioned to do. My mom would not allow me to shave when I was young but because all the girls around me were doing it, I wanted to be like that. I'd rather save time than do that again.
  • AgentRomanova
    AgentRomanova Posts: 54
    edited December 2014

    I truly love this <3

    Aw thank you, I'm just awaiting the backlash for expressing a feminist view on a forum now, lol.

  • LeenaJean
    LeenaJean Posts: 276 Member
    Hah, nah. I'll have your back :)
  • jasonmh630
    jasonmh630 Posts: 2,850 Member
    Every girl I've ever been with has shaved their legs and armpits, and either shaved/trimmed "other" areas... But it doesn't really matter to me. I don't think it's inherently gross, at all. It's her body and her choice. Plus, it wouldn't grow if it wasn't natural. There's nothing unhygeinic about it, unless the person doesn't bathe lol.
  • jasonmh630
    jasonmh630 Posts: 2,850 Member
    People who disapprove of women with body hair are immature as hell. A body grows hair, if it wasn't natural, it wouldn't happen. There is nothing unclean about it, either, that's total crap. I find it hilarious when men say its gross and dirty - what about your own bodies then, huh? If you wouldn't touch a woman with body hair - why should she touch you? Why not keep yourself to the same standards?

    Preferring either or for aesthetic reasons is fine but that kind of child and uniformed attitude should be rectified when you grow up. I can't stand the 'taboo' that surrounds something as natural as body hair, particularly someone else's body hair. Shaming women who don't shave is just awful.

    It's everyone's decision to do what they want with their bodies, be it go completely hairless or be au natural and proud, and everything in between.

    Here's a fact: the reason women in the UK/US started to shave their bodies is because during the war (the second, I believe) they started marketing razors towards women in order to generate more money. Before that, women didn't shave. Of course, it varies in different cultures, but that's what happened in the West.

    Coming from a male, I supoort this. Seems to be a body hair double standard these days.
  • swole_elsa
    swole_elsa Posts: 247 Member
    inb4 "ur all just ugly feminists that can't get a man"
    I see the "cooking and staying quiet" comment has already been made. B)

    I'll always remember in 8th grade, I had a friend named Faith who wouldn't shave or wear bras. She was bullied to no end. Hurts my heart to think about. Is this the kind of culture we want to create? Unaccepting, judgemental little *kitten* for children?

    I think of Faith every time I skip shaving my legs nowadays.. It's saved me so much time and money just doing my armpits. The only reason I do my armpits is because I don't like the feeling of sweat and hair there together. It's cut way down on my morning routine!
  • I really hate body hair on myself,but really not bothered about other people,aslong as personal hygiene is there lol.
  • bennettinfinity
    bennettinfinity Posts: 865 Member
    People who disapprove of women with body hair are immature as hell. A body grows hair, if it wasn't natural, it wouldn't happen. There is nothing unclean about it, either, that's total crap. I find it hilarious when men say its gross and dirty - what about your own bodies then, huh? If you wouldn't touch a woman with body hair - why should she touch you? Why not keep yourself to the same standards?

    Preferring either or for aesthetic reasons is fine but that kind of child and uniformed attitude should be rectified when you grow up. I can't stand the 'taboo' that surrounds something as natural as body hair, particularly someone else's body hair. Shaming women who don't shave is just awful.

    It's everyone's decision to do what they want with their bodies, be it go completely hairless or be au natural and proud, and everything in between.

    Here's a fact: the reason women in the UK/US started to shave their bodies is because during the war (the second, I believe) they started marketing razors towards women in order to generate more money. Before that, women didn't shave. Of course, it varies in different cultures, but that's what happened in the West.

    a) I've seen a lot of females commenting about it being 'gross and dirty' as well, why only calling out one gender?
    b) Agreed, it's awful to shame women who don't shave, but I question why it's OK to shame the people doing it
    I'm just awaiting the backlash for expressing a feminist view on a forum now

    Flamebait, perhaps?
  • obscuremusicreference
    obscuremusicreference Posts: 1,320 Member
    People who disapprove of women with body hair are immature as hell. A body grows hair, if it wasn't natural, it wouldn't happen. There is nothing unclean about it, either, that's total crap. I find it hilarious when men say its gross and dirty - what about your own bodies then, huh? If you wouldn't touch a woman with body hair - why should she touch you? Why not keep yourself to the same standards?

    Preferring either or for aesthetic reasons is fine but that kind of child and uniformed attitude should be rectified when you grow up. I can't stand the 'taboo' that surrounds something as natural as body hair, particularly someone else's body hair. Shaming women who don't shave is just awful.

    It's everyone's decision to do what they want with their bodies, be it go completely hairless or be au natural and proud, and everything in between.

    Here's a fact: the reason women in the UK/US started to shave their bodies is because during the war (the second, I believe) they started marketing razors towards women in order to generate more money. Before that, women didn't shave. Of course, it varies in different cultures, but that's what happened in the West.

    First, actually. And word to your entire post.

    Although I shave because I can't stand having stubble. I've had one boyfriend who shaved his legs/armpits and that had no bearing on our relationship.

  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    zSandman wrote: »
    zSandman wrote: »
    Huge turn off. Especially armpit hair. I attribute it with hygiene.
    So you shave your pits then, or are you one of the gross people?

    Strong personal attack.
    And a weak answer.

  • Bonustools
    Bonustools Posts: 56 Member
    Honestly it really grosses me out. If she doesn't care about hair growth chances are her business looks like a raccoon died and fell on her lap
  • therealblackdahlia
    therealblackdahlia Posts: 3,110 Member
    edited December 2014
    I'm not fond of leg and armpit hair on a woman, but to each their own!
  • inb4 "ur all just ugly feminists that can't get a man"
    I see the "cooking and staying quiet" comment has already been made. B)

    I'll always remember in 8th grade, I had a friend named Faith who wouldn't shave or wear bras. She was bullied to no end. Hurts my heart to think about. Is this the kind of culture we want to create? Unaccepting, judgemental little *kitten* for children?

    I think of Faith every time I skip shaving my legs nowadays.. It's saved me so much time and money just doing my armpits. The only reason I do my armpits is because I don't like the feeling of sweat and hair there together. It's cut way down on my morning routine!

    I was counting the comments it took until there was a 'quiet and in the kitchen' line. Humanity never fails me.

    As a girl who went through puberty a few years earlier than is normal, I had to deal with body hair from a very young age at a time when none of the other kids around me had even come close to puberty. I was bullied mercilessly for it and developed a complex about being hairless later in life, which wasn't helped by the fact my job as a model meant I was required to be clean shaven all over.

    People who bully girls who have body hair are total sh*tstains. Any kind of bullying sends you straight into the 'yup, complete d*ckbag' corner, but girls have to deal with an entire multi-billion dollar beauty industry that profits off their low self-esteem and constant media and societal bombardment telling them how to exist anyway, so little snot-nosed brats in schoolyards really don't need to be adding to that pressure.
  • ew_david
    ew_david Posts: 3,473 Member
    edited December 2014
    I would be so itchy, but if someone else wants body hair that's cool too.

    I wax/shave for my benefit...no one else's
  • LeenaJean
    LeenaJean Posts: 276 Member
    b) Agreed, it's awful to shame women who don't shave, but I question why it's OK to shame the people doing it

    Who is shaming people that shave?

  • First, actually. And word to your entire post.

    Although I shave because I can't stand having stubble. I've had one boyfriend who shaved his legs/armpits and that had no bearing on our relationship.

    Thank you! I couldn't remember which one it was.

  • lmarshel
    lmarshel Posts: 674 Member
    I had laser hair removal over the past 2 years, so I don't grow a lot of body hair any longer. I just have some white fuzzy hair on my legs, and I shave that about once a month or when it starts to blow in the wind when I cycle. LOL
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    BFDeal wrote: »
    Depends. Can she cook and is she quiet while the game is on?
    Yes and yes. And I can even make and bring you a drink!
    Kip----Yesss--napoleon-dynamite.gif
  • KGRebelRanch
    KGRebelRanch Posts: 109 Member
    inb4 "ur all just ugly feminists that can't get a man"
    I see the "cooking and staying quiet" comment has already been made. B)

    I'll always remember in 8th grade, I had a friend named Faith who wouldn't shave or wear bras. She was bullied to no end. Hurts my heart to think about. Is this the kind of culture we want to create? Unaccepting, judgemental little *kitten* for children?

    I think of Faith every time I skip shaving my legs nowadays.. It's saved me so much time and money just doing my armpits. The only reason I do my armpits is because I don't like the feeling of sweat and hair there together. It's cut way down on my morning routine!

    This made me think...
    First of all, I'm happily married. I shave daily. Yes, daily. So by most of those people-I am a very hygienic person.

    That being said, I don't always use shampoo to wash my hair, I don't typically wear deodorant, and I can be found in the exact same clothes daily for a solid week. I brush my teeth (with baking soda and peppermint oil) three times a day though.

    The good news for everyone about to say, "eeeew..."
    I rarely leave my property, so unless you're here to buy chickens or rabbits, you won't smell me and...
    I don't like people in my personal space so if im in public and you can smell me, I assure you that you are standing way too close to me.
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