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Why are you creating so much drama over nothing? If you aren't interested, just tell him that. Or write on your profile that you are not interested in that type of thing, and just unfriend anyone who violates your conditions.
Unless he sent you unsolicited nudes or wrote something very explicit with no provocation, he really didn't do anything "wrong". People don't just meet on dating sites or bars. People meet their spouses at work, on random internet sites (yes, even fitness sites), at the dentist office, the laundromat, wherever. If a person is interested, male or female, there is nothing wrong with taking a shot. Just take it as a compliment and say no thanks.0 -
Dayum... No one ever chats me up. Sure is great having an ugly face lol0
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Alatariel75 wrote: »
And here was me just about to hit on you. Sigh
I just want you for your sonic screwdriver0 -
Alatariel75 wrote: »
And here was me just about to hit on you. Sigh0 -
Oh, if y'all are into the sonic screwdrivers, hit a girl up!0
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Its all a bit presumptuous that the guys are a collective and are all out for dates. Ridiculous, dont tar everyone with the same brush OP. Its the internet, its a site with hundreds of thousands of users, they arent all the same.0
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Granted, there are better, more polite ways to go about it. Someone who quickly friends, makes a move, gets turned down and immediately un-friends the person who turned them away is most likely a creeper looking to hook up. Friend requesting someone JUST to hit on them? That's a no-go in my book.
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LiftAllThePizzas wrote: »Granted, there are better, more polite ways to go about it. Someone who quickly friends, makes a move, gets turned down and immediately un-friends the person who turned them away is most likely a creeper looking to hook up. Friend requesting someone JUST to hit on them? That's a no-go in my book.
In, to know as well.0 -
LiftAllThePizzas wrote: »River_Goddess wrote: »Missy081113 wrote: »Thank you all for the support. I don't believe anything I said should have gotten me any attitude from anyone. I think that I will discontinue the support from this site. I do not need negativity in my life. Thank you good luck and God Bless.
I sympathize and that is why I don't put my picture up. I get lots of "How you doin'?" and "dang, giiirrrrl" etc... yuck. Unfortunately, it's the culture we live in. It's our job as women to deal with unwanted advances from strangers, and learn to avoid/get out of uncomfortable situations, instead of their responsibility to not make advances on people they don't know, or detect what perhaps might make someone feel uncomfortable. It's super backwards and it sucks.
I'm hoping the OP comes back and tells us the story of how her fiance approached her when he first asked her out. He's lucky she didn't flounce
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<sighs> oh, the burdens we must bear.0
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LiftAllThePizzas wrote: »LiftAllThePizzas wrote: »River_Goddess wrote: »Missy081113 wrote: »Thank you all for the support. I don't believe anything I said should have gotten me any attitude from anyone. I think that I will discontinue the support from this site. I do not need negativity in my life. Thank you good luck and God Bless.
I sympathize and that is why I don't put my picture up. I get lots of "How you doin'?" and "dang, giiirrrrl" etc... yuck. Unfortunately, it's the culture we live in. It's our job as women to deal with unwanted advances from strangers, and learn to avoid/get out of uncomfortable situations, instead of their responsibility to not make advances on people they don't know, or detect what perhaps might make someone feel uncomfortable. It's super backwards and it sucks.
I'm hoping the OP comes back and tells us the story of how her fiance approached her when he first asked her out. He's lucky she didn't flounce
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I don't accept any friend requests, as that's not a part of this site I have interest in.
I did get a weird message nonetheless though from a guy who was like "Hey, chin up girl you're beautiful and you've got this," which was odd since I haven't posted anything indicating that I'm struggling with...well, anything, really. It was creepy and unwelcome, and I deleted it immediately.
If you also avoid the forums, and the pesky daily logging of everything you eat and do, it's actually pretty low maintenance.0 -
So, are we saying that it's bad to ask for noodz and a KIK name on the first exchange?
But, seriously, sometimes I wonder how people survive real life. Try walking past a construction site in NYC in the middle of the summer wearing a dress.0 -
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slideaway1 wrote: »
I can't help it!!
All those sweaty working men... If they didn't want to be cat called they should learn not to glisten in the sun like that.0 -
never2bstopped wrote: »slideaway1 wrote: »
I can't help it!!
All those sweaty working men... If they didn't want to be cat called they should learn not to glisten in the sun like that.
Brilliant!
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