girls who like bad boys.

cause nobody wants a pushover....you need a challenge

Agree with this, as much as I hate to admit it.

I know the combination of the bad boy with the "would do everything for you", cute good boy.

This is my husband. He is an a**hole. Not many people like him. But he is head over heels and would take a bullet for me. He might not be perfect, but he's perfect for me.

When you figure it out, let me know. I've loved more than one woman, who dumped me for some guy that treated her like *kitten*. Never understood it. Must be a self-esteem problem.

It's one of the reasons I treat my wife and daughters with such deference. I want my girls to see it, recognise it and expect it from the guys that they date.

If you date my daughter, get used to opening her car door, coming to my house to ask my permission. Just generally treating them as if they are special, because they are. If a boy needs help making these choices, I am there to guide them, if neccessary. Courtesy 101.

RoadDog, I'm expecting the exact same of whoever dates my daughter when she's older. Not only those things above, but they better get used to meeting and conversing with me. If you date my daughter, I will be sizing you up, and you will be under my microscope until I'm convinced you're genuinely treating her like the gem she is.

Not only that, I'll have my son kick your *kitten* if you don't.

A boy I hadn't met came to pick my middle daughter up. A "Bad Boy", if you will. He was picking her up for the Winter Formal. Didn't get up, when I walked in the room to introduce himself. Kind of sat on the couch with a tough guy sneer. I walked over to Tara and gave her a big hug and a kiss. We were standing up in front of the couch. I told her I loved her, and, as I was looking directly at him, I said, "I just want you to know that I value her personal safety more than my personal freedom or your personal health." His eyes got big, his jaw dropped and he said "I get it."

He never asked Tara out again. No loss.

My girls are all very pretty, very smart and expect respect. They also know I have no boundaries when it comes to insuring their well-being.

Ahh, you just predicted my future as a father.

You're completely right. However I refuse to send you money, you posted on a free forum! Zing! =P

By responding to my post on said free forum you have hereby entered into a de facto contractual relationship through a course of dealings and must now send me some serious buckage or face the consequences.

You have 20 seconds to comply....

You now have 15 seconds to comply...

....Crap!

*hides*

In my opinion it's about confidence. More often than not the bad boy has the confidence to go approach a woman he finds attractive and speak to her. Yes, it's more likely he's a player....but.... It's an ego boost to a woman if she is approached and asked out, complimented etc. So she goes for the bad boy.

Most nice guys I know are too shy to make the first move. But a lot of women are the same way. So...all you nice guys don't be afraid to put yourselves out there.

As for me, I prefer a nice guy with a dash of bad boy thrown in there. :bigsmile:

I've had players come onto me, and I've felt insulted by it! If they have a reputation for dating lots of women, it really isn't flattering or ego-boosting to be just another notch on the bedpost, no matter how good-looking they may be!

my man looks like a bad boy, rough, shaved head, tattoos and piercings, and hes no pushover, but hes sweet, sensitive, yet assertive. Perfect combo

my husband was the nice guy in high school, completely in love with me. i blew him off for 3 years before finally giving him a chance

I had to read this 3 times before I actually saw what it said. sometimes just glancing over one little word can change the whole meaning.....*sigh*

....Crap!

*hides*

Ha! You better run girly because I am coming for my money. Where's my money girl? Where is my moneeeeeey.

I suggest you find a Kyle Reese because "Listen, and understand! That Terminator is out there! It can't be bargained with. It can't be reasoned with. It doesn't feel pity, or remorse, or fear. And it absolutely will not stop, ever, until you are...."

I am not too old to tell my mother on you! You better watch out!

I have never liked the bad boys. I like the sweet caring, charming gentlemen :] & thats what I have! We've been dating 7 months today

Here here, congrats!

I hate tattoos and love ambition, intelligence and good looks = one happy Heather, almost 13 years now (2 yrs married)

[I am not too old to tell my mother on you! You better watch out!

And I'm not to young to sleep with your mother so you better watch out

I'm feeling generous. You have 24 hours but the debt has doubled. Don't make me get medieval on your *kitten*...

Tick tock, tick tock

[I am not too old to tell my mother on you! You better watch out!

And I'm not to young to sleep with your mother so you better watch out

I'm feeling generous. You have 24 hours but the debt has doubled. Don't make me get medieval on your *kitten*...

Tick tock, tick tock

I'm sorry, I'll be in the bathroom losing my breakfast. You're so gross! xD

I like "diamonds in the rough" You know, the bad boy looking, tattoo's on the outside but the the nice, sweet guy on the inside. Only because I'm the girl next door, take home to mother type with the wild bad girl on the inside that very few see! lol
p.s. and I LOVE tats......

This works the same for a guy...

Guys want to date and have sex with strippers or the equivalent. but when they are ready to settle down its not the stripper they end up going for. Its the sweet sexy well grounded woman.

Same goes for women

Bad boys are fun to fool around with, and because we are girls we get attached, but when we finally decided to be serious we look for someone a little more grounded and not so *kitten* holeish.


It also has to do with the fact that all of the movies, think vampire movies, grease etc.. the girl ACTUALLY tames the bad boy. doesn't work that way in real life. however women are constantly HOPING that love story will be theirs.

As for me. I prefer my husband. He is sweet as can be, but he knows just how to throw me around(in a good way) too! :blushing:

Thankfully all women don't fall into this category; liking bad boys. I cannot understand why anybody man or woman would want to be with somebody that treats them like *kitten*? Knowing that they will be dropped or cheated on?? Perhaps this stems back to their father daughter relationship or lack of one; I don't know.

I've been with my wife 23 years; married 20 of these. I was a nice guy; too nice I think but it worked for me. My wife didn't have to worry about me nor did I have to worry about her. Both respectable, caring and aware of each others feelings ... why would you want anything less?

Hey, if you like being treated like *kitten* then all the power to you. BUT you cannot complain if the relationship fails, ends in divorce, ends ugly and just down right sucks. It is what you signed up for and what you were looking for; take the bad with the bad.

There is a reason why we are good guys, because we are good. You want bad, a good guy can be "bad" if you know what I mean and you'll be more likely to find that out in a longer relationship then a short term bad one.