girls who like bad boys.

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  • fteale
    fteale Posts: 5,310 Member
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    Need to learn to ride a motorcycle.

    Oh no, you really are a nice guy and that's a VERY GOOD THING.
  • ESVABelle
    ESVABelle Posts: 1,264 Member
    Because I want a man who acts like more of a man than me...not even lyin
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    We'll join the Black Widows Carl.

    Sha na na na na na....

    :laugh:

    Our own version of wildhogsos.jpg

    :laugh:
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
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    Need to learn to ride a motorcycle.

    Oh no, you really are a nice guy and that's a VERY GOOD THING.

    :smokin: :flowerforyou:
  • prettypain
    prettypain Posts: 90
    I like the guy that LOOKS like a bad boy, but secretly is a nice guy. <3



    i so agree with this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • prettypain
    prettypain Posts: 90
    carl01.......yes a motorcycle rocks!!!!! i ride bike myself!!!
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    carl01.......yes a motorcycle rocks!!!!! i ride bike myself!!!

    Will a tractor work? :tongue:
  • Lyndzo
    Lyndzo Posts: 142
    I don't like bad boys. I've always been into "nerdy" nice guys. My b/f is the sweetest, nicest, NON bad boy.
  • milehighcritic
    milehighcritic Posts: 199
    Why are motorcycles associated with bad boys? I have been riding since I was 14 years old. I have never been confused for a bad boy. :) LOL.
  • JDMPWR
    JDMPWR Posts: 1,863 Member
    We'll join the Black Widows Carl.

    Sha na na na na na....

    :laugh:

    Our own version of wildhogsos.jpg

    :laugh:

    Why do I picture you two on Knight Rider Big Wheels?
  • prettypain
    prettypain Posts: 90
    carl01.......i prefer bike, but thats cool too......faster speeds on bike, but then again grass surfing is a load of fun also!!!!!!
  • RocketsGirl75
    RocketsGirl75 Posts: 648
    I like the guy that LOOKS like a bad boy, but secretly is a nice guy. <3

    :happy:
    that is the one that we all want!!
  • RocketsGirl75
    RocketsGirl75 Posts: 648
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  • RocketsGirl75
    RocketsGirl75 Posts: 648
    is there not a saying about "nice guys coming 2nd" ????

    Their girlfriends probably appreciate that....

    .... just sayin'

    ;)


    LMFAO!!! :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • wewon
    wewon Posts: 838 Member
    This is just my observations so take it with a grain of salt.

    I've experienced and witnessed this stage of dating that seems to take place mostly in the late teens early 20s crowd. In the extreme cases of the abusive knucklehead that everyone keeps descibing, the only women attracted to him are the disturbed and dysfunctional. Those women usually have too many issues to be taken seriously.

    My observation is that the "norm" is not nearly as dramatic, "bad boys" are typically more fun guys. Their first priority is to have fun and enjoy themselves. Its pretty easy to see why a woman would like them. The down side is that a personality like that is also one that shirks anything that is not "fun" i.e. responsible. The "nice guy" is usually just the opposite, he's responsible, level headed, and relaible. Unfortunatly, to your average 22 yo girl that is certainly not fun or exciting; although those are the traits that you want in your corner in the long run.

    Women usually outgrow their badboy phase only to replace it with baby-rabies or peer pressure to be married. For that reason I would warn my son about any woman that suddenly "woke up" and decided that she's outgrown bad boys out of concern that her motives aren't totally sincere.
  • TK266
    TK266 Posts: 3,638 Member
    I like the guy that LOOKS like a bad boy, but secretly is a nice guy. <3

    that like a guy saying he wants an angel in the living room and a demon in the bedroom. And then being disappointed to find a mere mortal in the morning.

    (I stole that line from the movie Valmont)
  • lbetancourt
    lbetancourt Posts: 522 Member
    Because I want a man who acts like more of a man than me...not even lyin

    amen to that!
  • InfamousQ
    InfamousQ Posts: 266 Member
    I seriously don't understand the attraction to big, bald, tattooed guys with motorbikes. Not a bit. I wouldn't look twice at someone like that, in fact, I'd cross the road to avoid them (yes, I am judgemental). They might be nice people inside, but I am put off by external projection of violence.

    I like a man I can converse with as an equal, who is clean, and can answer my endless random physics questions, and who lets me be me without questioning or trying to change me.

    You just basically just singled me out LOL :flowerforyou:

    Oh sorry. Didn't mean to offend. Looking at your avatar pic you don't look like the type I am talking about. Unless you walk around in leathers and have bad skull pictures tattooed all over your back.
    And smoke. Smoking is a BIG turn off.

    No offense taken I am big and bald I have some tattoos no skulls and I don't smoke....me in leathers ha ha ha ha ha never
  • nolachick
    nolachick Posts: 3,278 Member
    Why do we like bad boys? Do we like the sweet, cute boy down the street that would do anything for us? No. We like the boy that has the tattoos, a motocycle, and checks out other girls. He doesn’t call for a week, but then when he does… woah, that’s all we need, and we drop the nice, clean-cut boy who's waiting on you hand and foot. You know the one I’m talking about. The one that you have a hot, sexy 3 month, rendezvous with and then all of a sudden he’s dating his ex-girlfriend stripper? Maybe it’s all about attraction. Why cant we be attracted to the nice guy who’s good for us?

    No, seriously I want an answer, not a rhetorical question.

    oh boy i wish i knew! i'll read the comments later cuz i would LOVE to know the answer to that question. UGH!
  • nolachick
    nolachick Posts: 3,278 Member
    Cause your stupid. :wink:

    Women want to be that special woman that was able to tame the bad guy. That bad guy that would go from woman to woman and not feel a thing of for any of them but all of sudden can't keep their minds of you. Then when it doesn't work that way it frustrates you into what is wrong with you that he can't stop thinking of you when all you want to do is jump his bones as soon as he shows the slightest hint of interest. When it does work, that man is now broken and no longer out of your league.

    Stupidity. :drinker:

    I'm just talking out my rear. :drinker:


    LOL i think you're RIGHT ACTUALLY! i just wasted 10 months trying to do exactly what u just said. glad to know i'm not the only stupid one. lol.
  • kenzietea
    kenzietea Posts: 614 Member
    I used to like 'bad boys'... but it wasn't at all because I was attracted to the 'bad' aspect. 'Bad' boys typically are wonderful charmers. The kinds that say all the right things, do all the right things, pretend to be interested in everything you have to say until they have gotten all they want from you. Then you start to notice who they really are because they start to let their guard slip.

    When it comes to picking men you know are bad, its probably because a lot of us women have the 'fix it' syndrome. We are convinced we can be the ones to change said man, when the truth is- They can only decide to change for themselves.

    A lot of women grow out of it after being used or abused by some of these a-holes, some women are not as lucky. You need to pick a partner based on who they are right then, and not expect any major changes to happen. Its basically the same concept as if you are not attracted to brunettes, but you decide to date one hoping they will dye their hair blonde (although I don't know anyone who does this- because its STUPID-which is my point :P).

    My boyfriend now is a total sweetheart. He would do anything for me and frankly is a complete dork. He loved me when I was thicker, he loves me now as I am getting thinner, and he would never stray. He appreciates and respects me, which is the most amazing quality in a man. I guess I just finally grew out of my 'need to fix' and found someone that was already pretty awesome :) Basically, with a combination of maturity and some harsh life lessons, I think you will grow out of it. Men grow out of being jerks too, at least most of them. If I were you I would focus on YOURSELF right now. Don't worry about dating and allow yourself to mature and figure out what you want in a partner. Its hard not to acquire some baggage from 'bad boy-good girl' relationships, like trust issues etc, so if I were you stay away from men in general.

    Also, a note to men- especially the nice guys:
    NOT all women necessarily like 'bad' boys, but we also don't want you to be too introverted and awkward, either. Its truly difficult finding a balance where there is the right amount of bad (we like bad in areas such as the bedroom), and the right amount a good. We want someone who respects and appreciates us without losing qualities that make him manly. We don't want a push over and we crave the need to feel protected. Try to find your balance, because it is such a rare find... and biology usually wins us over when we pick the bad boy over the toooo good boy because the bad boy fills our biological needs- which history typically shows us biological needs win out almost all of the time over emotional needs. Try to be an emotional fulfiller and still be a man =) Okay, enough said!

    It pretty much has been proven that the womens subconcsious wants a Alpha male, a strong confident man, it has nothing really to do with changing the man as much as it does wanting a man that can be strong and protective, confident, a provider and a nurturer as well as a father that can provide you with children. Only in the last 30-40 years has the psychology shifted toward the idea of "changing or conquering the male and it's Alpha male ego or self worth"

    I said that as well, but as a woman and the reason I made the decisions I made in the past definitely had to do with my own ego. I thought I could be the one to change them. Definitely does not work =) and this particular 'bad boy' I am referring too- wasn't exactly bad in looks- it was his personality. In fact he was really skinny and in that sense was not biologically very masculine- so it definitely wasn't that. It was his complete jerk-off personality that truly swept me off my feet- LOL.
  • kenzietea
    kenzietea Posts: 614 Member
    no no... not grumpy at all actully. a guy is a guy. as someone else said.. the good guy hurt me worse then any bad boy ever did. men are men. period!

    That is so UNTRUE. That is like say all women are the same; gold digging, cheating, *****y "c" words. I don't believe that for one second as there are good woman and good men out there. It is too bad that you did not find this but they are out there and there are plenty of them.

    Yeah harsh words! My boyfriend is a wonderful man, and I have met other wonderful men. It sucks to have such a jaded perspective. Sorry you have been hurt in the past, but try to not be so bitter and you'd see nice guys everywhere.
  • decu68
    decu68 Posts: 78
    QUOTED BY milehighcritic:

    Why are motorcycles associated with bad boys? I have been riding since I was 14 years old. I have never been confused for a bad boy. :) LOL.

    I agree, why? And what is considered a bad boy motorcycle? Is it a Harley? Can other manufacturers like Honda, Suzuki, Yamaha, etc. be included in this? Is it just cruisers or can sport bikes be considered a bad boy bike? I ride a 2007 Yamaha YZF-R6; is that bad boy enough for the girls? LOL
  • Bridgidm2000
    Bridgidm2000 Posts: 21
    Personally, all bikes are fine with me. I grew up with a father who restores motorcycles and even has rare ones that museums beg him for. I hate it when some refers him/herself as a biker but it's just harleys.....a true "biker" sees beauty in all bikes. JMHO
  • clhiter
    clhiter Posts: 74
    naughtyl not bad......and image of this can be best, gentlemen are necessary for long life
  • FitFrenchGirl
    FitFrenchGirl Posts: 177
    back in my single days..I like bad boys and I would challenge them, cause watching a bad boy chase after a girl is kinda funny..:laugh: throws off there whole world when a girl doesnt call them or pay attention to them..make the guy want the girl more :bigsmile:
  • chrisdavey
    chrisdavey Posts: 9,834 Member
    Same question as decu68. Why is it only Harley's get the "bad guy" stigma? I've got a Jap sportsbike that's pretty mean and one tattoo and I don't think I fit the "bad boy" image at all haha. Some people just like to actually turn on their bikes as well :P

    Oh and I think it works both ways too. Sometimes guys get attracted to the bad girls even when they know it's not the best in the long run. Some guys will just go with it though?
  • mideon_696
    mideon_696 Posts: 770 Member
    according to the wife:

    she never wanted a bad boy, but didnt want a "super nice cute guy, who'll do anything anytime" kinda boy either...

    wound up with me...says i fall inbetween...hahahha. for the ultimate ego boost, she told me her friends all considered me to be a "real man"...lol. and they wished they could find someone like that...someone in between. not a bad guy, but not too soft either :)

    Man look at that post haha.

    Wife approves of it :p
  • kenzietea
    kenzietea Posts: 614 Member
    according to the wife:

    she never wanted a bad boy, but didnt want a "super nice cute guy, who'll do anything anytime" kinda boy either...

    wound up with me...says i fall inbetween...hahahha. for the ultimate ego boost, she told me her friends all considered me to be a "real man"...lol. and they wished they could find someone like that...someone in between. not a bad guy, but not too soft either :)

    Man look at that post haha.

    Wife approves of it :p

    Yep that is what we want. Masculine energy to balance out our feminine energy. At least generally speaking. Push overs are not at all sexy, but neither are extremely controlling. Balance is most desirable :)
  • BellySoonGone
    BellySoonGone Posts: 150
    Cause nice guys are so booooooooooooooooring

    Why do we like bad boys? Do we like the sweet, cute boy down the street that would do anything for us? No. We like the boy that has the tattoos, a motocycle, and checks out other girls. He doesn’t call for a week, but then when he does… woah, that’s all we need, and we drop the nice, clean-cut boy who's waiting on you hand and foot. You know the one I’m talking about. The one that you have a hot, sexy 3 month, rendezvous with and then all of a sudden he’s dating his ex-girlfriend stripper? Maybe it’s all about attraction. Why cant we be attracted to the nice guy who’s good for us?

    No, seriously I want an answer, not a rhetorical question.
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