Being hit on/flirted with?

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  • ilyahna2014
    ilyahna2014 Posts: 45
    I didn't read through all 19 pages of this thread, so perhaps my comment will have been expressed already.

    There is definitely a line between being 'flirted with' and being 'bombarded with insinuations." I used to not be a fat girl, and I would get that time and time again - "Hey girl, you looking good! Let's chill."

    Personally, I'm not interested in men that solicit my attention *just* because they like looking at me. However, I am not beyond being flattered, and my response to it has always been: "That is very flattering, thank you!" Smile. If they persist "Seriously, it's flattering and thank you, but I have a boyfriend (which I do)." If it goes on after that ... it's annoying, yes, but not in a way that makes me mad.

    :)
  • ilyahna2014
    ilyahna2014 Posts: 45
    Haven't been hit on or flirted with in years.

    How not? You are hot. :)
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  • BurntCoffee
    BurntCoffee Posts: 234 Member
    I can never tell when someone is flirting vs. being nice. I'm really nice to people and sometimes they think I'm flirting so I question that a lot when the position is reversed.
  • Derp_Diggler
    Derp_Diggler Posts: 1,456 Member
    What is this flirting you speak of?
  • ProfessorOwl
    ProfessorOwl Posts: 312 Member
    This must be some kind of theoretical concept that does not exist in my world.
  • blushpeonies
    blushpeonies Posts: 101 Member
    i don't think it exists in my world either.
  • Ilikelamps
    Ilikelamps Posts: 482 Member
    What is this flirting you speak of?

    i like your gluteus maximus and i wanna rest my head on it
  • spidey11186
    spidey11186 Posts: 141 Member
    What is this flirting you speak of?

    i like your gluteus maximus and i wanna rest my head on it

    I like your lamps and wanna rest my head on them
  • dinadeee
    dinadeee Posts: 217 Member
    hit on flirted with both. :(
  • indycoltz
    indycoltz Posts: 565 Member
    Never happens. It'd be nice if it would.
  • uggins311
    uggins311 Posts: 2,204 Member
    Couldn't tell ya, never happens to me either :(
  • Kiwi_Made
    Kiwi_Made Posts: 101 Member
    It never happens to me so I can't tell you, outside of online flirtng, which amounts to nothing.
  • pechepanda
    pechepanda Posts: 7,939 Member
    dont notice, dont care, too busy doing something else usually
  • StereophoneyGaz
    StereophoneyGaz Posts: 406 Member
    Entirely depends on the context and how aggressive it is, some people are using this site to try and pick people up which is wrong imo
  • monstalosta
    monstalosta Posts: 2,248 Member
    Nothin but a bunch of *kitten* and tramps up in here!
  • flrancho
    flrancho Posts: 271 Member
    Before it made me kind of uncomfortable. Honestly though, I'd appreciate it and even want it to happen now - I have't been looked at (don't think I've ever been hit on), in around ten years or so, and at 28 and still being single - I'm beginning to wonder if something is wrong with me and if I'll ever meet Mr. Right.
  • Melissa90xo
    Melissa90xo Posts: 1,020 Member
    OdesAngel wrote: »
    Boring. I just want the junk pics.

    :joy::joy: comment of the day!
  • arian10daddy
    arian10daddy Posts: 2,758 Member
    flrancho wrote: »
    Before it made me kind of uncomfortable. Honestly though, I'd appreciate it and even want it to happen now - I have't been looked at (don't think I've ever been hit on), in around ten years or so, and at 28 and still being single - I'm beginning to wonder if something is wrong with me and if I'll ever meet Mr. Right.

    That's just too much pessimism! Chill babe... Loose a little and loosen up a bit!
  • Noogsofthenorth
    Noogsofthenorth Posts: 138 Member
    Don't worry about being hit on, the time to start worrying is when you walk naked down the street and nobody notices lol
  • arian10daddy
    arian10daddy Posts: 2,758 Member
    Noogsofthenorth wrote: »
    Don't worry about being hit on, the time to start worrying is when you walk naked down the street and nobody notices lol

    LOL! that was too good! :smiley:
  • SummerLovin0x
    SummerLovin0x Posts: 481 Member
    I love being told i'm pretty, although no further !
  • s_y8s
    s_y8s Posts: 1,849 Member
    It makes me feel good. I was asked to dinner last week by a man at the grocery store. Of course I had to tell him I was married. Poor guy.
  • Noogsofthenorth
    Noogsofthenorth Posts: 138 Member
    edited May 2015
    Years ago every time I put my brolly up a man was under it
  • vickyaida
    vickyaida Posts: 27 Member
    I don't get hit on. Sad sad life.
  • arian10daddy
    arian10daddy Posts: 2,758 Member
    vickyaida wrote: »
    I don't get hit on. Sad sad life.

    awww poor soul.. here lemme hit on you! :P
  • BigEdge
    BigEdge Posts: 1,754 Member
    I am a serial flirt - I cant NOT flirt - i tone it down with some of my freinds wives/GF's, but i like women, and like thier attention - remember, even ignoring a person is a type of flirting....I appreciate when a woman will flirt back - it makes life fun ~
  • Tomm88
    Tomm88 Posts: 733 Member
    i'm happily take now but when i was single and out and about my friends would always have to tell me i was being flirted with, i had no clue. Afterwards they'd be like "she was totally into you man" .... i was like ohhhh never noticed:/....FAIL
  • musclegood_fatbad
    musclegood_fatbad Posts: 9,809 Member
    I take it as a compliment and move on with my life.
  • katnroyal87
    katnroyal87 Posts: 8,789 Member
    musclegood_fatbad wrote: »
    I take it as a compliment and move on with my life.

    Amen
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