Do you post "gym selfies?"

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  • nick40vmi
    nick40vmi Posts: 70 Member
    Troutsy wrote: »
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    Troutsy wrote: »
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    Troutsy wrote: »
    Man, people who post gym selfies are so full of themselves :wink:

    Since it is arguable your profile picture is a 'gym selfie' would you say you are "so full of 'yourself'"?

    I was being sarcastic...that was kind of the joke that my profile is a "gym selfie"

    Ah! So including your sarcasm, are you implicitly saying you do not believe a gym selfie is 'narcissistic' as the Brunel University study says? If this is true, would you care to elaborate?

    Am I narcissistic? No

    Am I proud of my achievements and how far I've come? Yes.

    It stands to reason that if one has a psychological problem they may be unaware of their own mind. In the case of this study, one may not know they are narcissistic, even going as far as to denying it, due to psycological issues that have arisen. Is this a legitimate pursuit?
  • nick40vmi
    nick40vmi Posts: 70 Member
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    Yeah, selfies are the worst!

    Since it is arguable your profile picture is a 'gym selfie' would you say your picture is "the worst!"

    That was the point. It was a joke. I think you might need this as well:

    high-horse.jpg

    And maybe this:

    troll.jpg

    Ah! So including your sarcasm, are you implicitly saying you do not believe a gym selfie is 'narcissistic' as the Brunel University study says? If this is true, would you care to elaborate?
  • TR0berts
    TR0berts Posts: 7,739 Member
    Congratulations. You've been reported for trolling.
  • Azexas
    Azexas Posts: 4,334 Member
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    Troutsy wrote: »
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    Troutsy wrote: »
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    Troutsy wrote: »
    Man, people who post gym selfies are so full of themselves :wink:

    Since it is arguable your profile picture is a 'gym selfie' would you say you are "so full of 'yourself'"?

    I was being sarcastic...that was kind of the joke that my profile is a "gym selfie"

    Ah! So including your sarcasm, are you implicitly saying you do not believe a gym selfie is 'narcissistic' as the Brunel University study says? If this is true, would you care to elaborate?

    Am I narcissistic? No

    Am I proud of my achievements and how far I've come? Yes.

    It stands to reason that if one has a psychological problem they may be unaware of their own mind. In the case of this study, one may not know they are narcissistic, even going as far as to denying it, due to psycological issues that have arisen. Is this a legitimate pursuit?

    How about instead of posting a blog article you post the actual study. Do you have some medical degree that allows you to make these inferences about other people?

    Me thinks OP likes to hear himself talk.

  • marthaelisa80
    marthaelisa80 Posts: 1,572 Member
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    TR0berts wrote: »
    Better question: who gives a flying F?

    Someone who may have a psychological problem. If the study holds true, then the problem may need to be addressed with someone who has the condition. Luckily, medical experts are very likely to be on hand to help. So if anyone feels they may fall under the category of people described in this study, do not fret, help is available.


    nick40ghs wrote: »
    LOL I guess the majority of the world is narcissistic because selfies are everywhere! Whether in the gym or not in the gym, someone is taking a selfie right at this very moment! Hmm, Okay got to go take a selfie! LOL

    A very generalized statement I might add.

    At what point is a selfie 'a photo meant to show- off' and at what point is it simply just 'a photo'?

    My point is, Does it really matter?

    Please see the post on "psychological problems"

    My education background is abnormal psyc. , I am fully aware of what the DSM states as criteria for a personality disorder. We can't based that off of post gym selfies. There are so many blogs out there with different info. Ive worked with narcissistic behavior before it's more than selfies/pictures. And this is a site where it is completely appropriate to post gym selfies to map progress. Inspiring others through our own struggles and victories is what keeps us going. keeps us motivated. Thanks for sharing your blog.
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  • nick40vmi
    nick40vmi Posts: 70 Member
    TR0berts wrote: »
    Congratulations. You've been reported for trolling.

    Excuse me, I'm here to stimulate a scientific and debatable topic that may require further understanding due to the recent findings of the Brunel University study. If you do not wish to view or be a part of this discussion, you are not required to engage in the discussion.
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    TR0berts wrote: »
    Congratulations. You've been reported for trolling.

    Excuse me, I'm here to stimulate a scientific and debatable topic that may require further understanding due to the recent findings of the Brunel University study. If you do not wish to view or be a part of this discussion, you are not required to engage in the discussion.

    Then where is the study so we can all see it and read it?
  • Rado_SVK
    Rado_SVK Posts: 442 Member
    If you take gym selfies twice a day and post..its wrong..if you take every now and then its ok...end of story
  • JengaJess
    JengaJess Posts: 109 Member
    edited June 2015
    I take selfies all the time. I take selfies when my hair looks good. I take selfies when I look great in an outfit. I take selfies when I see progress at the gym. I take selfies with my dog because she's the cutest.
    And you know why? Because I spent like 18 years hating myself and now I catch myself in the mirror and I'm like "dayum girl." And I post some of them on facebook because I want other people to see not only how I've changed physically but how I've changed emotionally.
    Ain't nothing wrong with loving yourself. I personally take a lot of joy in seeing other people express pride and love for themselves, as well. I think it's great. I give a lot of selfies, weight loss photos, outfit of the day photos a big ol like on facebook because we all deserve to love ourselves and feel good about it.
  • nick40vmi
    nick40vmi Posts: 70 Member
    yopeeps025 wrote: »
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    TR0berts wrote: »
    Congratulations. You've been reported for trolling.

    Excuse me, I'm here to stimulate a scientific and debatable topic that may require further understanding due to the recent findings of the Brunel University study. If you do not wish to view or be a part of this discussion, you are not required to engage in the discussion.

    Then where is the study so we can all see it and read it?

    I'm sorry to say the study is still in its preliminary phases. Dr. T. Marshall of the university has still yet to publish the work. Hopefully, it will be made available soon to help our understanding.
  • JenniferIsLosingIt
    JenniferIsLosingIt Posts: 595 Member
    I SURE DO! I am damn proud of my accomplishments and for those who say its a psychological problem, I say no. I used to have one because I refused to be photographed. I think that was way more of a problem than a gym selfie. Jesus people are so judgy!
  • TheVirgoddess
    TheVirgoddess Posts: 4,535 Member
    How is posting a gym selfie any different than a regular selfie? Social media is pretty much a vehicle for narcissism, isn't it? I don't see how this is different.

    And I've taken two gym selfies. One of my biceps (because they're awesome) and my profile photo, because it was a funny story.
  • gothchiq
    gothchiq Posts: 4,590 Member
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    Yeah, selfies are the worst!

    Since it is arguable your profile picture is a 'gym selfie' would you say your picture is "the worst!"

    That was the point. It was a joke. I think you might need this as well:

    high-horse.jpg

    And maybe this:

    troll.jpg

    Ah! So including your sarcasm, are you implicitly saying you do not believe a gym selfie is 'narcissistic' as the Brunel University study says? If this is true, would you care to elaborate?

    Absolutely. This should explain everything:

    post-22461-Hot-Dogs-Nostalgia-Chick-gif-TYRj.gif

    OMG! The Nostalgia Chick!!! :D:D:D
  • try4better128
    try4better128 Posts: 61 Member
    I think it depends on context. On a fitness site it makes sense. On Facebook it's tacky. Consider the medium used to distribute the selfie.
  • nick40vmi
    nick40vmi Posts: 70 Member
    It seems a previously posted question needs to be supplied again due to the nature of the discussion:


    Why does one post their accomplishments for people on social network when regardless if it is posted or not, your accomplishment remains intact?

    Responses are encouraged.
  • TheVirgoddess
    TheVirgoddess Posts: 4,535 Member
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    It seems a previously posted question needs to be supplied again due to the nature of the discussion:


    Why does one post their accomplishments for people on social network when regardless if it is posted or not, your accomplishment remains intact?

    Responses are encouraged.

    Because why not?

    Social media is for sharing your life. Fitness is part of my life.
  • nick40vmi
    nick40vmi Posts: 70 Member
    I think it depends on context. On a fitness site it makes sense. On Facebook it's tacky. Consider the medium used to distribute the selfie.

    Great point, so you're saying the vessel used to post the picture is appropriate based upon the websites genre?
  • MityMax96
    MityMax96 Posts: 5,778 Member
    I don't post my stuff to FB
    Only to here, or IG or over at BB.com......
    But I don't do my health/exercise/fitness stuff on FB page.
  • nick40vmi
    nick40vmi Posts: 70 Member
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    It seems a previously posted question needs to be supplied again due to the nature of the discussion:


    Why does one post their accomplishments for people on social network when regardless if it is posted or not, your accomplishment remains intact?

    Responses are encouraged.

    Because why not?

    Social media is for sharing your life. Fitness is part of my life.

    Excellent point, social media is an efficient way to keep people informed of one's activities. So this brings up another discussion:


    What kind of posting is healthy and unhealthy? Is their such a thing as healthy or unhealthy posting?
  • thesupremeforce
    thesupremeforce Posts: 1,206 Member
    I don't take selfies. Sometimes, I force someone else to take a picture of me. Does that make me more or less narcissistic than someone who takes selfies? Does frequency matter? Am I less narcissistic if I force someone to take a picture of me once per month than if I do it every week? I simply must know the scientific answer to these all-important questions.
  • Rado_SVK
    Rado_SVK Posts: 442 Member
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    It seems a previously posted question needs to be supplied again due to the nature of the discussion:


    Why does one post their accomplishments for people on social network when regardless if it is posted or not, your accomplishment remains intact?

    Responses are encouraged.

    Its a social media..where we supposed to socialize,especially if you live abroad away from your friends FB now days serves as a good tool to stay in touch just like Skype..And nothing wrong to post your achievement,for which you deserve to proudly present to your friends on social media..and perhaps to motivate..if you are a person with no issues you will easily see who has them..like so many ppl on here sadly...Im coming back to MFP forums after quite a long time and still Im disgusted to see so many profiles with ridiculous selfies that can almost be classified as nudity,where you have a typical MFP attention seeking guy that has been on here for years and if you check his pics all you see is pathetic narcistic selfies,which sadly show no progress..but never hesitates add some more to his posts already counting in thousands...Now that kind of ppl need help for sure
  • TheVirgoddess
    TheVirgoddess Posts: 4,535 Member
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    It seems a previously posted question needs to be supplied again due to the nature of the discussion:


    Why does one post their accomplishments for people on social network when regardless if it is posted or not, your accomplishment remains intact?

    Responses are encouraged.

    Because why not?

    Social media is for sharing your life. Fitness is part of my life.

    Excellent point, social media is an efficient way to keep people informed of one's activities. So this brings up another discussion:


    What kind of posting is healthy and unhealthy? Is their such a thing as healthy or unhealthy posting?

    I think that's going to vary wildly from person to person. And I don't think it's up to anyone else to determine for another person.
  • JengaJess
    JengaJess Posts: 109 Member
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    It seems a previously posted question needs to be supplied again due to the nature of the discussion:


    Why does one post their accomplishments for people on social network when regardless if it is posted or not, your accomplishment remains intact?

    Responses are encouraged.

    Because why not?

    Social media is for sharing your life. Fitness is part of my life.

    Excellent point, social media is an efficient way to keep people informed of one's activities. So this brings up another discussion:


    What kind of posting is healthy and unhealthy? Is their such a thing as healthy or unhealthy posting?

    I heard that posting a lot of carbs and sugar is unhealthy.
  • nick40vmi
    nick40vmi Posts: 70 Member
    I don't take selfies. Sometimes, I force someone else to take a picture of me. Does that make me more or less narcissistic than someone who takes selfies? Does frequency matter? Am I less narcissistic if I force someone to take a picture of me once per month than if I do it every week? I simply must know the scientific answer to these all-important questions.

    Good questions, does anyone care to elaborate?

    A suggestion though, keeping questions linked through the developmental growth of the discussion is typically easier to comprehend for the sake of the discussion. Keep questions less frequent and pose more when the question arises.
  • farfromthetree
    farfromthetree Posts: 982 Member
    I follow many people on Instagram who do constant gym/flexing selfies. I find these are the people who keep me on track, give great advice, and I also find them to be surprisingly humble.
  • nick40vmi
    nick40vmi Posts: 70 Member
    JengaJess wrote: »
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    It seems a previously posted question needs to be supplied again due to the nature of the discussion:


    Why does one post their accomplishments for people on social network when regardless if it is posted or not, your accomplishment remains intact?

    Responses are encouraged.

    Because why not?

    Social media is for sharing your life. Fitness is part of my life.

    Excellent point, social media is an efficient way to keep people informed of one's activities. So this brings up another discussion:


    What kind of posting is healthy and unhealthy? Is their such a thing as healthy or unhealthy posting?

    I heard that posting a lot of carbs and sugar is unhealthy.

    Hahaha you're Tom-foolery is amusing. Well done!
  • nick40vmi
    nick40vmi Posts: 70 Member
    I follow many people on Instagram who do constant gym/flexing selfies. I find these are the people who keep me on track, give great advice, and I also find them to be surprisingly humble.

    Interesting point. Would you say your motivation would primarily cease to exist without the 'gym selfies' of others?
  • farfromthetree
    farfromthetree Posts: 982 Member
    edited June 2015
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    I follow many people on Instagram who do constant gym/flexing selfies. I find these are the people who keep me on track, give great advice, and I also find them to be surprisingly humble.

    Interesting point. Would you say your motivation would primarily cease to exist without the 'gym selfies' of others?

    It may not cease to exist but it would certainly not be as strong. It is a constant daily motivator, and I look forward to hearing what they say or seeing what they're doing. roberta.saum on IG is a MFP'er who says something every day which strikes a chord with me.
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