Do u like getting flirted with?

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  • Farback
    Farback Posts: 1,088 Member
    I'm in pretty good shape for an old coot, a firefighter/alpha male type, and am one of a handful of males in a mostly female workforce at a rehab facility. Many of these ladies are nurses, and are quite 'direct'. We all flirt and have fun, but it's just that. It's harmless.

    Once though, years ago at my cousin's wedding, an old acquaintance wanted me to take her out to the car for a 'workout'. I declined, but for months afterwards my wife, who had met her and shared an occupation asked why we didn't invite her to visit. I finally had to explain. That closed that window.
  • undergloom
    undergloom Posts: 531 Member
    I can never determine whether someone's flirting with me; it's like a language that I just don't understand. My standard response is suspicion.
  • katnroyal87
    katnroyal87 Posts: 8,789 Member
    Bodypower2015 wrote: »
    Still waiting to experience MFP flirting, perhaps l'm not the flirting type :p

    Oh man I bet the pms are rolling in now that you said that!!
  • CharlieMurtagh
    CharlieMurtagh Posts: 1,742 Member
    flirting is human nature and as long as its fun and light then yes flirt away
  • 503ecc
    503ecc Posts: 82 Member
    katnroyal87 wrote: »
    Bodypower2015 wrote: »
    Still waiting to experience MFP flirting, perhaps l'm not the flirting type :p

    Oh man I bet the pms are rolling in now that you said that!!

    Lol... How many did you send him?
  • katnroyal87
    katnroyal87 Posts: 8,789 Member
    Bodypower2015 wrote: »
    Still waiting to experience MFP flirting, perhaps l'm not the flirting type :p
    503ecc wrote: »
    katnroyal87 wrote: »
    Bodypower2015 wrote: »
    Still waiting to experience MFP flirting, perhaps l'm not the flirting type :p

    Oh man I bet the pms are rolling in now that you said that!!

    Lol... How many did you send him?

    At least five. He hasn't returned any. I think I was too forward. Damn it. Oh well. Moving on...
  • ilfaith
    ilfaith Posts: 16,769 Member
    At my age, any bit of attention is flattering.
  • feithne
    feithne Posts: 60 Member
    honestly i just wish girls would flirt with me more. or at all. maybe i look too straight...
  • TigerLilly98a
    TigerLilly98a Posts: 1,051 Member
    Flirts......yep
  • ATLfalconsATL2
    ATLfalconsATL2 Posts: 78 Member
    Who doesn't?
  • greatghastlygreeneyes
    greatghastlygreeneyes Posts: 6 Member
    edited June 2015
    No. It makes me really uncomfortable, partially because it only ever seems to happen in weird places for me. For example, at work (I should mention here that I'm a cashier), or as I'm walking out of Goodwill with my newly purchased records and am followed to my car. I could name more specific examples, but mostly they just make me feel gross.
  • greatghastlygreeneyes
    greatghastlygreeneyes Posts: 6 Member
    undergloom wrote: »
    I can never determine whether someone's flirting with me; it's like a language that I just don't understand. My standard response is suspicion.

    Maybe this is my problem. I don't know. Maybe I just don't see the signs, and people take it as encouragement?
  • TheRealBill
    TheRealBill Posts: 28 Member
    ilfaith wrote: »
    At my age, any bit of attention is flattering.
    It will get better when you reach your late 20s
  • ccourcha
    ccourcha Posts: 316 Member
    SweetnSassyLady wrote: »
    I'm a Leo and we pretty much crave flirting.

    Leo in the house here too!
  • 503ecc
    503ecc Posts: 82 Member
    Wildflower0071 wrote: »
    mmmmmm what's considered flirting again? lol

    Depends on the recipient and the art of nuance.
  • 503ecc
    503ecc Posts: 82 Member
    I'm betting you already have a graduate level education in it.
  • Alisontheice
    Alisontheice Posts: 9,611 Member
    I'm 40 something no need to flirt with me…but I will try if it gets me something
  • smj60sj602
    smj60sj602 Posts: 72 Member
    Lol I like your style! I like it, confidence booster :)
  • Rob_in_MI
    Rob_in_MI Posts: 393 Member
    Who doesn't? As I get older I have noticed the flirting styles have changed. After 35 things became more "forward" on the ladies side.
  • blossomholly
    blossomholly Posts: 5,179 Member
    Depends on who's flirting with me :#
  • Alisontheice
    Alisontheice Posts: 9,611 Member
    robertrau wrote: »
    Who doesn't? As I get older I have noticed the flirting styles have changed. After 35 things became more "forward" on the ladies side.

    Are you saying we're desperate??? hahah
  • Rob_in_MI
    Rob_in_MI Posts: 393 Member
    Alisontheice wrote: »
    robertrau wrote: »
    Who doesn't? As I get older I have noticed the flirting styles have changed. After 35 things became more "forward" on the ladies side.

    Are you saying we're desperate??? hahah
    No, not at all. I've noticed most of the bs of my college days/20's has disappeared. Things have a way of "getting to the point" much quicker. I wish I could recoup all the free drinks from back in the day!
  • bainsworth1a
    bainsworth1a Posts: 313 Member
    yes if it is not creepy. I had a guy follow me around in the grocery store once and when he tried to talk to me I did not like it at all. A waiter flirted with me a couple weeks ago and I loved it. Even if he did it just to get a better tip it worked LOL
  • Alligator423
    Alligator423 Posts: 87 Member
    edited June 2015
    blossomholly wrote: »
    Depends on who's flirting with me :#

    Hate to admit it.
  • Alisontheice
    Alisontheice Posts: 9,611 Member
    robertrau wrote: »
    Alisontheice wrote: »
    robertrau wrote: »
    Who doesn't? As I get older I have noticed the flirting styles have changed. After 35 things became more "forward" on the ladies side.

    Are you saying we're desperate??? hahah
    No, not at all. I've noticed most of the bs of my college days/20's has disappeared. Things have a way of "getting to the point" much quicker. I wish I could recoup all the free drinks from back in the day!

    Haha. I loved the recouping free drinks...
  • tennileb
    tennileb Posts: 265 Member
    It's sooooo rare it's like asking me if I like unicorns. I've heard of it, but not sure I'd believe it if it happened
  • Lifeonmars2015
    Lifeonmars2015 Posts: 667 Member
    tennileb wrote: »
    It's sooooo rare it's like asking me if I like unicorns. I've heard of it, but not sure I'd believe it if it happened

    I don't believe you tennileb lol
  • Lifeonmars2015
    Lifeonmars2015 Posts: 667 Member
    Alisontheice wrote: »
    robertrau wrote: »
    Alisontheice wrote: »
    robertrau wrote: »
    Who doesn't? As I get older I have noticed the flirting styles have changed. After 35 things became more "forward" on the ladies side.

    Are you saying we're desperate??? hahah
    No, not at all. I've noticed most of the bs of my college days/20's has disappeared. Things have a way of "getting to the point" much quicker. I wish I could recoup all the free drinks from back in the day!

    Haha. I loved the recouping free drinks...

    Lining up the drinks!!!!
  • orangecrayon
    orangecrayon Posts: 293 Member
    Love it, but I have the type of personality where I jokingly flirt with basically everyone, so if anyone flirts back I generally assume it's in a friendly, joking manner. Gotten me into some odd situations....
  • bengal512
    bengal512 Posts: 179 Member
    Yeah heheh you throw it thinking nothing of it then when someone bites it's like whoa.

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