WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR JUNE 2015

Hi all!

Just got back from London. Coming back there were some rowdy women on the train and I asked the guard to say something. He didn't even try ! Pathetic! I then asked his name and he would only give his first name. I have just written an email complaining about him. We had an altercation with the women, but he didn't even open his cowardly mouth!

Other than that we had a pleasant day with LOTS of walking. London was heaving with people, but we struggled along the South Bank and had a lot of chat and many stops for refreshment. DH's twin sister is nice, but frustratingly passive in her attitude to life and has very little "get up and go". The granddaughter was fine and put up with us oldies very well. A worthwhile day.
DH always felt a bit different to his brother and sister and parents, but didn't know why. He was delighted to find Mary, but he finds her hard work and a bit of a puzzle. It was strange days when they used to separate twins. DH easily feels rejected and is extremely sensitive to criticism, but you can understand why. His adoptive parents did their best, but his mother was manic depressive and his father distant. He has largely come to terms with all that.

To the person who asked - my gorgeous granddaughter is 21 months. She is such a feisty character who loves playing with boys' things and is up for any challenge so it was so funny seeing her looking all dainty and ladylike!

Kim - remember it is YOU interviewing THEM for the job of suitor. :laugh:

Lisa - fab wedding! Adore the dress! :flowerforyou: Happy anniversary.!

Tired now. I only went over by 64 calories today so I am well within maintenance numbers. Walked for hours. Much prefer London when it's less busy, but we managed ok. Tomorrow a bit of garden tidying.

Yesterday's dinner, for those who asked was a garlic fest! Butternut squash, roasted, with my homemade pesto drizzled over. With king prawns tossed in a tiny bit of oil and then LOADS of garlic and fresh chilli. Green beans. Oh my! If I can find a full packet of frozen prawns we could have it again tomorrow as I have nearly half a squash left. :bigsmile: We nearly had a mutual O.

Mary - I feel for you! Don t understand the US system, but it sounds a bit complicated and exacting. My rental won't be able to be sold with a mortgage as the number of years on the leasehold is too low. It is also being sold "as is", i.e. not very good. I hope someone will buy it, though I know I will take a hit on it. :ohwell: Hope it all comes good for you.

Alison - enjoy your break!

Pip - my oh my, you do look different! Great to know Kirby loves you any old weight! My DH never said a word when I got fat, and was just as "attentive", but now he admits he does prefer me thinner!

Hope to sleep tonight, though the altercation might play on my mind. :ohwell:

Love Heather UK

KateKyi burned 1,261 calories doing 240 minutes of Cleaning, light, moderate effort.
This can not be right for the amount of calories surely? I decided it was kitchen spring cleaning time. When through every cupboard, scrubbed the walls and floor, washed the curtains and dishes. Now everything is nice and shinny. I am ashamed to say how dirty they had gotten during my depression. At least Im doing more.
Kate

@Heather - love your stories of London. It's like reading a great novel.

Hope you can let the train situation go and relax.

Janetr

KateKyi wrote: »

KateKyi burned 1,261 calories doing 240 minutes of Cleaning, light, moderate effort.
This can not be right for the amount of calories surely? I decided it was kitchen spring cleaning time. When through every cupboard, scrubbed the walls and floor, washed the curtains and dishes. Now everything is nice and shinny. I am ashamed to say how dirty they had gotten during my depression. At least Im doing more.
Kate

Way to go, Kate. One foot in front of the other, one day at a time and you will achieve your goals. Good job.

Janetr

Sylvia - I am so glad you and the kids are OK.So sorry for the van.

Lenora - I have not read anything by James Grippando. I'll have to check him out. Twenty-One in the Stephanie Plum series by Janet Evanovich came out fairly recently so if you decide you like her books you have a ways to go before you run out.

JanetMMcC - Yes, I have read and enjoyed Brother Cadfael. Thanks for mentioning 2 authors I have not tried. I can see this group of ladies is going to increase my reading.

Allison - I "read" the entire Stephanie Plum series via audio books as well. I used to worry the other drivers would think I was loony sitting in my car laughing. I had about a 4 hour commute (round-trip) every day. You can go through a whole lot of books listening to them in the car on a commute like that. My commute is now 1/2 hour each way but I still manage to listen to 2 books a week. Listening to books while driving has become a habit.

Mia in MI

this is a valentines poem that i wrote to kirby in 1997.
My Love For You

We've known each other for such a short period of time,
I never knew my subconscious was hoping you would be mine.
Looking into those blue eyes that day we first met;
I was captivated by those eyes, blonde hair & dimples but yet-
I didn't think I was ready for anyone new in my life.

What were the chances of meeting someone like you,
Not knowing where life was taking me to.
You've brought me into your world, you home and family;
to a small little town, a simple life I was hoping it would be.

Meeting Lenny to me was a once in a lifetime thing -
How could one feel so unlucky & yet have so much luck;
To have met two great men, back to back; I am trly awe struck!

Please be patient my love, my emotions will one day change,
Life will be different, things I will have to rearrange.
Not only my way; my thoughts & depression will be less & less -
But for you I will strive for the person I used to be,
Or just try to be my best.

You are so good, I am just too blessed to have met you
at the time that i did.
There was no reason for life, no reason to live.
You've made me want to give life a chance again,
I'm only happy when i'm with you, much more than a lover -
You are my most precious friend.

You understand when i feel down from time to time.
But you're always ready to put your hand in mine.
You knew what you had gotten yourself into, when we first met;
As time goes on, I hope this decision you won't regret.

No matter what language I may tell you -
Te Amo, Em Ou Ahn, Wa I Kneww, or simply Ze Tem -
Thank you Kirby for letting me live & Love Again.

HAPPY 1ST VALENTINE'S DAY - I LOVE YOU
2/14/97

janetr7476 wrote: »

@Pip - from the heart, bared your soul, made me teary.

actually it made me teary typing it again... haven't seen those poems in a long while. it shows me how far i've come since those days

Pip, the wedding pic is beautiful! So is the poem. Made me cry.

We have discovered a serious downside to not having the van. We can't carry all three dogs to the lake in hubby's little Acura. So, we came out to the cabin, just the two of us, so hubby could mow the grass, and will go back home soon.

We took the little guy to his tball game this morning. It was such fun! None of the kids have a clue as to what they are supposed to do, and no real skills, so it's very comedic to watch. At one point, though, the "pitcher" threw the ball to Ian on first base, and he CAUGHT IT! It was so unexpected that all the spectators on both sides gasped and cheered. He seemed surprised to find it in his glove, but there it was. So, he heard all the cheering and he pulled off his little hat and waved it in the air, like he was taking a little bow. Of course, the runner was already on the base by then, but that didn't matter.

At another point when his team (purple) was up to bat, one of Ian's teammates hit the ball out into center field (the longest hit of the game) and all 10 of the players in red shirts went running after it. It was hilarious. They reminded me of chickens somehow.

If you haven't watched a tball game lately, you should go find one to watch. Great amusement.

I was feeling fine this morning. No soreness really. The kids said they were all good too, so I guess we were really lucky. I overheard Ian telling his little friends about the big crash. It sounded much more dramatic when he told it.

Well, my battery is about dead. I hope you are all having a great weekend.

Sylvia

Good evening to all. Life has calmed down a bit as Goldy's son has arrived from out of state to help. I made it to yoga this am; had to leave to splash some water on myself as I was drenched in sweat half way through and a bit lightheaded. Finished up with the class after a short rest in some ac. It was HOT and humid in that gym..........pretty sure I won't be doing real "hot yoga" anytime soon.
Is anyone else watching the FIFA world cup soccer?? US is doing pretty well but I watched Japan beat Australia, was rooting for Australia.

Margaret......Enjoyed seeing the artwork from your book, neat!

Poop......Loved the bike "race" account. WOW!!! BTW........If I wasn't before (and I was), I am most definitely in the Kirby fan club after seeing the pic of him with long hair!!!! Hot stuff!!! Gorgeous!!! Be still my heart!
Appreciated seeing a pic of Lenny, also very handsome; thanks for posting the poetry for him, I can feel your utter despair in it. I am so glad Kirby touched your heart and you found happiness again. You deserve only the best.

Becca......Very lovely picture you painted of the view from your balcony!

Sylvia......So sorry about the accident; happy you are all OK; great jokes too.

Heather.......Sweet, sweet pic!!! Fabulous advice to Kim. Useless guard, I'd be angry too.

Sue.........Congrats on a successful move!

JanetM.......Enjoying the links to your articles. DH and my bestest friend from kindergarten both like Brother Cadfael. Epinephrine is Adrenaline; same drug as far as I know.

Lesley........I am so sorry for your daughter's node involvement.......((((((hugs))))))) to you both.

Mary......Terrible about the house issue; no advice, I know nothing about that subject......(((((hugs))))) to you too.

Lillian.......Glad to read that the fires are under control.

Kim........Loved you scamming the scammers!! That was brilliant!!

Cynthia........Fingers crossed that you continue to fight off the cold symptoms!!!

Lisa.....Gorgeous cake, gorgeous dress, gorgeous family!!! Happy anniversary!!!

terri.........Sounds like you are enjoying your vacation. Safe trip home.

Hunger is not an emergency.

yanniejannie
mid-Atlantic, storms today with tornado warning for a short time...soooo humid.....

Pip... hard to imagine the you that was heavy, glad Kirby helped you find your smile... you have amazing taste in men. Your poetry is filled with such heart and grace, as well. I love people who don't feel they have to hide.