"Too heavy" he said to me
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Woe ypu must be a real Men! Thank you6502programmer wrote: »Not all guys are like that, though you're lucky to find out before you became even more emotionally invested in him.. My wife has been a bigger gal ever since I met her, but she has put on fifty pounds more since having our son and being diagnosed with PCOS and hypothyroidism. I don't love her in spite of her weight--I her regardless of it. I am so proud of her that she's down 25 pounds since 7/1, and do everything I can to support her in her weight loss!
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He sounds like an *kitten* and you are better off without him. You have to do this for you, NO ONE ELSE! only you. I wish you all the best in your journey.0
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I know that must have hurt, I think it is better to find out sooner, than later, how a person's character is.0
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Girl you are gorgeous! Forget him.0
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I had that happen once. It was at the beginning of my weight loss and I'd already lost 17 lbs. He knew what I looked like and wasn't a small man himself. Let's see, the way he put it was "I'm attracted to a certain body type...more petite." I laughed and told him that even at my lowest weight, I wouldn't be "petite" and I was perfectly fine with that. I wasn't mad at him, I told him that I felt sorry for him because he might not ever know true love because he couldn't look past the exterior. He's been married twice since he went out with me.0
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Oh wow! Thank you for sharingwolfsbayne wrote: »I had that happen once. It was at the beginning of my weight loss and I'd already lost 17 lbs. He knew what I looked like and wasn't a small man himself. Let's see, the way he put it was "I'm attracted to a certain body type...more petite." I laughed and told him that even at my lowest weight, I wouldn't be "petite" and I was perfectly fine with that. I wasn't mad at him, I told him that I felt sorry for him because he might not ever know true love because he couldn't look past the exterior. He's been married twice since he went out with me.
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You are better off without him even though it hurts. Good to find out now instead of 9 months pregnant. There are worse things than being alone. I've seen them.0
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too bad you didn't take the low-brow well and go hey that's ok your penis was too thin for me0
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Yah! LOL! Tks Oh wow! Thank you for sharingwolfsbayne wrote: »I had that happen once. It was at the beginning of my weight loss and I'd already lost 17 lbs. He knew what I looked like and wasn't a small man himself. Let's see, the way he put it was "I'm attracted to a certain body type...more petite." I laughed and told him that even at my lowest weight, I wouldn't be "petite" and I was perfectly fine with that. I wasn't mad at him, I told him that I felt sorry for him because he might not ever know true love because he couldn't look past the exterior. He's been married twice since he went out with me.ldrosophila wrote: »too bad you didn't take the low-brow well and go hey that's ok your penis was too thin for me
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Yes you're correct Thank you!sistermargret wrote: »You are better off without him even though it hurts. Good to find out now instead of 9 months pregnant. There are worse things than being alone. I've seen them.
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You are so much better without him!0
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He is an idiot to say something like that to you, you are beautiful, and DON'T LET ANYONE tell you any different.
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He's not worth your time then anyway.0
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Something is odd here.... It doesn't take 4 months to see how 'heavy' someone is. There must be more to the story.0
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Yes! Is driving me crazy not knowing! Tksohmscheeks wrote: »Something is odd here.... It doesn't take 4 months to see how 'heavy' someone is. There must be more to the story.
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Your right. tksthorsmom01 wrote: »He's not worth your time then anyway.
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Thank you for your kind words!MarietjieHoward wrote: »He is an idiot to say something like that to you, you are beautiful, and DON'T LET ANYONE tell you any different.
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After 4 months of constantly seeing each other (no sex involved).... He decided I was too heavy to have a relationship with me... Big shock since he saw what I looked like before he met me. Sooo confused?!?! We had so much in common and alway had a blast when we were together.
In Cork (second largest city in Ireland), they have a great name for a guy like that.
He's a LANGER!
Onwards and upwards, don't let guys like this define you.0 -
Thank youwriterapril wrote: »You are so much better without him!
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