TRUE FACTS ABOUT PEOPLE YOU'VE DATED

All these stories make me want to start dating again.

I dated a guy that made less money than me. He always "forgot" his wallet and I paid for almost everything. He told me when we broke up that his goal was to bankrupt me because I was so proud of building my credit up.

02drinker wrote: »

I dated a guy that made less money than me. He always "forgot" his wallet and I paid for almost everything. He told me when we broke up that his goal was to bankrupt me because I was so proud of building my credit up.

omfg....

bemyyfriend0918 wrote: »

I've dated tons of great people *sarcasm*
Guy 1 - Wasn't allowed to pee standing up because his mother said so.
Guy 2 - Cheated and got a girl pregnant. Threatened to light my car on fire if I left him.
Guy 3 - Claims to want women who are professional, smart, and good looking, but left me and currently only dates women who are single moms without jobs, high school dropouts on welfare, or recovering drug addicts.
Guy 4 - Has a severe case of depression and doesn't leave his house.

Fun times...can't wait to see what guy five brings

How you doin ??? #5 is the charm.. :0)

jenovatrix wrote: »

The worst 3 months of my life were spent with a narcissist with extreme trust issues. Literally made me call him Christmas Day so I could 'prove' I was with my family and not out banging some other dude. Had $80k of student loan debt he had no intent on even trying to pay back, and was unemployed by choice - he claimed 'chronic fatigue' but always had energy for things he wanted to do. He was very proud of his ability to game the welfare system.

He also wrote terrible books he refused to edit, including one based on his father's experiences in the Vietnam War which is riddled with factual errors. He was a self-proclaimed expert on everything and wrote books on those topics, from how to have a good marriage (when he'd never been married) to how to lose weight (800 calories a day, which he tried to put me on). I really should have run the other way when he told me on our first date that he'd lied about his age - not 29 but 39!

The sex was amazing though.

This sounds like someone I dated once. Good that you got out of there!

The last 4 months of my life have been spent going back and forth with a textbook narcissist with trust issues. I've been called the worst names in the book (Effing c u next Tuesday, effing b*tch, I hope you effing die, you just like every other effing *kitten*, eff you, eff off, etc) and the worst thing I've ever done to him was play a Playstation game online with a fire team that didn't include him (because he didn't feel like playing - which unbeknownst to me meant I was not allowed to play at all).
He constantly dug into my past and insisted I tell him about every single guy I've ever dated, for how long, what kind of things we did together sexually, and most importantly: Who is better looking?
Whenever he'd come at me with some accusation of me cheating or lying, it wasn't ever a question but a "I know you are *kitten* so-n-so, you're a *kitten*! get out of my life! *kitten* you!!!!" and then I'd defend myself by telling him he's wrong, and tell me to stop fighting with me and that I love to fight and that's why I never let anything go. So I'd stop talking, and he'd keep going on and on about what a slut I am.
I looked up Narcissist Personality Disorder and he fits every single symptom. Controlling, trust issues, stonewalling, insecurity, inability to take responsibility for his own actions, obsessed with his image (will take steroids to be sure his muscles are always bigger than anyone he knows as well as Mark Wahlberg, since they have the same body type so he says), when he does something wrong he'll do everything he can to discredit the things I say. He insisted every girlfriend he's had in the past is crazy or has wronged him in some way. Whenever I tried to leave him he'd make up stories in his head that I've been banging someone else behind his back and its been going on for x amount of time and he knew I would do this to him and why do I want to hurt him so bad, I'm the worst person ever...

I could write a book I think.

Ok, so when I was 15. I was at the mall. A guy (he was 21) ran up, picked me up, said I was his, and carried me away to his car. Somehow this led to us actually dating. We did have friends in common. He said, "Don't worry about the age difference, my girlfriend before you was 13". I said that made me feel worse, not better. Geez! He had a fiance that committed suicide. He claimed that he had fought people to death. And he said that he could kill me and hurt me too. And he told me a story about how he claims that he cut a guys Achilles tendons because he had raped and beat his friend. He was weird in other ways that I don't know how to explain. He showed up at my dance recital in shredded clothes and said he had been attacked on the way there. And he was overly affectionate with me in front of my mother and grandmother. He went with me to my semi-formal. And he was dancing with me in a really weird and creepy way. I said some guy was laughing at us. Hoping he would stop. But instead he watched until the guy went into the bathroom and followed him and threatened him with a knife. I really hope that didn't happen. But, I guess it's highly likely that it did. Geez!!! I was scared to break up with him that's why I stayed. Because of all the violence and scary violent stories and what-not. Also he said he would commit suicide if I broke up with him. That was weird. I almost forgot about that until I was reading these stories. Because it was so long ago. I don't know why I am even telling this story.