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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,492 Member
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    I was once dating a girl and she said to me: "I love you."

    At least that what it sounded like at the time.

    I soon realized that she had muttered: " I loathe you."



    .... that's kinda different.



  • JessicaJS23
    JessicaJS23 Posts: 1,863 Member
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    Motorsheen wrote: »
    I was once dating a girl and she said to me: "I love you."

    At least that what it sounded like at the time.

    I soon realized that she had muttered: " I loathe you."



    .... that's kinda different.




    I think the second is more exciting!!!
  • Misscarpainter
    Misscarpainter Posts: 10 Member
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    Motorsheen wrote: »
    How many minutes have you two been dating?
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    How many minutes have you two been dating?
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    How many minutes have you two been dating?

    262800.288 minutes and counting
  • Riffraft1960
    Riffraft1960 Posts: 1,984 Member
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    MarkusDarwath wrote: »
    Women always over-think this communication thing, always wanting to figure out "what's he really mean," etc. Guys are simple creatures and we prefer direct and clear communication. If you feel it and want to say it, then say it. And whatever he does or doesn't say in return, just take it at face value. There is no secret code to decipher.

    This. I think men, myself in particular, don't understand subtlety. Hints, implication, etc. go right over our heads. Just tell him. If he returns it great, if he doesn't at least you know where he is.
  • Tonydevolanii
    Tonydevolanii Posts: 658 Member
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    Get me out of 15 year old please
  • DetroitDarin
    DetroitDarin Posts: 955 Member
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    If you don't know how to tell someone you love them you probably don't love them. If you are with someone who might be startled to find out you love them you are with somebody emotionally immature. :(
  • VanishingNachos
    VanishingNachos Posts: 5,688 Member
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    To the OP. Forcryingoutloud.... Don't tell him anything or he will RUN!
  • CincyNeid
    CincyNeid Posts: 1,249 Member
    edited August 2016
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    Oral is the best way. ....


    Honestly. We're simple. Don't hint, don't drop clues. Just flat out tell him.
  • deadliftsandnoodles
    deadliftsandnoodles Posts: 312 Member
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    Definitely oral. Men love oral
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,592 Member
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    get another boyfriend

    do not dump this current boyfriend though just get another one on the side

    it will all become clear after
  • jaxass
    jaxass Posts: 2,128 Member
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    Words are cheap, so don't tell him....SHOW him.
  • Lonestar5715
    Lonestar5715 Posts: 466 Member
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    When you can no longer contain the words then it is time to say it no matter who goes first or fails to respond.
  • upoffthemat
    upoffthemat Posts: 679 Member
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    If he is a guy that is worth having a relationship with telling him won't be a big deal.

    If it is all about playing games and who should say it first and all that other BS, you are pretty much in a doomed relationship as it is.

    What kind of relationship do you want? A mature one or a high school one?
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
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    Well, to gauge if he loves you too, start showing up where he is unexpectedly. If he asks you why you are stalking him, you know he doesn't love you.
  • AmandaHugginkiss
    AmandaHugginkiss Posts: 486 Member
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    devil_in_a_blue_dress wrote: »
    Well, to gauge if he loves you too, start showing up where he is unexpectedly. If he asks you why you are stalking him, you know he doesn't love you.

    This can backfire. It's how I ended up married.

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