Is porn ruining expectations about sex?
kevinf2380
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Do you feel the need to live up to porn movie type sex when dating?
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I mean anytime I cook a pizza I always cut a hole in the middle of it now.13
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Am I the only one that complains I ordered extra meat on my pizza or what0
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Sugar_Pill wrote: »kevinf2380 wrote: »Do you feel the need to live up to porn movie type sex when dating?
Like- the acting or the boning?
Boning, for girls especially. A lot of times there's like zero foreplay.2 -
Sugar_Pill wrote: »Caporegiem wrote: »I mean anytime I cook a pizza I always cut a hole in the middle of it now.
I'm always disappointed when pizza don't have the little round tables in the middle
I never see those on pizza anymore, I used to play with those all the time when I was a kid but some *kitten* pizza box engineer must have figured out a way to not need them anymore.0 -
Just wondering if women ever feel like they have to live up to what women do in most porns to please men.1
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Look we can get a case of 1000 of them for under $9
http://www.webstaurantstore.com/choice-pizza-box-stack-1000-case/485RPS1M.html?utm_source=shopping.com&utm_medium=cpc&utm_term=485RPS1M&utm_campaign=disposables4 -
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Sugar_Pill wrote: »kevinf2380 wrote: »Just wondering if women ever feel like they have to live up to what women do in most porns to please men.
I think men place unrealistic expectations on women because of porn though- at least a decent percentage of them.
That's where I was going. Just wondering how often woman feel that way.
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I don't understand the appeal of porn.
I watched it continuously today for five hours straight trying to understand it's popularity.
.... and you know what? Applesauce; that's what.
I reckon that I'll need to try again tomorrow.9 -
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When you derail a thread about porn..are you a good guy or a bad guy in mods eyes?7
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Great. Now I'm craving pizza and porn.6
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Naa, just curious. How often can you get a woman's opinion on something like that?1
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Sugar_Pill wrote: »jessiferrrb wrote: »Great. Now I'm craving pizza and porn.
On the round table
I feel like we're on the cusp of a million dollar idea0 -
So if there's a hole in the pizza, and one of these are in the center...is it not essentially a cawk block?
Okay back to OP, seems like it varies from partner to partner. It can be overdone definitely, but no harm in learning a few new moves.1 -
Because of the easy availability of porn for youth to obtain, girls are reporting more aggressive and painful first time or repeated experiences than previous generations because boys don't view pornography as sensationalized and unrealistic like the fantasy it was created to be.
Not unlike romance novels and movies that create unrealistic expectations of how men treat women.
Both are fantasy and can harm relationships when they create expectations that partners either cannot or will not fulfill.
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GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »Sugar_Pill wrote: »Caporegiem wrote: »I mean anytime I cook a pizza I always cut a hole in the middle of it now.
I'm always disappointed when pizza don't have the little round tables in the middle
when I was a kid I use to try to set my pizza on there...it never worked. I always hated the pizza company for such a crappy prize in the pizza box. At least with chinese food I got a fortune...and a cookie.
We always cleaned them off and used them as tables for our barbies/assorted toys. It was awesome.2 -
I've actually read up on the subject and the consensus seems to be yes. Young guys who don't know better think sex is actually like that. Ugh, no thanks. It comes across gross rather than romantic and hot to me. Watch if u like but don't expect me to get involved lol. The kama sutra is more useful if you need ideas.3
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So it's not a good idea to lead off with a full nelson and spit on your partner? Well I'm off to go write some apology letters.3
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Caporegiem wrote: »Sugar_Pill wrote: »Caporegiem wrote: »I mean anytime I cook a pizza I always cut a hole in the middle of it now.
I'm always disappointed when pizza don't have the little round tables in the middle
I never see those on pizza anymore, I used to play with those all the time when I was a kid but some *kitten* pizza box engineer must have figured out a way to not need them anymore.
My brothers and I would beat the *kitten* out of each other for who got the "table" and also for who got the piece with the freakishly large crust bubble.
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JessicaJS23 wrote: »Caporegiem wrote: »Sugar_Pill wrote: »Caporegiem wrote: »I mean anytime I cook a pizza I always cut a hole in the middle of it now.
I'm always disappointed when pizza don't have the little round tables in the middle
I never see those on pizza anymore, I used to play with those all the time when I was a kid but some *kitten* pizza box engineer must have figured out a way to not need them anymore.
My brothers and I would beat the *kitten* out of each other for who got the "table" and also for who got the piece with the freakishly large crust bubble.
Man I was about to say crust bubbles are another thing I never see anymore, but I usually order thin crust so that probably explains it. Hopefully pizza engineers haven't eliminated crust bubbles.0 -
Why are people making me hungry late at night? AAAHHH! I'm going to bed before I start eating things.1
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I've got 350 calories left for the night
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Caporegiem wrote: »JessicaJS23 wrote: »Caporegiem wrote: »Sugar_Pill wrote: »Caporegiem wrote: »I mean anytime I cook a pizza I always cut a hole in the middle of it now.
I'm always disappointed when pizza don't have the little round tables in the middle
I never see those on pizza anymore, I used to play with those all the time when I was a kid but some *kitten* pizza box engineer must have figured out a way to not need them anymore.
My brothers and I would beat the *kitten* out of each other for who got the "table" and also for who got the piece with the freakishly large crust bubble.
Man I was about to say crust bubbles are another thing I never see anymore, but I usually order thin crust so that probably explains it. Hopefully pizza engineers haven't eliminated crust bubbles.
They only seem to exist in pizzerias. Thank god there's a place here in my town that's run by a guy from Brooklyn. I won't eat any chain stuff (except dominoes thin crust philly cheese and veggie) as long as they are around.
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kevinf2380 wrote: »Do you feel the need to live up to porn movie type sex when dating?
No. Personally I don't. Someone else mentioned porn isn't really for women as most don't care about it enough to even watch it alone. It's a fantasy for men. I don't feel the need to live up to something or someone I could never be.
I've not watched many in my life, just did it to appease the bf at the time. In my limited experience most porn isn't made for women. Even lesbians porn isn't made for lesbians women. There's actually a funny YouTube video of real lesbians watching lesbians porn and it's hilarious. Pretty much they all said it's made for men.
Women porn tends to be romance novels. And I'm not talking about that 50 shades drivel bc that poorly written garbage was a pitiful excuse for writing let alone smutty romance.
Men are generally visually stimulated while women tend to be mental. Men want a strip tease. Women want a strip tease after a romantic dinner and few love you's. We still want your body. Just woo us a little first
**generally speaking, not all the time. We like our quickies too. **
I generally believe men want porn stars for gfs in bed. Women want the perfect book boyfriend in bed. (ladies you know the kind I mean). I think usually it's understood that both are fantasies and that's why we escape through them.
If you find that dream fantasy in real life you hold on for dear life to that one 2
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