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  • NorthCascades
    NorthCascades Posts: 10,968 Member
    PlaydohPants wrote: »
    This is just sad now

    It's like an ad for birth control!
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    BellaCosta17 wrote: »
    Yes I did very scary

    Oh that's scary. Where you swimming at the time?
  • Sharsou
    Sharsou Posts: 8,849 Member
    BellaCosta17 wrote: »
    That's ok.. No worries

    Then y looking for FWB, y not some stable relationship?
  • xmichaelyx
    xmichaelyx Posts: 883 Member
    edited September 2016
    chamzlila wrote: »
    However, i have been seeing someone for the past few weeks who has proven to be a very lovely and geuine guy. We both don't want to be in a relationship with anyone but we do still have a lot of physical attraction and talked about juat having a purely physical relationship.

    You're lying to yourself. You obviously already have feelings for the guy. You shouldn't be looking for an F-buddy who's "geniune and lovely" -- that's already more than an FWB.

    FWB always works out until someone develops feelings, and then it become a dramatic disaster and someone (usually the woman in my experience, but YMMV) gets hurt.

    You're better off with random hookups.

  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    PlaydohPants wrote: »
    This is just sad now

    now?

    .... what about 3 pages ago?
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  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    xmichaelyx wrote: »
    chamzlila wrote: »
    However, i have been seeing someone for the past few weeks who has proven to be a very lovely and geuine guy. We both don't want to be in a relationship with anyone but we do still have a lot of physical attraction and talked about juat having a purely physical relationship.

    You're lying to yourself. You obviously already have feelings for the guy. You shouldn't be looking for an F-buddy who's "geniune and lovely" -- that's already more than an FWB.

    FWB always works out until someone develops feelings, and then it become a dramatic disaster and someone (usually the woman in my experience, but YMMV) gets hurt.

    You're better off with random hookups.

    this pretty true
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  • adiaz155
    adiaz155 Posts: 83 Member
    Friends with benefits works if you don't give two *kitten* for your friend emotionally. It'll work if your invested emotionally in someone else. Then it's just side *kitten*
  • chamzlila
    chamzlila Posts: 189 Member
    xmichaelyx wrote: »
    chamzlila wrote: »
    However, i have been seeing someone for the past few weeks who has proven to be a very lovely and geuine guy. We both don't want to be in a relationship with anyone but we do still have a lot of physical attraction and talked about juat having a purely physical relationship.

    You're lying to yourself. You obviously already have feelings for the guy. You shouldn't be looking for an F-buddy who's "geniune and lovely" -- that's already more than an FWB.

    FWB always works out until someone develops feelings, and then it become a dramatic disaster and someone (usually the woman in my experience, but YMMV) gets hurt.

    You're better off with random hookups.

    I wasn't lying to myself at all.

    I ended things with him and unexpectedly met someone pretty amazing. And that is that
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