Feeling unattractive?

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  • KrazyDaizy
    KrazyDaizy Posts: 815 Member
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    total_e wrote: »
    KrazyDaizy wrote: »
    I usually prance around like a hot to trot little donkey and then I see a picture and realize I'm actually just the donkey. C'es la vie. *trots away wiggling my donkey tail*

    Not sure why, but this made me smile.

    Cuz who can't smile at a damn donkey.
  • rebel_26
    rebel_26 Posts: 1,826 Member
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    total_e wrote: »
    KrazyDaizy wrote: »
    I usually prance around like a hot to trot little donkey and then I see a picture and realize I'm actually just the donkey. C'es la vie. *trots away wiggling my donkey tail*

    Not sure why, but this made me smile.

    me too !
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,841 Member
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    Meh. I feel kinda fat and old today.
    Luckily I have no one I need to impress, so there is that.
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    edited October 2016
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    I used to think and speak very negatively about myself. But, a friend did an intervention. She sort of gave me lessons and instructions on not doing that, taking compliments, and compiling a list of positives to counteract it. I'm lucky to have had some good friends. But, actually I realize that you have to see yourself as having value. That's what's actually most important. Though it's still good if it's possible to stop distorted thinking. I just wanted to say this last thing on this particular topic/issue. It's not advice to anyone, just myself.
  • JeffreyMGiron
    JeffreyMGiron Posts: 3,582 Member
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    Im ugly, but it aint stopping me from doing whatever i want...and if someone wants this, i make sure to swing them by an Eye wash station just so they make sure its what they want, dont want any false advertisement, compromising our night out.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,492 Member
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    I just hang out with extremely ugly people.

    By comparison, I look like a movie star.

    Somehow it works.
  • amcalmond768
    amcalmond768 Posts: 289 Member
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    Motorsheen wrote: »
    I just hang out with extremely ugly people.

    By comparison, I look like a movie star.

    Somehow it works.
    Oh please! Your profile pic screams sexpot!!!
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,492 Member
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    Motorsheen wrote: »
    I just hang out with extremely ugly people.

    By comparison, I look like a movie star.

    Somehow it works.
    Oh please! Your profile pic screams sexpot!!!

    it's the burrito that I'm holding in my right hand, isn't it?
  • amcalmond768
    amcalmond768 Posts: 289 Member
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    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    I just hang out with extremely ugly people.

    By comparison, I look like a movie star.

    Somehow it works.
    Oh please! Your profile pic screams sexpot!!!

    it's the burrito that I'm holding in my right hand, isn't it?

    It's the whole package!! The glasses and shirt really do it for me!!!
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,492 Member
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    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    I just hang out with extremely ugly people.

    By comparison, I look like a movie star.

    Somehow it works.
    Oh please! Your profile pic screams sexpot!!!

    it's the burrito that I'm holding in my right hand, isn't it?

    It's the whole package!! The glasses and shirt really do it for me!!!

    thing is.... I look almost exactly like that

    'cept most of my shirts are blue

  • amcalmond768
    amcalmond768 Posts: 289 Member
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    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    I just hang out with extremely ugly people.

    By comparison, I look like a movie star.

    Somehow it works.
    Oh please! Your profile pic screams sexpot!!!

    it's the burrito that I'm holding in my right hand, isn't it?

    It's the whole package!! The glasses and shirt really do it for me!!!

    thing is.... I look almost exactly like that

    'cept most of my shirts are blue
    Soooooo should I slip you my digits boo???
  • rowlandsw
    rowlandsw Posts: 1,166 Member
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    Yep. I avoid looking at photos or reflections of myself whenever i can. Getting compliments puts me on guard too. Losing weight might help but not much.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,492 Member
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    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    I just hang out with extremely ugly people.

    By comparison, I look like a movie star.

    Somehow it works.
    Oh please! Your profile pic screams sexpot!!!

    it's the burrito that I'm holding in my right hand, isn't it?

    It's the whole package!! The glasses and shirt really do it for me!!!

    thing is.... I look almost exactly like that

    'cept most of my shirts are blue
    Soooooo should I slip you my digits boo???

    That's gotta be the alcohol talking on a Friday night.....
  • amcalmond768
    amcalmond768 Posts: 289 Member
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    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    I just hang out with extremely ugly people.

    By comparison, I look like a movie star.

    Somehow it works.
    Oh please! Your profile pic screams sexpot!!!

    it's the burrito that I'm holding in my right hand, isn't it?

    It's the whole package!! The glasses and shirt really do it for me!!!

    thing is.... I look almost exactly like that

    'cept most of my shirts are blue
    Soooooo should I slip you my digits boo???

    That's gotta be the alcohol talking on a Friday night.....

    Lmao not at all sir!
  • NowyTends
    NowyTends Posts: 110 Member
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    low self esteem/self worth/self image coupled with an overactive mind means on the rare occasion i am given a compliment i always question the motivation behind it; even amidst the knowledge that doing that is a result of LSE. I'm sure many others are in the same boat.

    We all seem to want to rebel against societal norms regarding what is good/is not good and how we see ourselves, but we are just as quick to forget that when making judgement of others.
  • jayjay5549
    jayjay5549 Posts: 103 Member
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    Bear I want you to think of this does he make you happy if so then you and him to talk if not find out what will make you happy happiness is one of the most precious things in life.
  • rowlandsw
    rowlandsw Posts: 1,166 Member
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    If you get a compliment from your significant other just not and whatever you do don't suggest they need therapy, glasses, or better taste in men lol.
  • AestheticStar
    AestheticStar Posts: 447 Member
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    I definitely have days where I just feel "blah" about everything, from the way clothing fits, to how my make-up is etc. It comes & goes for me. I try not to tear myself apart the way I used to years ago, I've certainly gotten better with it & just accepting myself how I am. But for sure, I have good & bad days.