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  • Jimb376mfp
    Jimb376mfp Posts: 6,236 Member
    jaimebruckler wrote: »
    I love seeing NC so well represented!!!! That's awesome!

    I'm your neighbor to the North, Hampton Roads area of VA.

    Hey!
  • siraphine
    siraphine Posts: 185 Member
    Unmarried, but happily committed. I typically steer clear of this section because I feel out of place. Too much flirting for my liking.
  • pyro_guy7
    pyro_guy7 Posts: 104 Member
    siraphine wrote: »
    Unmarried, but happily committed. I typically steer clear of this section because I feel out of place. Too much flirting for my liking.

    @siraphine It's called "encouragement" :lol: But yes, it can get feisty out there.
  • jetrok
    jetrok Posts: 64 Member
    Hello everyone
  • jaysfan1
    jaysfan1 Posts: 66 Member
    Hi there @pyro_guy7 and @devilwhiterose
  • StelleInCielo
    StelleInCielo Posts: 619 Member
    MFO3 wrote: »
    Hello all

    Hi back.
  • SCoil123
    SCoil123 Posts: 2,111 Member
    Ugh!!! Venting here real quick. I love this man completely but for the past 2 days I am over it. I want him gone so that I can clean and have things stay clean. He makes more clutter and mess than the kids. I really thought that when I took over as bread winner and he was home he would pick up the slack at home with chores but instead he just makes more of a mess for me to clean.
  • shrcpr
    shrcpr Posts: 885 Member
    SCoil123 wrote: »
    Ugh!!! Venting here real quick. I love this man completely but for the past 2 days I am over it. I want him gone so that I can clean and have things stay clean. He makes more clutter and mess than the kids. I really thought that when I took over as bread winner and he was home he would pick up the slack at home with chores but instead he just makes more of a mess for me to clean.

    I so get this! I can come home after he's been home a while and figure out every single thing he's done, looked at, used, and opened while I was gone by what's left out and open and what's on the counters/floor/table/chairs. You'd think after 28 years I'd be used to it. I'm not. But, I'm pretty sure I've got some things that irritate him, too. Probably that I put everything away that he's sure he left on the counter. :)
  • DarleneReid577
    DarleneReid577 Posts: 4,401 Member
    shrcpr wrote: »
    SCoil123 wrote: »
    Ugh!!! Venting here real quick. I love this man completely but for the past 2 days I am over it. I want him gone so that I can clean and have things stay clean. He makes more clutter and mess than the kids. I really thought that when I took over as bread winner and he was home he would pick up the slack at home with chores but instead he just makes more of a mess for me to clean.

    I so get this! I can come home after he's been home a while and figure out every single thing he's done, looked at, used, and opened while I was gone by what's left out and open and what's on the counters/floor/table/chairs. You'd think after 28 years I'd be used to it. I'm not. But, I'm pretty sure I've got some things that irritate him, too. Probably that I put everything away that he's sure he left on the counter. :)

    OMG are you me ?
  • TechAaronLoyd
    TechAaronLoyd Posts: 339 Member
    shrcpr wrote: »
    SCoil123 wrote: »
    Ugh!!! Venting here real quick. I love this man completely but for the past 2 days I am over it. I want him gone so that I can clean and have things stay clean. He makes more clutter and mess than the kids. I really thought that when I took over as bread winner and he was home he would pick up the slack at home with chores but instead he just makes more of a mess for me to clean.

    I so get this! I can come home after he's been home a while and figure out every single thing he's done, looked at, used, and opened while I was gone by what's left out and open and what's on the counters/floor/table/chairs. You'd think after 28 years I'd be used to it. I'm not. But, I'm pretty sure I've got some things that irritate him, too. Probably that I put everything away that he's sure he left on the counter. :)

    This is my wife. She leaves a trail of trash everywhere. I am the cleaner of our family.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    devilwhiterose wrote: »
    SCoil123 wrote: »
    Ugh!!! Venting here real quick. I love this man completely but for the past 2 days I am over it. I want him gone so that I can clean and have things stay clean. He makes more clutter and mess than the kids. I really thought that when I took over as bread winner and he was home he would pick up the slack at home with chores but instead he just makes more of a mess for me to clean.

    I have a whiteboard on the fridge that's the "to-do" list. Husband and I both work full-time but we share the chores. Often, he'll be standing in a mess going..."Uhhhh, what needs to be done?" I tell him to go look at the list. It's cut and dry. :D



    If we were married, I would just hide your lil' whiteboard.

    This weekend MOSAF asked that I compose a To Do list. I took a sheet of paper and wrote the word: "Nothing" on it.

    ..... I then checked it off.




    ( btw... MOSAF stands for Minister of Sex and Finance; we're married.)
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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    united1974 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    devilwhiterose wrote: »
    SCoil123 wrote: »
    Ugh!!! Venting here real quick. I love this man completely but for the past 2 days I am over it. I want him gone so that I can clean and have things stay clean. He makes more clutter and mess than the kids. I really thought that when I took over as bread winner and he was home he would pick up the slack at home with chores but instead he just makes more of a mess for me to clean.

    I have a whiteboard on the fridge that's the "to-do" list. Husband and I both work full-time but we share the chores. Often, he'll be standing in a mess going..."Uhhhh, what needs to be done?" I tell him to go look at the list. It's cut and dry. :D



    If we were married, I would just hide your lil' whiteboard.

    This weekend MOSAF asked that I compose a To Do list. I took a sheet of paper and wrote the word: "Nothing" on it.

    ..... I then checked it off.




    ( btw... MOSAF stands for Minister of Sex and Finance; we're married.)

    Hope you don't go through many periods of forced austerity dude

    Do you know how some football teams have a shut-down corner back?

    Well.....
  • devilwhiterose
    devilwhiterose Posts: 1,157 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    devilwhiterose wrote: »
    SCoil123 wrote: »
    Ugh!!! Venting here real quick. I love this man completely but for the past 2 days I am over it. I want him gone so that I can clean and have things stay clean. He makes more clutter and mess than the kids. I really thought that when I took over as bread winner and he was home he would pick up the slack at home with chores but instead he just makes more of a mess for me to clean.

    I have a whiteboard on the fridge that's the "to-do" list. Husband and I both work full-time but we share the chores. Often, he'll be standing in a mess going..."Uhhhh, what needs to be done?" I tell him to go look at the list. It's cut and dry. :D



    If we were married, I would just hide your lil' whiteboard.

    This weekend MOSAF asked that I compose a To Do list. I took a sheet of paper and wrote the word: "Nothing" on it.

    ..... I then checked it off.




    ( btw... MOSAF stands for Minister of Sex and Finance; we're married.)

    Har Har Har. :p

  • Jimb376mfp
    Jimb376mfp Posts: 6,236 Member
    @Motorsheen
    Your MOSAF reminded me of a guy you uses TOL when referring to his DW.

    The Old Lady
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    Broomstick_Boo wrote: »
    Still married. Pretty happy. Still worth working hard for.

    It is work at times.
    I am happy mostly.
    I am still married too.

  • Marqiiz
    Marqiiz Posts: 707 Member
    Hello, so I'm on 6pm-6am shift. Would highly appreciate messages from married chit chatters.
  • Cusneddie
    Cusneddie Posts: 45 Member
    Married 20 years
  • solquest1976
    solquest1976 Posts: 125 Member
    Married for 16 years. Hard work but, worth it. Been a stay-at-home mommy for 4+ years & we have young 3 children. I can't relate to chore lists. We discuss what our expectations from each other are & so long as we agree that they're reasonable, we just follow through...whether it has to do with the house, money, etc. It's not perfect by any means but, the happy times surely outweigh the bad ones by far.
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    solquest1976 wrote: »
    Married for 16 years. Hard work but, worth it. Been a stay-at-home mommy for 4+ years & we have young 3 children. I can't relate to chore lists. We discuss what our expectations from each other are & so long as we agree that they're reasonable, we just follow through...whether it has to do with the house, money, etc. It's not perfect by any means but, the happy times surely outweigh the bad ones by far.

    Nice to meet you and see you here. I have also been married for 16 years (in relationship for 18). Two daughters 9 & 12.
  • RJ0274
    RJ0274 Posts: 4,173 Member
    Married for 31 years, but would love to chat with others and maybe compare experiences.
  • solquest1976
    solquest1976 Posts: 125 Member
    RJ0274 wrote: »
    Married for 31 years, but would love to chat with others and maybe compare experiences.

    That's BEAUTIFUL!! How do you continue to keep things interesting? Travel, long talks, ice cream in bed?Inquiring minds want to know!
  • no_russian
    no_russian Posts: 893 Member
    Married recently (Sept) with a 5 moth old girl. Haven't slept well in awhile.
  • ShaeDetermined
    ShaeDetermined Posts: 1,525 Member
    Hey all!
    Married for 18 yrs, 5 kids
    Wonder what size white board I'd have to get ....

    Somehow though, there's always time for chatting ;)
  • serenityfrye
    serenityfrye Posts: 360 Member
    jaimebruckler wrote: »
    I love seeing NC so well represented!!!! That's awesome!

    Been a Midwesterner for a decade now but before that I was in Winston - Salem.
  • bigmuney
    bigmuney Posts: 284 Member
    Married 14 years and bored lol
  • RebekahAnn88
    RebekahAnn88 Posts: 46 Member
    Happily married and enjoy chatting! Yes it does seem like most of the chit chat is focused with singles, glad to know someone else feels the same way!
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