Can not lose weight

pattysanderson71
pattysanderson71 Posts: 21 Member
edited November 13 in Health and Weight Loss
First time posting here and first time ever posting anything!!! I am wondering if there is anyone else out there that feels like therebia truly something wrong because no matter what I just can't lose weight! I have made my diary public and have posted for 50 days. Please feel free to have a look. However, I have been struggling my whole life with this. I am 45 yrs old 5'2". You name a diet I bet I tried it!! But this past year I have been seeing this as a life style and workin hard on calorie counting and excercise. Delt with Thyroid issues finally got my levels somewhat normal. Thyroid issue explains why I didnt lose over the summer with all my hard work. However since Sept still no results. For the past 3 weeks i have been aiming for 1000 calories a day and track very well. Some days I go over but I still track. I stopped eating my exercise calories I do 40 60 mins cardio 5 to 6 times a week +1/2 hour of weights 5 to 6 times a week I have an office job so sit 8 hrs a day.
I am so frustrated!!! There are weeks I have been perfect and can not lose!!! I know myself when I dont deserve to see results but I have been doing so well for awhile now
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  • pattysanderson71
    pattysanderson71 Posts: 21 Member

    I feel I should he losing at least 2lbs a week!!! Any help??
  • Dano74
    Dano74 Posts: 503 Member
    Why do you feel that way?

    General soapboxery: Weight loss isn't always linear. Readjust expectations and enjoy the ride. If you're consistent, you'll find success over time. It's a long game.
  • diannethegeek
    diannethegeek Posts: 14,776 Member

    1. If it's been less than 3 weeks or so, don't sweat it! Normal fluctuations happen and unfortunately sometimes we stall for a week or two even when we're doing everything right. Give your body some time to catch up with the changes you're making.

    2. If you aren't already, be sure that you're logging everything. Sometimes people forget about things like veggies, drinks, cooking oils, and condiments. For some people these can add up to enough to halt your weight loss progress.

    3. Consider buying a food scale if you don't already have one. They're about $10-$20 dollars in the US and easily found at places like Amazon, Target, and Walmart. Measuring cups and spoons are great, but they do come with some degree of inaccuracy. A food scale will be more accurate, and for some people it makes a big difference.

    4. Logging accurately also means choosing accurate entries in the database. There are a lot of user-entered entries that are off. Double-check that you're using good entries and/or using the recipe builder instead of someone else's homemade entries.

    5. Recalculate your goals if you haven't lately. As you lose weight your body requires fewer calories to run. Be sure you update your goals every ten pounds or so.

    6. If you're eating back your exercise calories and you're relying on gym machine readouts or MFP's estimates, it might be best to eat back just 50-75% of those. Certain activities tend to be overestimated. If you're using an HRM or activity tracker, it might be a good idea to look into their accuracy and be sure that yours is calibrated properly.

    7. If you're taking any cheat days that go over your calorie limits, it might be best to cut them out for a few weeks and see what happens. Some people go way over their calorie needs without realizing it when they don't track.

    8. If you weigh yourself frequently, consider using a program like trendweight to even out the fluctuations. You could be losing weight but just don't see it because of the daily ups and downs.

    9. Some people just burn fewer calories than the calculators predict. If you continue to have problems after 4-6 weeks, then it might be worth a trip to the doctor or a registered dietitian who can give you more specific advice.
  • jemhh
    jemhh Posts: 14,261 Member
    I feel I should he losing at least 2lbs a week!!! Any help??

    This may not be an appropriate goal. What are your height, weight, and age?
  • diannethegeek
    diannethegeek Posts: 14,776 Member
    Keep in mind that 2 pounds per week is the max healthy recommendation unless you're very obese and under the care of a doctor. Aiming for more than that is a recipe for disappointment.
  • Dano74
    Dano74 Posts: 503 Member
    edited November 2016
    I feel I should he losing at least 2lbs a week!!! Any help??

    Brought your other post in for more context:

    First time posting here and first time ever posting anything!!! I am wondering if there is anyone else out there that feels like therebia truly something wrong because no matter what I just can't lose weight! I have made my diary public and have posted for 50 days. Please feel free to have a look. However, I have been struggling my whole life with this. I am 45 yrs old 5'2". You name a diet I bet I tried it!! But this past year I have been seeing this as a life style and workin hard on calorie counting and excercise. Delt with Thyroid issues finally got my levels somewhat normal. Thyroid issue explains why I didnt lose over the summer with all my hard work. However since Sept still no results. For the past 3 weeks i have been aiming for 1000 calories a day and track very well. Some days I go over but I still track. I stopped eating my exercise calories I do 40 60 mins cardio 5 to 6 times a week +1/2 hour of weights 5 to 6 times a week I have an office job so sit 8 hrs a day.
    I am so frustrated!!! There are weeks I have been perfect and can not lose!!! I know myself when I dont deserve to see results but I have been doing so well for awhile now
  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,439 Member
    edited November 2016
    Do you weigh everything you eat on a food scale, in grams?
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  • Sued0nim
    Sued0nim Posts: 17,456 Member
    Work on those feels

    They are pulling you down the wrong path
  • diannethegeek
    diannethegeek Posts: 14,776 Member
    I answered on your other thread, which had quite a bit less information than this one does. I want to say first that I don't have any experience with thyroid issues, so hopefully someone else can chime in on that.

    Looking at your diary, things like Lasagna - homemade or homemade bran muffin, are those recipes you put in yourself and calculated the nutrition for or are you relying on someone else's entries.

    Are you weighing your chicken cooked or raw? 110 calories for 4 oz seems low. Have you double-checked that entry? Sometimes people input bad entries in the database.

    Are you weighing things like produce, slices of bread, etc. to be sure the weight of your slice matches the prediction on the package's nutrition label?
  • jemhh
    jemhh Posts: 14,261 Member
    Dano74 wrote: »
    I feel I should he losing at least 2lbs a week!!! Any help??

    Brought your other post in for more context:

    First time posting here and first time ever posting anything!!! I am wondering if there is anyone else out there that feels like therebia truly something wrong because no matter what I just can't lose weight! I have made my diary public and have posted for 50 days. Please feel free to have a look. However, I have been struggling my whole life with this. I am 45 yrs old 5'2". You name a diet I bet I tried it!! But this past year I have been seeing this as a life style and workin hard on calorie counting and excercise. Delt with Thyroid issues finally got my levels somewhat normal. Thyroid issue explains why I didnt lose over the summer with all my hard work. However since Sept still no results. For the past 3 weeks i have been aiming for 1000 calories a day and track very well. Some days I go over but I still track. I stopped eating my exercise calories I do 40 60 mins cardio 5 to 6 times a week +1/2 hour of weights 5 to 6 times a week I have an office job so sit 8 hrs a day.
    I am so frustrated!!! There are weeks I have been perfect and can not lose!!! I know myself when I dont deserve to see results but I have been doing so well for awhile now

    Based on your height and your goal, as stated on your profile, of losing 48 lbs, I would say that your expectation to lose at least 2 lbs per week is out of line with reality. You do not have the fat stores or calorie burn to maintain a 1000 calorie deficit long term. One pound a week could work, but, especially if you are not active, your weekly weight loss rate may average below that. You should expect losing 48 pounds to take somewhere around a year, which to me means a few months in either direction (e.g., 9-15 months.)
  • bendis2007
    bendis2007 Posts: 82 Member
    Some of your days listed are 400 and 500 calorie days? Is that accurate? And you're still doing 60 minutes of cardio on those days? How did you calculate this 1000 calories a day?
    What is your current weight goal? Are you within the healthy range already? Still overweight? It's hard to know without knowing your starting weight and goal weight. If you don't have a lot of weight to lose, there's not a lot of room for error - especially at your height. It means one day eating over can wipe out an entire week's deficit.
  • Ready2Rock206
    Ready2Rock206 Posts: 9,487 Member
    I feel like I should own a unicorn but some things just aren't realistic. Unless you have a lot to lose, 2 lbs a week just isn't happening. I think I saw your other post where it was suggested logging may be a major issue? Get a food scale, use accurate entries, use the recipe builder and I bet you'll start seeing better results. Good luck and have patience - 2lbs is very aggressive, a pound or less a week is great.
  • idabest777
    idabest777 Posts: 97 Member
    It does seem like you need to be more accurate with your logging. But even if you were logging accurately, 1000cals/day along with an hour and a half of cardio and weight training seems pretty aggressive. If you were logging accurately, that would probably be a net of 800 calories or less per day which would definitely be resulting in weight loss.
  • ericwhitt
    ericwhitt Posts: 87 Member
    How much are you trying to lose per week? How much are you currently? Do you own a food scale? How are you measuring liquids? How are you measuring things like nuts and peanut butter?

    A medium sweet potato for example, the entry you picked is 133g. You should grab a food scale and a handful of "medium" sweet potatoes and measure them and see what they truly come out too.

    "Medium apple"you need to weigh the apple whole, eat as much as you can down to the core and reweigh it. Subtract the two and that's your entry weight.

    Peanut butter/Nutella/butter/honey how are you measuring this? Are you using a measuring spoon? If so, try weighing it and comparing to your entries.

    Also Steak- grilled-5oz, what kind of steak? You need to be more detailed, was it a fatty piece of NY Strip or a more lean sirloin steak?

    Are you making sure the entries you pick are correct? For example USDA-Ribeye gives me a lot of results, one is 210 calories for 4oz, one is 270 for 4oz.

    Odds are what's going on here is your under estimating these things. When you have very little margins for losing weight, underestimating by 10-15 calories here and there will add up really fast.

  • deannalfisher
    deannalfisher Posts: 5,600 Member
    what is your current body comp - weight? BF? goal weight/BF?
  • pattysanderson71
    pattysanderson71 Posts: 21 Member
    Thank you for all the replies!! The days that show 500-600 cals were an error on my part.
    I will def tighten up my weighing and measuring. In my mind I figured that at 1000 cals it would allow for things I miss calculated. Perhaps this is where my problem lies.
    I am 45 yrs old
    173 lbs
    5'2" tall ( or short lol)
  • pattysanderson71
    pattysanderson71 Posts: 21 Member
    And re hunger.... I feel hungry most of the time. Only time my stomach is not growling is for an hr after I eat.
  • cathipa
    cathipa Posts: 2,991 Member
    You can't lose if you are not in a deficit. Just looking at your entries (as others have mentioned) you are using generic entries as well and cups/spoons to measure. You need a food scale. Period. You also need to eat more. 1000 cal a day and not eating back your exercise calories is a sure set up for binging and failure. How far are you from goal weight?
  • ykhan2016
    ykhan2016 Posts: 1 Member
    If you want to really test it, get frozen prepared (lean cuisine, weight watchers, Annie's, etc) meals for a week that have accurate calorie counts and see what happens?
  • nancybuss
    nancybuss Posts: 1,461 Member
    Lots of info already above. Why are you aiming for 1,000 calories though? that's pretty low, with also working out. Use the calculator and figure out the proper amount of calories you need and get better with the logging.

    Sorry for all the frustrations. Since the somewhat guessing hasn't worked before, its time to really figure it out, especially if the thyroid is in range now.
    I'm 4 10" I certainly still eat over 1,000 calories a day.
  • joeboland
    joeboland Posts: 205 Member
    At the very least, I'd swap the amount of cardio and the amount of weight training you're doing. Lengthy cardio sessions aren't going to do you any major favours. Additionally, as has been said several times in this thread, you need to get a food scale, or, at the very least, be conservative and honest with your portions, ie. logging half a carton of ice cream as a cup's worth won't make it reality.
  • leanjogreen18
    leanjogreen18 Posts: 2,492 Member
    And re hunger.... I feel hungry most of the time. Only time my stomach is not growling is for an hr after I eat.

    These are the things that keep me satisfied...

    Carb, protein, fat every meal.
    Water
    7-8 hrs of sleep to keep stress hormone at bay otherwise you will be hungrier the next day

    You may want to play around with your macros and see what keeps you satisfied on a lower calorie amount. I played around and found 40% Carb 30% protein and 30% fat does the trick.

    Oh make sure your carbs have a lot of fiber that helps too.
  • TeaBea
    TeaBea Posts: 14,517 Member
    jemhh wrote: »
    I feel I should he losing at least 2lbs a week!!! Any help??

    This may not be an appropriate goal. What are your height, weight, and age?

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    2 pounds a week is a tall order. Unless you're more that 75 pounds over weight, it's not realistic for you.
  • Spliner1969
    Spliner1969 Posts: 3,233 Member
    Thank you for all the replies!! The days that show 500-600 cals were an error on my part.
    I will def tighten up my weighing and measuring. In my mind I figured that at 1000 cals it would allow for things I miss calculated. Perhaps this is where my problem lies.
    I am 45 yrs old
    173 lbs
    5'2" tall ( or short lol)

    My wife is the same age/height/weight (within a few pounds) and has had the same issues. She did have problems with her parathyroid and had to have one of her parathyroids removed. She struggles with the weight loss because her calories have to be so low to lose weight, and she has some other injuries (metal bars in her leg) that keep her from doing a lot of walking/jogging, so exercise is an issue as well. She has had luck though with diet using my scale and using the same methods I do (weighing everything) so if you're not using a scale I'd say crack down on it. Some of the recipes I see in your diary I'm assuming you made yourself by weighing the ingredients? If not, and you're choosing homemade stuff out of the database, they are likely woefully inaccurate. Your best bet is going to be keep up the exercise, and be meticulous in your logging. Never over or underestimate things in your logging, be picky about it and log everything accurately and you'll have success. It may be slower for, you and it sure is for my wife because of her height and problems with her legs but she keeps on trying.

    Inaccurate logging is the biggest reason people fail at losing weight. Good luck to you!
  • Moondoggie9155
    Moondoggie9155 Posts: 16 Member
    I have hypo/hashimoto. I would make sure you are optimal first here. And given your age check your other hormones like progesterone as they work in relation with your thyroid.
    I have shown "normal" on my thyroid test but a good doctor will know that your t4 and t3 need to be good as well as a tsh around 1-2. Everyone is different. On thyroid meds I do have suppressed numbers because I take natural thyroid with t3. Also people with thyroid issues should avoid gluten and eat a more paleo diet to feel best and help with weight loss. Hope you see and feel success soon.
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