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    • Posts: 3,099 Member
      edited February 2017
      I am currently seething with rage at, anyone/everyone whom had snow that; actually STICKS TO THE GROUND because I love, shoveling it; if/when possible & today, was possible; for me (health wise)!

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      (I'm considering petitioning Trump to, institute a law that; demands all sidewalk's be grass because that's ALL IT, STUCK TO!)

      Such as: (At least!)

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    • Posts: 3,289 Member
      TheRoadDog wrote: »
      I am not a jealous person with regards to my wife. Never have been. We are together because we chose to be together. If she should ever decide otherwise, I would hurt, but I wouldn't attempt to stop her. We have been together for 27 years though, and I love her more now than I did then. I am pretty sure it is mutual.

      Jealousy is purely negative. Put that energy into showing that someone special how much you care.

      Awwww o:)
    • Posts: 7,375 Member
      I generally don't get jealous (not saying never) but it's an uncontrollable emotion ,the only control some people have is how they handle it ,like if it takes over & they lose they're cool ..But alot of it in my opinion depends on ur past ...I try 2 keep that in mind ,but sometimes the problem is bigger than u ....I hate 2 say it ,but when 2 people are dating ur really not just getting involved with the person,ur taking on their baggage 2 ...So if they (or u) have alot of insecurities,that's gonna come out somewhere @ some point & ya may catch urself saying "Wth is going on here!" (& they can be saying the same about u)
    • Posts: 7,375 Member
      Yikes .....
    • Posts: 189 Member
      jjewell1981 wrote: »
      I used to be a jealous person. But what's the point? People are going to do what they are going to do and being jealous don't change that.

      I totally agree with you! Don't matter what we do if the other person will do as they want.
      However, there are times that we can't help what we feel.

      melmelw03 wrote: »
      At times.
      What's mine is mine.

      This!!!^^^^
      Exactly how I feel.

      However, my guy and I can look. Nothing wrong with that. If we're out and about and a hot girl passes by, nice *kitten* whatever, I point it out.
      I'll say something, like "girls got a nice *kitten*"
    • Posts: 776 Member
      chocolate_owl wrote: »
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      I'm kinda like this, but I wouldn't call it jealousy. I'm not jealous that some woman is hitting on my guy; there's nothing there to be jealous of. I'm pissed that she has so little respect for me, him, and our relationship that she thinks it's ok to be all over him, especially since he's clearly uncomfortable and not into it.

      My ex and I had a mutual friend who developed a painfully obvious crush on him. She'd always be free to hang out if he was going to be there, got flirty, and giggled at his bad jokes, but she never outright hit on him or tried to hook up with him. I was never jealous, I knew he wouldn't cheat. But damn, girl, he's taken, go find your own. ...He slept with her pretty soon after we broke up, so maybe I should have been more concerned than I was?

      It's so nice to be understood.

    • Posts: 3,866 Member
      There was this guy who was cutting a rug at our local place, called the Jug. He was dancing with my girl, Linda Lou. I walked in with a gun in my hand looking for this guy. I asked him what he was trying to prove and he yelled wait a minute mister, told me that he didn't even kiss her. Said he didn't want any trouble. I told him that's my woman right there, and I'm a man who cares and that might be it for you.

    • Posts: 7,375 Member
      Wow ...How did u not get arrested?
    • Posts: 5,065 Member
      csbnga wrote: »
      There was this guy who was cutting a rug at our local place, called the Jug. He was dancing with my girl, Linda Lou. I walked in with a gun in my hand looking for this guy. I asked him what he was trying to prove and he yelled wait a minute mister, told me that he didn't even kiss her. Said he didn't want any trouble. I told him that's my woman right there, and I'm a man who cares and that might be it for you.

      I want more of this story....

    • Posts: 3,866 Member
      sw33tp3a1 wrote: »
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      I want more of this story....

      Homework assignment. Gimme three steps Lynyrd Skynyrd
    • Posts: 7,375 Member
      Son of a *kitten* how did I not know that!!! Well Played
    • Posts: 5,065 Member
      kwph wrote: »
      Son of a *kitten* how did I not know that!!! Well Played


      He's good at that
    • Posts: 7,375 Member
      I will not fall 4 that again
    • Posts: 13 Member
      soemtimes i'm too jealous. I don't know what to do with this stuff
    • Posts: 7,375 Member
      Ya gotta figure out why ...There's always something more to an emotion like jealousy than what's taking place at that moment ...Maybe ya got burned in the past,maybe ya don't feel good about urself & it could be alot of reasons. ..Find the reason & fix it
    • Posts: 7,678 Member
      To long, didn't read but...

      I think jealousy is a bad habit. Either you trust the person or you don't
      Sure, I see girls drooling over my geek of a man but that just makes me smile cause I know I'm in his bed every night.
      And he knows I used to get attention, he also knows I like it when I get attention, but he also knows I won't act on it.

      And being jealous of others success? Sure, I've felt a stab of jealousy towards successful people but then I grew up and I learned that success isn't something you fall into. You work hard for it... so instead of feeling jealous I started to respect the hell out of successful people and I began to see the journey they've been on and how hard they've worked for their success.
    • Posts: 450 Member
      Kasner1975 wrote: »
      I certainly can be, and I realize that comes from my own insecurities. Rarely is there ever a reason for it.

      Basically this for me..just a matter of keeping things in perspective helps...and seeing things for what they really are.

    • Posts: 93 Member
      Yes, I can be. It usually doesn't bother me, but I have been cheated on before. Makes it hard when you see a "sign" that reminds you of that time in your past!
    • Posts: 195,832 Member
      Not anymore!
      Took me a lot of years to become confident. If I'm not important enough to someone to keep them from having a Wondering eye, they don't deserve me!

      Wisdom with age I guess! ;)
    • Posts: 7,375 Member
      Ya ever been with someone they get jealous If they're not getting constant attention & they get jealous/angry ...That's even if I talked 2 a male ..it wasn't just a female thang
    • Posts: 7,375 Member
      U don't ..But u've been with people jealous of u right?
    • Posts: 9,551 Member
      kwph wrote: »
      Ya ever been with someone they get jealous If they're not getting constant attention & they get jealous/angry ...That's even if I talked 2 a male ..it wasn't just a female thang

      Wow. That's more than a jealousy, that's obsessive. I would not be comfortable in that situation at all nor would I do that to anyone regardless how jealous I felt. That's a sure way to get dumped in my opinion.
    • Posts: 7,375 Member
      Thank U 4 ur honesty!!!
    • Posts: 180 Member
      kwph wrote: »
      Ya ever been with someone they get jealous If they're not getting constant attention & they get jealous/angry ...That's even if I talked 2 a male ..it wasn't just a female thang
      Are you looking at your phone when she's talking to you?
    • Posts: 7,375 Member
      No
    • Posts: 180 Member
      Well, that's good. Sounds challenging.
    • Posts: 7,375 Member
      I totally get what ur saying & I don't do that at all ...Idk????
    • Posts: 766 Member
      edited February 2017
      kwph wrote: »
      Ya ever been with someone they get jealous If they're not getting constant attention & they get jealous/angry ...That's even if I talked 2 a male ..it wasn't just a female thang

      Brother,,, she is a little crazy, I have been in this spot, it sucks, feeling like you have 100% of the time give your attention to her, its smothering. You need to talk to her about it,, if she insists, drop her, and find someone new.

      You obviously work out, and are in shape, and woman are attracted to you. She feels threatened by this. You either have to make her feel comfortable, and help her get over it, or bail. I would bail, trying to change someone is very tricky, and often does not work.

      I might not be as big as you are, but because I am in relativity good shape for my age, and have muscles there are a lot of ladies who cant handle the looks and attention, I tend to get. Not that Im out there looking for it.
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