What is more important to you, true love or good sex?

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  • manderson27
    manderson27 Posts: 3,510 Member
    True love because if something should happen that prevents you from having sex you can still have a loving relationship with each other.

    But if you are only together because of the sex then you will have nothing to keep you together.
  • littlewolf3785
    littlewolf3785 Posts: 2,592 Member
    ❤ True Love
    With true love, you get to know each other and find different ways of making good sex into great sex.
    Good sex is just that, good sex. Has no meaning for the partners involved other than the motions of going through the process.
  • BreezyPeezy5
    BreezyPeezy5 Posts: 8,059 Member
    Anyone can get sex anywhere but it's hard to find true love so I pick true love without having to think about it
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  • Carbkiller1970
    Carbkiller1970 Posts: 3,289 Member
    ATM I choose sex
  • Carbkiller1970
    Carbkiller1970 Posts: 3,289 Member
    Sorry Good sex
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  • abrubru
    abrubru Posts: 137 Member
    I believe love is a choice. You may "fall in love" at first, but then you choose to see the good in someone; you choose to be their rock; you choose to love them regardless...on the other hand, I feel as though some people are just not good at sex and even with practice they will still be bad. So for now I would choose great sex and hope that I didn't recognize the endorphin rush after orgasm to be love!
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  • JenJenakaJJ
    JenJenakaJJ Posts: 105 Member
    Love every time...sex is derived from lust and when that's gone what do you have left?
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  • Carbkiller1970
    Carbkiller1970 Posts: 3,289 Member
    Your sssuming someone would have sex with you ...... yeah don't do that
  • TheRealVanillaIce
    TheRealVanillaIce Posts: 81 Member
    MrStabbems wrote: »
    'love' of whatever substitute you want to use.

    sex is important but 'love' is companionship, respect, conversation, morals, goals, humour, driving each other, helping each other, complimenting their strengths and weaknesses, looking at them and knowing that your life is so much brighter because they're in it.

    Stop going on about sex so much, imo your life will be much richer for it.

    This guy gets it. Well said
  • indycoltz
    indycoltz Posts: 565 Member
    edited April 2017
    1 should come wayyyy before the other
  • tsortsor
    tsortsor Posts: 830 Member
    That always happens to me ^
  • gianna42
    gianna42 Posts: 5,991 Member
    MeganAM89 wrote: »
    I just answered this on your wall but I think true love is more inportant because you can always work on and create good sex if both partners are willing but it's much harder to "create" true love.

    Agree. I don't know how you "create" true love.
  • abrubru
    abrubru Posts: 137 Member
    What is interesting to me is that a number of people that I know that had arranged marriages did grow to love and respect their spouses over time...is that not true love? To do just what MrStabbems said you'd do until you do it out of love instead of out of obligation to a spouse you may not have wanted but your family insisted upon?
  • lyndaamason
    lyndaamason Posts: 2 Member
    True love.... as you get older, a partner may have medical issues that prevent sex... I will chose a best friend who is my true love over sex any day
  • kittkat789
    kittkat789 Posts: 111 Member
    I really love sex. But love will always be more important.
    Being loved; really truly, deeply, unconditionally loved is way more important.
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  • finny11122
    finny11122 Posts: 8,436 Member
    Good sex is not hard to find . A great connection can blow your mind . Real true love is rare because most people give up looking for it .
  • gcibsthom
    gcibsthom Posts: 30,145 Member
    Def true love...with that you will have good sex...That bonding with just the right person is so rare and valuable...it is unbeatable (or so I hear...)
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  • tsortsor
    tsortsor Posts: 830 Member
    Neither
  • tsortsor
    tsortsor Posts: 830 Member
    ^ I remember how the shaft felt and how it had the perfect curve ... lasted 4 weeks.... Never felt that way again. That was true love
  • maeld56
    maeld56 Posts: 750 Member
    For me, true love
    The sex was always awesome with my true love.
  • zyxst
    zyxst Posts: 9,149 Member
    Right now, sex. It wouldn't need to be good either. A quickie in the bathroom will do.
  • marcy782017
    marcy782017 Posts: 6 Member
    Great sex by far!
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