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  • browneyedgirl749
    browneyedgirl749 Posts: 4,984 Member
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    cee134 wrote: »
    I'm considering applying for a job within my organization that will have me relocating to North Carolina. This is weighing pretty heavy on my mind right now.

    Where in NC? That could help you decide.

    Camp Lejeune.
  • _pi3_
    _pi3_ Posts: 2,311 Member
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    I wonder what most people define as "objectifying" women. If I notice a stranger, who is exceptionally good-looking am I objectifying her when I know absolutely nothing about her aside from what she looks like?

    "You're in really good shape"
  • captainfantastic94
    captainfantastic94 Posts: 1,745 Member
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    Its about how you treat people, are people objects to you? Do you use people to gain what you want? If you're noticing someone thats not objectifying them, if you go from noticing immediately to "id tap that" you might be objectifying. Its dehumanizing people.
  • fit4life_78
    fit4life_78 Posts: 165 Member
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    All I know is I think you're in really good shape B);) ^^^^
  • captainfantastic94
    captainfantastic94 Posts: 1,745 Member
    edited July 2017
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    I treat my objects like women

    Could we have an Example?
  • captainfantastic94
    captainfantastic94 Posts: 1,745 Member
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    This pad thai is going to be good
  • angelxsss
    angelxsss Posts: 2,402 Member
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    trying to estimate how much roasted asparagus I have
  • Ben_there_done_that
    Ben_there_done_that Posts: 732 Member
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    Its about how you treat people, are people objects to you? Do you use people to gain what you want? If you're noticing someone thats not objectifying them, if you go from noticing immediately to "id tap that" you might be objectifying. Its dehumanizing people.

    I suppose we're talking about definition 1, since definition 2 would actually be a good thing. Seems really vague, though. Like if I noticed a dude throwing around a lot of weight in the gym and immediately think "Wow, that guy's strong." I'm dehumanizing him as just a strong guy. The whole idea of objectifying is seeming more ridiculous to me now.
  • fit4life_78
    fit4life_78 Posts: 165 Member
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    All I know is I think you're in really good shape B);) ^^^^

    Do iguanas do something for you?

    lol.......that was supposed to be for you, but I took too long :)
  • captainfantastic94
    captainfantastic94 Posts: 1,745 Member
    edited July 2017
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  • captainfantastic94
    captainfantastic94 Posts: 1,745 Member
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    All I know is I think you're in really good shape B);) ^^^^

    Do iguanas do something for you?

    lol.......that was supposed to be for you, but I took too long :)

    I dunno, have you seen this?

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    I think this guy's sexier than I am.

    Oh... uh... i need to sit down a minute...o1mbf8yuyhoy.gif
  • fit4life_78
    fit4life_78 Posts: 165 Member
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    All I know is I think you're in really good shape B);) ^^^^

    Do iguanas do something for you?

    lol.......that was supposed to be for you, but I took too long :)

    I dunno, have you seen this?

    d8l62wim6sv1.jpg

    I think this guy's sexier than I am.

    :D:D:o hmmmmm, you're right, that is pretty sexy
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
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    cee134 wrote: »
    I'm considering applying for a job within my organization that will have me relocating to North Carolina. This is weighing pretty heavy on my mind right now.

    Where in NC? That could help you decide.

    Camp Lejeune.

    I don't know where you are now, but that is the beach. The NC beaches are some of the best beaches I've ever been too. So the location seems pretty good to me.
  • captainfantastic94
    captainfantastic94 Posts: 1,745 Member
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    Its so hot outside the lights in the mall are off