True Confessions - Don't Judge

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  • Ben_there_done_that
    Ben_there_done_that Posts: 732 Member
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    ansmit4642014 wrote: »
    I confess my fiancé is out of town but I know he is lying about where he is but I don't want to leave him so I'm going to let it go

    How do you know he's lying? If trust is an issue this early on, that's not a good sign.
  • browneyedgirl749
    browneyedgirl749 Posts: 4,984 Member
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    Ben_there_done_that wrote: »
    ansmit4642014 wrote: »
    I confess my fiancé is out of town but I know he is lying about where he is but I don't want to leave him so I'm going to let it go

    How do you know he's lying? If trust is an issue this early on, that's not a good sign.

    ^^^^^ this
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
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    browneyedgirl749 wrote: »
    Ben_there_done_that wrote: »
    ansmit4642014 wrote: »
    I confess my fiancé is out of town but I know he is lying about where he is but I don't want to leave him so I'm going to let it go

    How do you know he's lying? If trust is an issue this early on, that's not a good sign.

    ^^^^^ this

    Agreed. Don't settle for being lied to/cheated on/whatever the situation is. Eegardless he apparently lied about where he is at and there is no reason to lie unless you are hiding something. You are worth way more than that.
  • browneyedgirl749
    browneyedgirl749 Posts: 4,984 Member
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    138shades wrote: »
    RunHardBeStrong wrote: »
    browneyedgirl749 wrote: »
    Ben_there_done_that wrote: »
    ansmit4642014 wrote: »
    I confess my fiancé is out of town but I know he is lying about where he is but I don't want to leave him so I'm going to let it go

    How do you know he's lying? If trust is an issue this early on, that's not a good sign.

    ^^^^^ this

    Agreed. Don't settle for being lied to/cheated on/whatever the situation is. Eegardless he apparently lied about where he is at and there is no reason to lie unless you are hiding something. You are worth way more than that.

    there is nothing that says he is lying though.........she is only making accusations unless she had proof, however, she is already so consumed with the thought of him lying that it really doesn't matter anyway.


    It's still not healthy. Why go into a marriage like that?
  • tmanfromtexas
    tmanfromtexas Posts: 928 Member
    edited July 2017
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    Lets not be judgmental here. These are the kind of confessions that may become epic. Lets not kill the opportunity.
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
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    abetterme9366 wrote: »
    RunHardBeStrong wrote: »
    browneyedgirl749 wrote: »
    Ben_there_done_that wrote: »
    ansmit4642014 wrote: »
    I confess my fiancé is out of town but I know he is lying about where he is but I don't want to leave him so I'm going to let it go

    How do you know he's lying? If trust is an issue this early on, that's not a good sign.

    ^^^^^ this

    Agreed. Don't settle for being lied to/cheated on/whatever the situation is. Eegardless he apparently lied about where he is at and there is no reason to lie unless you are hiding something. You are worth way more than that.

    No no! Let's see how this plays out

    True. Nevermind. I want to see a cheating husband thread soon.
    138shades wrote: »
    RunHardBeStrong wrote: »
    browneyedgirl749 wrote: »
    Ben_there_done_that wrote: »
    ansmit4642014 wrote: »
    I confess my fiancé is out of town but I know he is lying about where he is but I don't want to leave him so I'm going to let it go

    How do you know he's lying? If trust is an issue this early on, that's not a good sign.

    ^^^^^ this

    Agreed. Don't settle for being lied to/cheated on/whatever the situation is. Eegardless he apparently lied about where he is at and there is no reason to lie unless you are hiding something. You are worth way more than that.

    there is nothing that says he is lying though.........she is only making accusations unless she had proof, however, she is already so consumed with the thought of him lying that it really doesn't matter anyway.

    Very true and good point. Obviously trust is already broken as it stands.
  • browneyedgirl749
    browneyedgirl749 Posts: 4,984 Member
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    138shades wrote: »
    browneyedgirl749 wrote: »
    138shades wrote: »
    RunHardBeStrong wrote: »
    browneyedgirl749 wrote: »
    Ben_there_done_that wrote: »
    ansmit4642014 wrote: »
    I confess my fiancé is out of town but I know he is lying about where he is but I don't want to leave him so I'm going to let it go

    How do you know he's lying? If trust is an issue this early on, that's not a good sign.

    ^^^^^ this

    Agreed. Don't settle for being lied to/cheated on/whatever the situation is. Eegardless he apparently lied about where he is at and there is no reason to lie unless you are hiding something. You are worth way more than that.

    there is nothing that says he is lying though.........she is only making accusations unless she had proof, however, she is already so consumed with the thought of him lying that it really doesn't matter anyway.


    It's still not healthy. Why go into a marriage like that?

    I agree but that doesn't matter either until she starts valuing herself more and wants a change. I'm a therapist and deal with stuff like this or that all day. People will already know what they want and you can help them. She really doesn't want help.......she wants validation of attention.

    You're about to get a bunch of messages seeking free advice.
  • Kullerva
    Kullerva Posts: 1,114 Member
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    I confess I don't want to stay late for work. Ever, but specifically today. Getting off my eating schedule puts me in a mood.
  • peyton80
    peyton80 Posts: 15 Member
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    138shades wrote: »
    I feel puffy

    and currently clinically depressed but it won't last too long.

    Same. Trying to get out of this funk has proven to be tough to say the least.
  • Ben_there_done_that
    Ben_there_done_that Posts: 732 Member
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    IC I've started, and then deleted, about three replies on the 'I love Jesus' thread. I'm trying so hard not be an *kitten*.
  • browneyedgirl749
    browneyedgirl749 Posts: 4,984 Member
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    Ben_there_done_that wrote: »
    IC I've started, and then deleted, about three replies on the 'I love Jesus' thread. I'm trying so hard not be an *kitten*.

    I'm gonna do a "IBTL" post, because, violations...
  • angelxsss
    angelxsss Posts: 2,402 Member
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    My two other officemates are out of the room at the same time a lot, and I find it funny to imagine them making out in the janitor's closet like teenagers
  • angelxsss
    angelxsss Posts: 2,402 Member
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    TeacupsAndToning wrote: »
    angelxsss wrote: »
    My two other officemates are out of the room at the same time a lot, and I find it funny to imagine them making out in the janitor's closet like teenagers

    Why, are they both hideous?

    no they're both pretty good looking. the girl is super tall with long blonde hair, and the other is pretty normal looking but dresses pretty stylishly but is awkward as hell, but whenever he jokes she always smiles and looks down so I feel like they like each other
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
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    TeacupsAndToning wrote: »
    angelxsss wrote: »
    My two other officemates are out of the room at the same time a lot, and I find it funny to imagine them making out in the janitor's closet like teenagers

    Why, are they both hideous?

    It's those who cannot sing that God likes to hear the most...
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
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    TeacupsAndToning wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    TeacupsAndToning wrote: »
    angelxsss wrote: »
    My two other officemates are out of the room at the same time a lot, and I find it funny to imagine them making out in the janitor's closet like teenagers

    Why, are they both hideous?

    It's those who cannot sing that God likes to hear the most...

    Then he hates to hear me

    You sing?
    Honestly doesn't surprise me, I've always dug that deeper than expected Sexy voice of yours :wink:
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
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    TeacupsAndToning wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    TeacupsAndToning wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    TeacupsAndToning wrote: »
    angelxsss wrote: »
    My two other officemates are out of the room at the same time a lot, and I find it funny to imagine them making out in the janitor's closet like teenagers

    Why, are they both hideous?

    It's those who cannot sing that God likes to hear the most...

    Then he hates to hear me

    You sing?
    Honestly doesn't surprise me, I've always dug that deeper than expected Sexy voice of yours :wink:

    Of course I do, I can do everything, I am amazing.

    Oh Ppff Duh... How dare I forget :smirk:
  • captainfantastic94
    captainfantastic94 Posts: 1,745 Member
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    angelxsss wrote: »
    TeacupsAndToning wrote: »
    angelxsss wrote: »
    My two other officemates are out of the room at the same time a lot, and I find it funny to imagine them making out in the janitor's closet like teenagers

    Why, are they both hideous?

    no they're both pretty good looking. the girl is super tall with long blonde hair, and the other is pretty normal looking but dresses pretty stylishly but is awkward as hell, but whenever he jokes she always smiles and looks down so I feel like they like each other

    Its so cute you are shipping your coworkers!

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