Girls feeling when they see a six pack abs good looking guy at gym

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  • Ironandwine69
    Ironandwine69 Posts: 2,432 Member
    Bottom line is that if you ask 10 women what the perfect male body is, you will get 10 answers. As you make yourself more attractive to some, you make yourself less attractive to others. So make yourself what YOU want to see in the mirror, women be damned. I have been told by women that I am small, that I am too big, that I am too lean, and that I am chubby. All when I had the same body. If you are dedicating countless hours of your life to diet and exercise in an attempt to up your chances to get laid, you are lifing so freaking wrong that there isn't much hope for you.

    Smart guy.
  • Tallawah_
    Tallawah_ Posts: 2,475 Member
    Bottom line is that if you ask 10 women what the perfect male body is, you will get 10 answers. As you make yourself more attractive to some, you make yourself less attractive to others. So make yourself what YOU want to see in the mirror, women be damned. I have been told by women that I am small, that I am too big, that I am too lean, and that I am chubby. All when I had the same body. If you are dedicating countless hours of your life to diet and exercise in an attempt to up your chances to get laid, you are lifing so freaking wrong that there isn't much hope for you.

    Hear hear......
  • Kintsugi_Haikyo
    Kintsugi_Haikyo Posts: 361 Member
    I agree as well. Judging is always looked upon as a bad thing, but I think it's foolish not to judge. I judge people all the time to see if they add quality to my life or are a detriment. And yes I believe everyone has a right to choose who they find attractive in a person. What I find curious is when someone gauges that on something that they gave no idea to be the case. A guy having abs too much is trying too hard.....a guy with a huge gut is trying too little....those are uneducated assumptions based on our own issues. If a knotted looking cut ab look is not appealing to someone that's fine, if it is but they judge a personality off just that, then that's ridiculous.[/quote]

    I know I'm late to the thread, but I must say, I agree with this.
  • JeepHair77
    JeepHair77 Posts: 1,291 Member
    Whatever, I'll certainly look at the well-put-together guy with good arms and a six-pack. I appreciate the aesthetics, and I'll enjoy the view without putting much thought into what he eats or whether he's too committed to be any fun.

    If I were single, and he turned out to be a nice person and funny and a potential bed buddy, the abs would quickly turn into a bonus, though. Icing on the cake. They wouldn't be that significant a factor - does that make sense?
  • Kintsugi_Haikyo
    Kintsugi_Haikyo Posts: 361 Member
    You know, the last time I saw a guy at the gym with six-pack abs, I just thought "Don't get into a sit-up or crunch contest with him." But, that's just me.
  • br3pierce
    br3pierce Posts: 30 Member
    That they probably dont have a life outside training, food prep, eating calorie controlled meals and lifting their shirt in front of a mirror to check their abs are still there.

    Preach
  • 01Lucifer
    01Lucifer Posts: 18 Member
    hollysin81 wrote: »
    01Lucifer wrote: »
    So here it is all men wants to know that how u all girls/ladies feel when u see a cool hunk who have maintained a good body with six pack abs.

    Probably the same as you feel when you see a female of the same appearance.
    So u have same feelings for me what I have for u
    Hehe. (JUST KIDDING)
  • TheNewTinaPooh
    TheNewTinaPooh Posts: 6 Member
    Love the abs....and the well defined V :p
  • Lfirecracker
    Lfirecracker Posts: 133 Member
    Annoyed
  • livingleanlivingclean
    livingleanlivingclean Posts: 11,751 Member
    I find this thread odd. While I fully understand why someone having 6 pack abs is not the end all be all....I find it strange that while some are not attracted to it which is fine, that many seem to find it a negative. There are some pretty decent average guys that just happen to be in great shape....

    A nicely built midsection is attractive ( to me). A dude with amazing 6 pack is not, not the 6 pack itself, but the effort behind it. While I love a guy in great shape, I don't like guys that "try too hard", and 6 pack all year around to me screams "trying too hard".


    I’m sorry but some of your comments are a bit hypocritical, judging by how lean and fit you are in your profile photos (ironandwine69 & livingleanlivingclean). What do your comments say about you with you looking super fit in your profile pics and all?

    My pic is of me in one moment. You don't see me walking around maintaining that long term. I know the sacrifice needed to get there, and what it would require to maintain.
  • amyteacake
    amyteacake Posts: 768 Member
    usmcmp wrote: »
    Perhaps Mrs. B was saying this because I was muy gordo at the time, but she evinced a visceral repugnance at the sight of shirtless men like that.

    If a guy is walking around the gym without a shirt, no matter what he looks like, it's an instant turn off for me.

    This ^^
  • bootyrubsandtacos
    bootyrubsandtacos Posts: 775 Member
    01Lucifer wrote: »
    So here it is all men wants to know that how u all girls/ladies feel when u see a cool hunk who have maintained a good body with six pack abs.

    How do I feel when I see a sexy man with abs? Sure, it's attractive, but it's not everything. I also think men without that ab definition are sexy too. A nice strong body in general is a turn on for me, you don't have to be cut and ripped to get my attention. Who they are as a person weighs in much more for me than whether or not they have defined abs.

    This.
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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    I have six pack abs.





    somewhere.
  • Just_Mel_
    Just_Mel_ Posts: 3,992 Member
    I have them, or mostly do, at all times. It's in no way life altering and they do not cause women to spontaneously orgasm on seeing me *or* otherwise throw themselves in my direction. :ohwell:

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    You do have nice abs.
  • elizarizo
    elizarizo Posts: 470 Member
    edited February 2018
    I look once then continue my day


  • THeADHDTurnip
    THeADHDTurnip Posts: 413 Member
    You should wear a shirt in the gym.
    Just sayin'.
  • sardelsa
    sardelsa Posts: 9,812 Member
    That guy has a pretty low bodyfat percentage.
    That's all I'm thinking.
  • anl90
    anl90 Posts: 928 Member
    Not my type, so I don’t really think anything.
  • Garnica2018
    Garnica2018 Posts: 107 Member
    01Lucifer wrote: »
    So here it is all men wants to know that how u all girls/ladies feel when u see a cool hunk who have maintained a good body with six pack abs.

    It intimidates me but at the same time encourage me to keep working hard.
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  • bojack3
    bojack3 Posts: 1,483 Member
    I have abs, but if I went to a health club style gym they wouldn't be seen. I wear a shirt. In a lot of the boxing gyms there are dudes that workout shirtless, but its no big deal. Its funny, in a gym like that almost all the boxers have abs most nobody really is paying attention to physique.
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    I answered this a while back, but have another one
    My "feeling" about the ab's would be a bit of envy like 'wow, I'll never be that lean'
    About him being good looking, my "feeling" would be 'don't stare you creep'
  • kam26001
    kam26001 Posts: 2,794 Member
    I'm not a girl but I think six pack abs on a guy is muy caliente. I say that as a hetero male too. I find it hard to imagine that women aren't going cuckoo for cocoa puffs when they see a man with rock hard, sculpted abs. Especially if it's live in person? *whistles*
    It's a work of art to behold from my vantage point anyway.
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    kam26001 wrote: »
    I'm not a girl but I think six pack abs on a guy is muy caliente. I say that as a hetero male too. I find it hard to imagine that women aren't going cuckoo for cocoa puffs when they see a man with rock hard, sculpted abs. Especially if it's live in person? *whistles*
    It's a work of art to behold from my vantage point anyway.
    kam26001 wrote: »
    I'm not a girl but I think six pack abs on a guy is muy caliente. I say that as a hetero male too. I find it hard to imagine that women aren't going cuckoo for cocoa puffs when they see a man with rock hard, sculpted abs. Especially if it's live in person? *whistles*
    It's a work of art to behold from my vantage point anyway.


    Right?? That’s why I said why I said in my last post

    Honestly to me it just looks like high maintenance. I admire the discipline of defined ab's on men and women. I also think there are lots of stomachs that look great with little ab definition. I personally don't want ab definition. I do want a stronger linea alba definition
  • THeADHDTurnip
    THeADHDTurnip Posts: 413 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »

    Honestly to me it just looks like high maintenance.

    I think they just eat salads all the time. Not saying that in a negative connotation. It's cliche, but abs seem to be built in the kitchen.
  • Lean59man
    Lean59man Posts: 714 Member
    I knew a guy who was pretty short in height.

    He used to kid around and say he was tall when he stood on his wallet.
  • Jonesingmucho
    Jonesingmucho Posts: 4,902 Member
    I would be feeling them if I could

    Like maybe try the old "Hey! You have something on your rock hard abs that I'll brush off for you now...and now...and wow its still there and needs more brushing off...slower..."
  • LivingtheLeanDream
    LivingtheLeanDream Posts: 13,342 Member
    That they think too much of themselves....
  • ilfaith
    ilfaith Posts: 16,769 Member
    I don't think I ever see six pack abs at my gym. Shirts and shoes are required. Perhaps if I hung out in the locker room I might spot them now and then...but the gym is a mile from my house, so I just go home to shower. Plus, six-packs do seem to be more prevalent on men, and I would get in trouble if I hung out in the men's locker room.

    I occasionally see abs at the pool or beach. Usually on men much younger than I am.

    Years ago I dated a man with a six-pack. They were nice to look at and trace my fingers over. Dude was dumb as a box of rocks though. Ended up married to a smart guy with more of a keg than a six pack.

    Not that brains and abs are mutually exclusive. Plenty of sharp guys here with equally impressive physiques. That's what keeps me coming back to the forums.
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