Has anyone found love on MFP?
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_incogNEATo_ wrote: »
I thought he hates gays? Same thing right????
Pretty sure he made some pretty racist remarks to a fellow football player calling him names that only rappers can say.0 -
HawleyGriffin wrote: »Wish I could remember the username of the woman I knew who met her husband on here.
I know two. One of which I still keep track of on IG.
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PurringMyrrh wrote: »JustMissTracy wrote: »PurringMyrrh wrote: »Don't give your partner a reason to leave and they wont.
This! +1
Yeahhhh...not always the case, in my experience.
But if people remained the same fun, attractive, mentally and phsyically satisfying person they were at the beginning of a relationship, throughout the relationship, infidelity numbers would drop drastically.
Instead, people get out of shape, boring, and disinterested in sex - leaving their partners to find the things they once loved in them, elsewhere.
Idealistically, sure. Again, that is not always the case, though I agree that might lower numbers.0 -
HawleyGriffin wrote: »HawleyGriffin wrote: »I wouldn't think of MFP as a place to meet someone to cheat with. I know it happens. I was on another site for support (my ex cheated on me) and one of betrayed spouses wrote that her spouse found the person on MFP. I was surprised. A few more chimed in and said they know of cheating spouses that found the affair-mate on MFP.
Of course I can not speak to the specific incidents you are mentioning, but I can tell you that these things are common on all Fitness sites that have a social networking aspect to them. I would say in most cases, the people involved in these affairs did not join the site with cheating in mind.
So why does it happen?
You have both men & women that are starting to feel better about their bodies. The compliments they receive from their friends help with that. They find that they receive more encouragement here than they do from their significant other, that might not even taken interest in their lifestyle change. Feeling better about their appearance and receiving compliments for it can also reignite a sex drive that was low or non existent. Before they know it, they are interacting with someone in a way they had never intended.
Winning comment.
This thread is super depressing. And clearly not going the direction the OP intended.
The thread is going down a whole new direction now
No worries, you made excellent points and I like you see the good in people, *kitten* happens you know0 -
_incogNEATo_ wrote: »fitcurves6693 wrote: »HawleyGriffin wrote: »fitcurves6693 wrote: »HawleyGriffin wrote: »fitcurves6693 wrote: »HawleyGriffin wrote: »fitcurves6693 wrote: »I can name several homewreckers on here by name-those hoes can suck my *kitten*
One in particular I have no problem calling out is Stephanie Corvatto-Hellraisinsugar
I hope she falls in a sink hole down in Florida.
@fitcurves6693
So I take it she made a move on your husband? Sorry to hear that if that is the case.
That's OK, if she comes to my state I'll practice my MMA skills on her
So if there are several homewreckers, wouldn't it be a husband problem and not all of the "homewreckers"? Sounds like the homewrecker lives with you...
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Wow @fitcurves6693, almost two years apart between posts. I'm just going to assume you were lost at sea and I'm totally excited to see that you're OK.2
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Seriously people, he took accountability for his actions. If you are aware that your significant other is married and has kids nut you choose to pursue them ( a + b =C) them + you= homewrecker. Deal with your own trash, sorry I aired my grievances here but I have no pity for pathetic people who blame everyone else and don't choose to look in the mirror. Buh Bye2
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WorkerDrone83 wrote: »Wow @fitcurves6693, almost two years apart between posts. I'm just going to assume you were lost at sea and I'm totally excited to see that you're OK.
All is good thank you, just trying to stay healthy mentally and physically. It feels good to tell the truth1 -
blu_de_ville wrote: »Wasn't aware it was tinder here.
Right?0 -
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Determined_ella_89 wrote: »_incogNEATo_ wrote: »fitcurves6693 wrote: »HawleyGriffin wrote: »fitcurves6693 wrote: »HawleyGriffin wrote: »fitcurves6693 wrote: »HawleyGriffin wrote: »fitcurves6693 wrote: »I can name several homewreckers on here by name-those hoes can suck my *kitten*
One in particular I have no problem calling out is Stephanie Corvatto-Hellraisinsugar
I hope she falls in a sink hole down in Florida.
@fitcurves6693
So I take it she made a move on your husband? Sorry to hear that if that is the case.
That's OK, if she comes to my state I'll practice my MMA skills on her
So if there are several homewreckers, wouldn't it be a husband problem and not all of the "homewreckers"? Sounds like the homewrecker lives with you...
I have to admit.... My ex cheated on me with another woman... I didn't blame her in the slightest (yes she knew we were together.. but I also didn't know her personally... Although didn't stop me hating her.. ) I believe if the person is married or taken... They are the ones solely responsible of wrecking their home from within... The other person that is single... to be honest.. They have no responsibilities.. No person they could hurt.... It's the one who has the things to lose that is mainly to blame... They can always just say no..... And walk away.. It's that person's choice, there and then to either keep their marriage or break it... I have never and will never cheat on any man I'd get with... Because I have felt the hurt that comes with someone doing it to me... But they had no chances once they did cheat.. The door was the option I gave. Otherwise you are allowing yourself to be walked upon... If it happens once it will happen again.. And punishing the other half by bringing it up in every argument will only push them away and put a wedge between you both.. It's either forgive and move on.. Or just move on And forget them..
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This should be taken with a grain of salt. There were my children and hers involved as well. When you hold them in your arms when they are crying and asking why, then you would know how to judge. Kiss off my friend. I got this0
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I have come to love myself more. Happy endings all round.1
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Love? Yes, I LOVE all the support on losing weight .. if I wanted “Love” I’d be on Match or something.0
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vivalapuddin wrote: »Isn't this just a weightloss and fitness site?
You must be new. Give it time. You'll have PM's coming in.1 -
browneyedgirl749 wrote: »vivalapuddin wrote: »Isn't this just a weightloss and fitness site?
You must be new. Give it time. You'll have PM's coming in.
True!! And you’ll end up blocking a ton of people! I mean it COULD happen I guess but it shouldn’t be the reason someone is here.0 -
I can see why people would find a connection here, everyone is shooting for the same goal so right off the bat there is something in common, but I would not imagine this being a dating site. Hell I don't even know how to add people as friends never mind sending junk pics lol2
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Yes but she hates me @Avocado_AS50
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Lol just noticed this post was from 2 years ago, go me!!0
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caco_ethes wrote: »
Yeah I'm good like that. And thanks feeling the love1 -
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caco_ethes wrote: »
Wasn't really on it for the community didn't even know it really had one I just liked it for the tracking, community is just a bonus and kills a little time when board. Have had the app for months but didn't use it cause I was being lazy but now I'm trying0 -
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@138shades wrote: »No one wants to love me
I'll dry hump your leg1 -
SomebodyWakeUpHIcks wrote: »Yes but she hates me @Avocado_AS5
I hate no one!
Except that one chick. She can suck it.4
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