Gym etiquette
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joemac1988 wrote: »nakedraygun wrote: »aliencheesecake wrote: »I think when gym’s sign up new members they should give them a gym etiquette lesson along with the tour of the gym. Maybe post up signs too for old members to remind them of things like:
Rerack your weights
Don’t stare
Don’t interrupt people when they are in the middle of a set
Wipe equipment don’t after use (nobody wants to lay in your sweat & dandruff)
If the row of cardio machines is empty, don’t get right next to the one person on the treadmill.
Don’t think it’s okay to use 3 machines at the same time when people are waiting to use them.
If you are just sitting on a machine to use your phone or chit chat with your friend. Get off of it until you are ready to use it.
I’m sure I’ll get criticized for this post. But it honestly seems like common sense & courtesy to me.
YES! And "No loud grunting or dropping weights!"
Where should these guys grunt instead? Oh I know, perhaps when they at the library or church — maybe during a funeral — because a gym isn’t the place to exert yourself apparently.
Lol! You know what bothers me? People that daintily lift light weights, barely breaking a sweat or even breathing hard and continue to look the same week after week, month after month, year after year.
Why does that bother you so much? It you're focused on what you're doing while at the gym, it shouldn't really concern you what people are doing. I think it's great to see ANYONE in the gym, doing their thing ... even if they aren't working as hard as YOU think they should be...
As far as why it bothers some... speaking to various people through the years, I can name a few of the reasons they've voiced. One is that they often take up space or equipment that others gym goers could really use. (I can personally relate to that one!) Also, some people can have a visceral reaction to seeing others poison themselves with tobacco or a steady diet of fattening food. It's not hard to see why these folks would feel similarly (though to a lesser extent) about folks who work out with poor form or little effort.
The point about how some people might have hidden physical disabilities is a valid one. I'd wager that this isn't usually the case, since (based again on my observations through the years) these people are usually the ones who use poor form or treat gym classes like a chatty social club. One can't always know for sure though, as I've also met some who have had back injuries or other limitations.
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joemac1988 wrote: »nakedraygun wrote: »aliencheesecake wrote: »I think when gym’s sign up new members they should give them a gym etiquette lesson along with the tour of the gym. Maybe post up signs too for old members to remind them of things like:
Rerack your weights
Don’t stare
Don’t interrupt people when they are in the middle of a set
Wipe equipment don’t after use (nobody wants to lay in your sweat & dandruff)
If the row of cardio machines is empty, don’t get right next to the one person on the treadmill.
Don’t think it’s okay to use 3 machines at the same time when people are waiting to use them.
If you are just sitting on a machine to use your phone or chit chat with your friend. Get off of it until you are ready to use it.
I’m sure I’ll get criticized for this post. But it honestly seems like common sense & courtesy to me.
YES! And "No loud grunting or dropping weights!"
Where should these guys grunt instead? Oh I know, perhaps when they at the library or church — maybe during a funeral — because a gym isn’t the place to exert yourself apparently.
Lol! You know what bothers me? People that daintily lift light weights, barely breaking a sweat or even breathing hard and continue to look the same week after week, month after month, year after year.
Why does that bother you so much? It you're focused on what you're doing while at the gym, it shouldn't really concern you what people are doing. I think it's great to see ANYONE in the gym, doing their thing ... even if they aren't working as hard as YOU think they should be...
As far as why it bothers some... speaking to various people through the years, I can name a few of the reasons they've voiced. One is that they often take up space or equipment that others gym goers could really use. (I can personally relate to that one!) Also, some people can have a visceral reaction to seeing others poison themselves with tobacco or a steady diet of fattening food. It's not hard to see why these folks would feel similarly (though to a lesser extent) about folks who work out with poor form or little effort.
The point about how some people might have hidden physical disabilities is a valid one. I'd wager that this isn't usually the case, since (based again on my observations through the years) these people are usually the ones who use poor form or treat gym classes like a chatty social club. One can't always know for sure though, as I've also met some who have had back injuries or other limitations.
If I can't use a piece of equipment because someone else is using it, it's the same impact to me whether they're using it in the most effective way or the least effective way. I can see how some people might feel better when they can't use it if the person who is currently occupying it is using it more effectively, but it doesn't make a difference to me.
Either way, whether I'm the type of person who will feel happier when I approve of their technique/plan or not, it's still a piece of equipment that I can't use.
To my mind, it's like being happier when I can't get a table at my favorite restaurant when I see that someone who does have a table has ordered my favorite dish instead of something that I don't care for as much. Do some people feel this way? I'm sure some people do, but it's not a feeling that I personally get. All I know is that I need to make alternate plans for dinner.1 -
janejellyroll wrote: »joemac1988 wrote: »nakedraygun wrote: »aliencheesecake wrote: »I think when gym’s sign up new members they should give them a gym etiquette lesson along with the tour of the gym. Maybe post up signs too for old members to remind them of things like:
Rerack your weights
Don’t stare
Don’t interrupt people when they are in the middle of a set
Wipe equipment don’t after use (nobody wants to lay in your sweat & dandruff)
If the row of cardio machines is empty, don’t get right next to the one person on the treadmill.
Don’t think it’s okay to use 3 machines at the same time when people are waiting to use them.
If you are just sitting on a machine to use your phone or chit chat with your friend. Get off of it until you are ready to use it.
I’m sure I’ll get criticized for this post. But it honestly seems like common sense & courtesy to me.
YES! And "No loud grunting or dropping weights!"
Where should these guys grunt instead? Oh I know, perhaps when they at the library or church — maybe during a funeral — because a gym isn’t the place to exert yourself apparently.
Lol! You know what bothers me? People that daintily lift light weights, barely breaking a sweat or even breathing hard and continue to look the same week after week, month after month, year after year.
Why does that bother you so much? It you're focused on what you're doing while at the gym, it shouldn't really concern you what people are doing. I think it's great to see ANYONE in the gym, doing their thing ... even if they aren't working as hard as YOU think they should be...
As far as why it bothers some... speaking to various people through the years, I can name a few of the reasons they've voiced. One is that they often take up space or equipment that others gym goers could really use. (I can personally relate to that one!) Also, some people can have a visceral reaction to seeing others poison themselves with tobacco or a steady diet of fattening food. It's not hard to see why these folks would feel similarly (though to a lesser extent) about folks who work out with poor form or little effort.
The point about how some people might have hidden physical disabilities is a valid one. I'd wager that this isn't usually the case, since (based again on my observations through the years) these people are usually the ones who use poor form or treat gym classes like a chatty social club. One can't always know for sure though, as I've also met some who have had back injuries or other limitations.
If I can't use a piece of equipment because someone else is using it, it's the same impact to me whether they're using it in the most effective way or the least effective way. I can see how some people might feel better when they can't use it if the person who is currently occupying it is using it more effectively, but it doesn't make a difference to me.
Heaven knows that I've certainly felt that way in crowded gym classes were people were chatting throughout the workout or barely doing the moves. So I can certainly understand why people would feel similarly about those who are technically "using" the equipment, but barely so.To my mind, it's like being happier when I can't get a table at my favorite restaurant when I see that someone who does have a table has ordered my favorite dish instead of something that I don't care for as much. Do some people feel this way? I'm sure some people do, but it's not a feeling that I personally get. All I know is that I need to make alternate plans for dinner1 -
janejellyroll wrote: »joemac1988 wrote: »nakedraygun wrote: »aliencheesecake wrote: »I think when gym’s sign up new members they should give them a gym etiquette lesson along with the tour of the gym. Maybe post up signs too for old members to remind them of things like:
Rerack your weights
Don’t stare
Don’t interrupt people when they are in the middle of a set
Wipe equipment don’t after use (nobody wants to lay in your sweat & dandruff)
If the row of cardio machines is empty, don’t get right next to the one person on the treadmill.
Don’t think it’s okay to use 3 machines at the same time when people are waiting to use them.
If you are just sitting on a machine to use your phone or chit chat with your friend. Get off of it until you are ready to use it.
I’m sure I’ll get criticized for this post. But it honestly seems like common sense & courtesy to me.
YES! And "No loud grunting or dropping weights!"
Where should these guys grunt instead? Oh I know, perhaps when they at the library or church — maybe during a funeral — because a gym isn’t the place to exert yourself apparently.
Lol! You know what bothers me? People that daintily lift light weights, barely breaking a sweat or even breathing hard and continue to look the same week after week, month after month, year after year.
Why does that bother you so much? It you're focused on what you're doing while at the gym, it shouldn't really concern you what people are doing. I think it's great to see ANYONE in the gym, doing their thing ... even if they aren't working as hard as YOU think they should be...
As far as why it bothers some... speaking to various people through the years, I can name a few of the reasons they've voiced. One is that they often take up space or equipment that others gym goers could really use. (I can personally relate to that one!) Also, some people can have a visceral reaction to seeing others poison themselves with tobacco or a steady diet of fattening food. It's not hard to see why these folks would feel similarly (though to a lesser extent) about folks who work out with poor form or little effort.
The point about how some people might have hidden physical disabilities is a valid one. I'd wager that this isn't usually the case, since (based again on my observations through the years) these people are usually the ones who use poor form or treat gym classes like a chatty social club. One can't always know for sure though, as I've also met some who have had back injuries or other limitations.
If I can't use a piece of equipment because someone else is using it, it's the same impact to me whether they're using it in the most effective way or the least effective way. I can see how some people might feel better when they can't use it if the person who is currently occupying it is using it more effectively, but it doesn't make a difference to me.
Heaven knows that I've certainly felt that way in crowded gym classes were people were chatting throughout the workout or barely doing the moves. So I can certainly understand why people would feel similarly about those who are technically "using" the equipment, but barely so.To my mind, it's like being happier when I can't get a table at my favorite restaurant when I see that someone who does have a table has ordered my favorite dish instead of something that I don't care for as much. Do some people feel this way? I'm sure some people do, but it's not a feeling that I personally get. All I know is that I need to make alternate plans for dinner
As I said, I can intellectually understand why someone might feel frustrated -- I just don't feel that way myself.
When I see someone doing a workout that I personally don't see the point of, I don't conclude automatically that it's ineffectual. They may have goals or limitations that I don't quite understand. There have been things I've seen in gyms that I couldn't have explained at the time or would have maybe dismissed and I later find out that the behavior had a purpose (or at least the behavior has a legitimate purpose in other types of plans). Maybe I'm just more hesitant to draw conclusions based on brief observations . . . at least at the gym.
That's why I compare it to food. What someone else is doing in the gym may not be what I'm there to do, but that doesn't mean it isn't serving their purpose.0 -
joemac1988 wrote: »nakedraygun wrote: »aliencheesecake wrote: »I think when gym’s sign up new members they should give them a gym etiquette lesson along with the tour of the gym. Maybe post up signs too for old members to remind them of things like:
Rerack your weights
Don’t stare
Don’t interrupt people when they are in the middle of a set
Wipe equipment don’t after use (nobody wants to lay in your sweat & dandruff)
If the row of cardio machines is empty, don’t get right next to the one person on the treadmill.
Don’t think it’s okay to use 3 machines at the same time when people are waiting to use them.
If you are just sitting on a machine to use your phone or chit chat with your friend. Get off of it until you are ready to use it.
I’m sure I’ll get criticized for this post. But it honestly seems like common sense & courtesy to me.
YES! And "No loud grunting or dropping weights!"
Where should these guys grunt instead? Oh I know, perhaps when they at the library or church — maybe during a funeral — because a gym isn’t the place to exert yourself apparently.
Lol! You know what bothers me? People that daintily lift light weights, barely breaking a sweat or even breathing hard and continue to look the same week after week, month after month, year after year.
Why does that bother you so much? It you're focused on what you're doing while at the gym, it shouldn't really concern you what people are doing. I think it's great to see ANYONE in the gym, doing their thing ... even if they aren't working as hard as YOU think they should be...
That comment wasn't made in a vacuum. It was in response to others complaining about guys grunting and dropping weights because they were lifting heavy and exerting themselves.1 -
I think its just hardwired into ppl-safety in numbers from our tribe days.
i'm just anal-retentive. and no, i don't do this specific behaviour because i like all the personal space i can get.
but to me the image instantly takes me to the way i like to stack things neatly when they're just things. fill up the available space in an orderly fashion from back of the cupboard to front. like cans of tomatoes etc.
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janejellyroll wrote: »
When I see someone doing a workout that I personally don't see the point of, I don't conclude automatically that it's ineffectual. They may have goals or limitations that I don't quite understand.
Yes, this. I've been doing a light day at high reps and low weight and I'm like... I wonder if people think I'm just tooling around? How would they know I'm coming off a *kitten* cold or an injury is on its way out and I'm testing the waters... and then that carries over to how I see what other people are up to. You can't possibly know what an individual's plans are for that day just by looking.
As for the "taking up space" comment and using equipment that someone else could be doing better with?3 -
MelanieCN77 wrote: »janejellyroll wrote: »
When I see someone doing a workout that I personally don't see the point of, I don't conclude automatically that it's ineffectual. They may have goals or limitations that I don't quite understand.
Yes, this. I've been doing a light day at high reps and low weight and I'm like... I wonder if people think I'm just tooling around? How would they know I'm coming off a *kitten* cold or an injury is on its way out and I'm testing the waters... and then that carries over to how I see what other people are up to. You can't possibly know what an individual's plans are for that day just by looking.
As for the "taking up space" comment and using equipment that someone else could be doing better with?
Reminds me of when someone came up to me when I was squatting in the rack and asked me how many sets I had. When I told him he replied that "some of us want to shift big boy weights". I just told him that he looked like the sort that likes big boys and left it like that.
Needless to say that his form was horrendous but hey, he had a belt so I know he was hardcore6 -
Was it a harbinger belt?
Hey big boy, get some big boy manners and wait in big boy line.0 -
MelanieCN77 wrote: »janejellyroll wrote: »
When I see someone doing a workout that I personally don't see the point of, I don't conclude automatically that it's ineffectual. They may have goals or limitations that I don't quite understand.
Yes, this. I've been doing a light day at high reps and low weight and I'm like... I wonder if people think I'm just tooling around? How would they know I'm coming off a *kitten* cold or an injury is on its way out and I'm testing the waters... and then that carries over to how I see what other people are up to. You can't possibly know what an individual's plans are for that day just by looking.
As for the "taking up space" comment and using equipment that someone else could be doing better with?
Reminds me of when someone came up to me when I was squatting in the rack and asked me how many sets I had. When I told him he replied that "some of us want to shift big boy weights". I just told him that he looked like the sort that likes big boys and left it like that.
Needless to say that his form was horrendous but hey, he had a belt so I know he was hardcore
That’s amazing. Who talks like that
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Needless to say that his form was horrendous but hey, he had a belt so I know he was hardcore
eish. but just imagine how hard it would have sucked if his form had been perfect.
honestly, i haven't found myself feeling very safe counting on 'if you're a dick then you're also a poseur . . . and also, your lifts will be *kitten*' in the public space that i use. not an issue in the once-a-week private space because the guy who owns it doesn't allow either one of those things.
there just hasn't been any hard-and-fast rule. some of the most entitled dickheads i've seen have also had some of the most beautiful form.unfortunately. but that's my own childish petty side talking, of course1 -
joemac1988 wrote: »nakedraygun wrote: »aliencheesecake wrote: »I think when gym’s sign up new members they should give them a gym etiquette lesson along with the tour of the gym. Maybe post up signs too for old members to remind them of things like:
Rerack your weights
Don’t stare
Don’t interrupt people when they are in the middle of a set
Wipe equipment don’t after use (nobody wants to lay in your sweat & dandruff)
If the row of cardio machines is empty, don’t get right next to the one person on the treadmill.
Don’t think it’s okay to use 3 machines at the same time when people are waiting to use them.
If you are just sitting on a machine to use your phone or chit chat with your friend. Get off of it until you are ready to use it.
I’m sure I’ll get criticized for this post. But it honestly seems like common sense & courtesy to me.
YES! And "No loud grunting or dropping weights!"
Where should these guys grunt instead? Oh I know, perhaps when they at the library or church — maybe during a funeral — because a gym isn’t the place to exert yourself apparently.
Lol! You know what bothers me? People that daintily lift light weights, barely breaking a sweat or even breathing hard and continue to look the same week after week, month after month, year after year.
I like you. But I just thought I’d throw this perspective in there. I don’t care what people do at the gym. If someone left something out and it bothers me, I just put it away and move on with my life. Grunting doesn’t bother me a bit. Just occasionally startles me. Lol. I think if heavy lifting is what you want to do, more power to you. And happy for you and your results.
Now on the end you are referring to. I lift light weights. And I never go higher then a certain amount. Do I look different week after week? No. Do I look different year after year? Barely. But do I look different then I did 5 years ago? A ton! I lost 80 lbs and look completely different. But I got to a point where I am satisfied with where I am. I don’t want to change much. There are a few things I would like to change but have realized that if I want to have that. (Such as no cellulite) I would have to lose more weight or gain more muscle in my legs. Neither of which I want. So I accept my cellulite and am still proud of how I look, regadless of a few imperfections. Just because I don’t change when you see me. Does not mean I’m not doing something there. I am maintaining the body I have worked very hard to get.
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Many of the comments here are reasons why I am not a big fan of the gym. So much judgyness. Who cares if someone doesn't lift heavy. I can understand the annoyance if someone is texting away on a machine, but so what if someone is lifting a lighter set. Maybe they're lifting weights simply for bone health reasons. Not everyone likes lifting heavy. Not everyone wants to look like an olympic lifter. Save your judgements and worry about your own workout.
Also, wipe your sweat. It's friggen nasty if you don't clean the machine after sitting on it with a sweaty groin. Please be considerate of other gym goers.
I don't see the big deal with grunting or dropping weights if there are no specific rules against it. If there are and you want to do these activities, find a more suitable gym or invest in a home gym. I don't see the big deal here. Rules are rules.5 -
I have a favorite treadmill and I don't care who is next to it or if there are hundreds that are empty. I am so going on my favorite. And I will give a person the stink eye if they are on my treadmill!!! LOL!
What makes a treadmill a favorite? I’m not trying to be funny, I’m genuinely curious.
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OK so I totally agree however as a guy I must say I try not to STARE, but and I know how comfortable those yoga pants must be. I try not to make it obvious, but your just gonna have to hit me over the head with that gladiator thing. I mean I'm a guy and if you got the booty I just cannot help myself. What am I suppose to do stare at the empty machine or the console.
don't dress like ur going to a porn shot.3 -
razorbackred46 wrote: »OK so I totally agree however as a guy I must say I try not to STARE, but and I know how comfortable those yoga pants must be. I try not to make it obvious, but your just gonna have to hit me over the head with that gladiator thing. I mean I'm a guy and if you got the booty I just cannot help myself. What am I suppose to do stare at the empty machine or the console.
don't dress like ur going to a porn shot.
What exactly does that mean? I highly doubt a woman wearing a pair of yoga pants is making her way to a porn shoot. Learn to control yourself for God's sake.10 -
I think when gym’s sign up new members they should give them a gym etiquette lesson along with the tour of the gym. Maybe post up signs too for old members to remind them of things like:
Rerack your weights
Don’t stare
Don’t interrupt people when they are in the middle of a set
Wipe equipment don’t after use (nobody wants to lay in your sweat & dandruff)
If the row of cardio machines is empty, don’t get right next to the one person on the treadmill.
Don’t think it’s okay to use 3 machines at the same time when people are waiting to use them.
If you are just sitting on a machine to use your phone or chit chat with your friend. Get off of it until you are ready to use it.
I’m sure I’ll get criticized for this post. But it honestly seems like common sense & courtesy to me.
Most gyms I have been to have signs for most of these apart from the common sense ones and they all have an induction session which tends to cover a few of the above listed too. It is annoying sometimes, but does everyone not get annoyed at people at work, in the grocery store, at the doctors' surgery, the dentist, etc. Do we all need an etiquette list for every single place we go... I mean do we need to be nannied and can there not be more tolerance for the odd (I am sure every single time you visit the gym, there is not someone annoying you), infraction?!
I bet you OP have annoyed some person at some time or other, no?2 -
Uh, remember that some of us are lifting those "little bitty weights" because we have we have a weight limitation due to an injury and can't lift heavy. My pet peeve is folks who leave 50 lb plates on equipment that there is no possible way I can safely move it so I have to go find a staff member or a kind, muscle bound weight lifter to do it for me. Also, by the time you are middle aged, staying "the same from year to year" actually results from lots of hard work and many hours in the gym. I have been a "gym rat" for over 10 years. At this point my heroes are the seventy and eighty year olds who are still getting in their daily workouts, still are flexible and strong, and still independent.14
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kristingjertsen wrote: »Uh, remember that some of us are lifting those "little bitty weights" because we have we have a weight limitation due to an injury and can't lift heavy. My pet peeve is folks who leave 50 lb plates on equipment that there is no possible way I can safely move it so I have to go find a staff member or a kind, muscle bound weight lifter to do it for me. Also, by the time you are middle aged, staying "the same from year to year" actually results from lots of hard work and many hours in the gym. I have been a "gym rat" for over 10 years. At this point my heroes are the seventy and eighty year olds who are still getting in their daily workouts, still are flexible and strong, and still independent.
Some people have the belief that the only true form of fitness is lifting heavy and doing minimal cardio. Some of them look down upon other people who like other forms of exercise. Don't let it bother you. I believe the majority of heavy lifters have open minds and understand that there are others who cannot lift heavy or just do not want to.
I do not like lifting weights. I find it very boring and don't get any kind of inspiration doing it. The only reason why I do it is because I know it's good for my bones. I prefer lifting lighter and more reps. I don't know why, but it's much more enjoyable for me than lifting heavy. Sometimes I go months without lifting and I don't lose muscle bulk or strength. I still have no issue moving furniture or hauling and cutting firewood.
Do what works for you.
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RavenLibra wrote: »I have a favorite treadmill and I don't care who is next to it or if there are hundreds that are empty. I am so going on my favorite. And I will give a person the stink eye if they are on my treadmill!!! LOL!
What makes a treadmill a favorite? I’m not trying to be funny, I’m genuinely curious.
Hate to say it but no gym "calibrates" a cardio machine. They install it as it comes from the factory, will adjust as it wears/belts stretch, etc, but they don't go around and "calibrate" on a regular basis.
IMO, you are overthinking the monitoring of your workout if you have to use the same treadmill when training. Maybe the same brand/model, for consistency but not the same one.
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