Less alcohol- January 2018- one day at a time
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Today is Day 9 for me since beginning my "do-over" on Jan. 22. I know others have plugged Annie Grace's "Alcohol Experiment," but let me add my plug. Especially for those starting in Feb., it's such an encouragement to have that every day. I'm grateful to Ms. Grace for providing this for free! Just Google "Alcohol Experiment," and you'll find it. Today's video (Day 8 since I started after 1 day) from Australia re: drunk driving made me cry. I wish we would air such ads in this country. Then she had a clip of a comedian talking about how crazy people think you are when you tell them you're not drinking poison. Then she had the Super Bowl ad of all the amazing athletes working out to the Cheers theme and ending by drinking a Budweiser. Powerful messages about our culture and alcohol. I know every time I saw Alicia on The Good Wife with her huge glass of red wine, I wanted to join her. I just never really thought about it.5
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islandbeez wrote: »@Bry_Lander that is really something I have noticed. My resting heart rate (just on my Fitbit) is 114 when I am drinking. I have tachycardia so the last thing I need is to keep making this ticker work harder. Now that I am 10 days free of alcohol it's gone down to about the mid 80's. Even more incentive!
Doesn't it make you cringe to think of making your heart work harder for no reason? It does me!6 -
jenifer7teen wrote: »lporter229 wrote: »For some reason I can't find my last post where I was tracking my drinks. Oh well. I have Friday, Saturday and Sunday to add to the list. I stuck to my plan and drank moderately all weekend. No headaches and no hangovers. It feels good to be in conscious control of my drinking, but at the same time, there is a part of me that still feels like I could (should?) do more.
I am right with you girl. I still overdid it a bit on the weekend but spaced it out during a number of social things so i didnt feel any consequenses. Its a bit hard to participate in this thread where there seem to be a) so many people who drank far less, far regularly than i dud in the first place anf b) who have quit completely....
Truly i am proud that i had more sober days than days involving alcohol...but i guess i feel i have such a warped perspective on normal that i dont know if i am doing okay or need to do more. So much depends on your experience and social circle i suppose. I dont have a single friend who doesnt drink... only my old/religious in-laws. And honestly they might abstain from alcohol but also seem unhappy and boring in many ways haha
Anyway where is the balance!? Am i just trying to justify my habit? Or am i flawed in being part of a thread where everyone seems to barely drink now when thats never even been my goal?! Haha ahhh
Yes. Yes. Yes. I feel very much the same, but honestly, I am really proud of ho my January turned out. I feel that if I truly wanted to abstain from drinking forever, I would put my mind to it and do it. But what I really want is to be able to be able to enjoy a few drinks with my husband or friends and know that I have control over it and not the other way around. Is this impossible for some people? Yes, I know that it is. Am I one of them? I am still not sure and that it what I am currently trying to figure out.
Yes, I have had those nights too where I drank too much and swore I was going to cut down or stop drinking altogether only to find myself back in the same spot a few days later. But the difference for me now is that I never actually tried to control my alcohol consumption. I mean, sure, I said, I'll only have one or two, but that was just a vague statement rather than a goal. This month, I actually set a definitive goal for each day (e.g. no alcohol today, two glasses of wine, three glasses of wine for a Saturday party, etc), and with the exception of one extra cocktail, I pretty much stuck with my plan. And that was really my goal.
On the other hand, like you, being on this thread has made me question the validity of those goals. Three glasses of wine at a party on a Saturday night? Is that really "doing well"? IDK, compared to my norm, yeah, it is. I guess at the end of the day, I appreciate this thread because it has helped me to take a serious look at my relationship with alcohol, it has made me realize that there are others who share the same struggles, and it has given me support and encouragement to keep trying to do better, whatever that may be.
@WinoGelato - Welcome to the group. It sound like you are going to fit right in!4 -
jenifer7teen wrote: »I am right with you girl. I still overdid it a bit on the weekend but spaced it out during a number of social things so i didnt feel any consequenses. Its a bit hard to participate in this thread where there seem to be a) so many people who drank far less, far regularly than i dud in the first place anf b) who have quit completely....
Truly i am proud that i had more sober days than days involving alcohol...but i guess i feel i have such a warped perspective on normal that i dont know if i am doing okay or need to do more. So much depends on your experience and social circle i suppose. I dont have a single friend who doesnt drink... only my old/religious in-laws. And honestly they might abstain from alcohol but also seem unhappy and boring in many ways haha
Anyway where is the balance!? Am i just trying to justify my habit? Or am i flawed in being part of a thread where everyone seems to barely drink now when thats never even been my goal?! Haha ahhh
I for one, have no intent on quitting... This is merely a participation in a challenge for me.
I will continue to do what I've always tried to do and that is to live in a place where I have sustainable moderation. To me, that means to know when to dial it back, when to turn it off and when to enjoy. For each of us, that answer is different.
I don't feel I've ever had a issue with alcohol. 1-2 beers (at most) when I do and there are days I have zero. Perhaps even for a week at a time. To be honest, I get sick and tired of the taste of all of it so it's easy to turn it off or dial it back.
Creating a healthy relationship with alcohol is as important as creating a healthy relationship with any other food.
For some, how I manage it could be perceived as someone who has an "issue" with it. For others, what I consume is extremely small by comparison.
Look within and determine what's best for you. There is no one correct answer.6 -
It's hard for me to be active on MFP lately because my workplace moved my desk and my screen is now visible to the world. But I wanted to hop on this group today (and try to get back to being here daily) because I'm seriously considering going to AA (I've been going anyway by court order...yeahhh, I got a DUI last April) because apparently I simply cannot moderate, and promising myself I won't drink doesn't work either. I think I've just held off for so long because I'm embarrassed and ashamed to admit this to anyone, especially my husband. He has the best intentions but truly believes I just need more willpower. I know this group isn't for alcoholics specifically, but I'd love to connect with anyone who is in recovery. I see so many people here who can have just a drink or two, or only have some on weekends, even if they were heavy drinkers before. I don't know why I can't do it too but I've tried for years, only to keep ending up in the same bad place. Everyone's posts are so motivating though- so many great reasons to move forward with this. I'm so glad I found this group!
Moxie: There is a recovery group online. www.soberrecovery.com There is a very active forum where you can post. I cannot moderate either. I am 3 weeks without alcohol.2 -
It's hard for me to be active on MFP lately because my workplace moved my desk and my screen is now visible to the world. But I wanted to hop on this group today (and try to get back to being here daily) because I'm seriously considering going to AA (I've been going anyway by court order...yeahhh, I got a DUI last April) because apparently I simply cannot moderate, and promising myself I won't drink doesn't work either. I think I've just held off for so long because I'm embarrassed and ashamed to admit this to anyone, especially my husband. He has the best intentions but truly believes I just need more willpower. I know this group isn't for alcoholics specifically, but I'd love to connect with anyone who is in recovery. I see so many people here who can have just a drink or two, or only have some on weekends, even if they were heavy drinkers before. I don't know why I can't do it too but I've tried for years, only to keep ending up in the same bad place. Everyone's posts are so motivating though- so many great reasons to move forward with this. I'm so glad I found this group!
Moxie: There is a recovery group online. www.soberrecovery.com There is a very active forum where you can post. I cannot moderate either. I am 3 weeks without alcohol.
Thanks for this link! I'll check it out. I'm part of the group who can't moderate. I have tried so hard to moderate. When I was out, I would pace myself with someone who didn't drink much but never could. I've hidden how much I drank from my family and husband. Sometimes, I'd sneak a drink or two before an event just to get a head start! I've even cooked dinner for the family, because it was an easy way for me to drink a bottle of wine while I cooked. Some weird thinking went on in my head. Now, that I'm 30 days dry, I seriously didn't think it was possible for me to abstain. I am positive I did it because of this thread; you have all perhaps saved my life. I could cry tears of joy at how great I feel about myself. @MaryBethHempel says it is FREEDOM for some of us who simply have a hard time managing just one, she is so right. Xoxo Hugs to all!
I'm also so proud of you who are able to moderate and reach your own personal goals for consumption. A lot of progress and goal setting has gone on in January, and I can't wait to see where we all stand in February.15 -
For those of you who had success in Dry January, I read a blog that encouraged you to write down how you felt without alcohol or having less alcohol all month. Write down your feelings, what positive outcomes you felt, etc.
This way, the author says, in case you are tempted to go back to your old ways, you will read and remember how great you felt in January.
http://thesoberschool.com/dry-january-nearly-over/
On to Freedom February!!
Check out the new thread if you haven't already. Xoxo6 -
no drink last night which makes it up to 2 days alcohol free, tonight should also be A.F so 3 for Jan. but i did start late. On to February. Good luck everyone!
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Here it is the last day of the first month of our new year. Even though the weather has been a major factor for less activity on my part. I am proud to say between logging my indoor exercise routine, my foods and keeping track of alcohol consumption this has been a winning month for me. Out of the 31 days (I am including today already) there have only been 10 of those days that involved drinking alcohol. Yay me!10
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We did it, completed dry January:)5
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Thank you all for your support, honesty and motivation. I set out at the start of Jan to drink less and only at the weekend. The reality has been apart from one Saturday completely dry. It’s aided my marathon training and I think I feel better. I will be continuing in February, completely dry in the week and then an occasional weekend drink. The run is mid-March and I can feel the benefit. Not had much difference on the scale, surprised given I’ve stuck to calories and exercised lots.4
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slimbyjune18 wrote: »Thank you all for your support, honesty and motivation. I set out at the start of Jan to drink less and only at the weekend. The reality has been apart from one Saturday completely dry. It’s aided my marathon training and I think I feel better. I will be continuing in February, completely dry in the week and then an occasional weekend drink. The run is mid-March and I can feel the benefit. Not had much difference on the scale, surprised given I’ve stuck to calories and exercised lots.
I know what you mean, but I am guessing your body is holding on to water weight given your training. I had the same thing- but then had to have a minor skin surgery that then got infected and I had to stop working out. Within two days I lost 3 pounds.2 -
WinoGelato wrote: »I've been lurking here as well and have been really inspired and encouraged by everyone's stories and experiences.
For my own personal accountability... I always say that I have 1-2 glasses of wine a few nights a week, but in actuality when I started taking a hard look at it, it was almost always 2-3 glasses and really pretty much every night. It wasn't holding me back in my weight management (I lost my weight and am now maintaining for a few years).
I told myself it was because I'm a busy working mom and it was to help me relax - most nights I wait till after the kids were in bed when I feel like I'm off the clock from all my obligations and would pour a glass to unwind while checking in on MFP forums or to watch Netflix with hubby (who doesn't drink - gave it up a few years ago for a health issue exacerbated by alcohol). When socializing with friends or at work functions involving alcohol maybe once every couple weeks - I would just keep refilling the glass and often found myself at the bottom of a bottle - having a DD all the time probably influenced those decisions.
After a couple of recent family cancer diagnoses and following a mid Jan social event where I was hung over and couldn't remember everything I had said the night before (making me worry that I had embarrassed myself), I decided to cut back and this thread has really helped. I wasn't intending to do dry Jan but to be more moderate when I do drink and also to have dry days rather than just automatically reaching for wine in the evenings.
At the end of the month - here is how it turned out.
More dry days than wine days (but not a landslide victory).
On the dry days, like others, I relied heavily on hot tea and something sweet like a shortbread cookie. I've enjoyed trying new teas and definitely in these cold months have found that to be a really nice way to end my evening.
A couple of small personal victories including:
- on a recent work trip I had one glass at dinner, one glass alone in the bar waiting for a colleague who didn't show up - I didn't even want the second glass just felt weird sitting alone drinking water. When she didn't make it I went back to my room and had a hot tea and cookie just like at home!
- Same work trip second night with a group dinner after a big presentation I did have a few glasses at the dinner and went to the bar with colleagues, but I had one glass and was the first to call it a night - usually I would be closing the bar down.
- At a recent trivia night I did drink almost a full bottle of rose but had some offers to keep going, people continuing the party at another bar, and I turned them down and went home to bed. Normally would have kept on, gotten a ride home and felt horrible the next morning.
- Last night work function - only one glass of wine during the social hour, none with dinner and was the first person to leave because I wanted to get home to see my family and have my tea.
My biggest observation is how "present" wine is for me and how I would almost be bargaining with myself when I would be looking at the week and saying I wouldn't be drinking until Saturday or whatever. I would then stop to count how many days that was, and wonder how many drinks I would have, wonder if it would feel different, etc. One night I had a glass at home because it was an open bottle and I didn't want the wine to go to waste - hardly a good reason!
Planning to continue trying to be more mindful and moderate in February.
Cheers (in the greeting sense, not the drinking sense)!
Welcome to the group!! Reading these threads really helps me to stay mindful as well in how much wine I consume.
Welcome to our group! This thread has been a blessing for me and I hope it will be for you also!
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Goal — January under 7 drinks a week- for my health.....my mind.....my body....Freedom from alcohol ruling my life!
1/1 =alcohol free
1/2 = 4 wine spritzers
1/3 =alcohol free
1/4 =alcohol free
1/5 =alcohol free while my husband must of drank almost 2 bottles of wine....I wasn't tempted, which was great!
1/6 =alcohol free while my husband must of drank almost 2 bottles of wine
1/7 =alcohol free while my husband must of drank almost 2 bottles of wine-I copy and paste! Rerun! I feel that now I don't even want one drink as it is never enough...I always want more! I will see how long I can be FREE from alcohol. Losing weight and feeling great!
1/8 =DITTO...I slept better last night--had an Atkins bar around 8...maybe that was it...I also had to go to my guest room again for my husbands snoring started again!
1/9 =DITTO and lost another pound---Wow! 7 days alcohol FREE!! This is the longest I have gone for years!
1/10 =8 days freedom
1/11 =9 days freedom- looking forward to reading my new books...This Naked Mind and Blackout-Remembering The Things I Drank to Forget...
1/12 =10 days clean! My hubby only drank during the day, not last night. He didn't snore last night, so I didn't have to go to our guest room to sleep. Read the first 2 1/2 chapters of This Naked Mind and finding it interesting.
1/13 =11 Days freedom! It is actually getting easier at this point...I just ordered some liver detox....
1/14 =12 Days freedom! It really helps to have all you on MFP for support! Thank you all!!
1/15 =13 days---Wow! I am finally sleeping in my own bed now because my husband cuts off his drinking at night and he doesn't snore so loud to make me go into our guest room! LOL! He didn't like me going into the guest room, so he cut down...
1/16 =14 days freedom! 2 weeks!! YAY! I have to note how yesterday was a bit interesting when my hubby just bottle a bunch of wine and said to me, "Taste this, it is better than the usual Concord that we make". I told him immediately that I was just drinking green tea and it wouldn't taste good. I was so glad that I was drinking tea, as I would have been tempted to taste it. I feel that if it happens again that I am prepared now and will decline. I am going to tell him today not even to ask me to taste.
1/17 =15th day freedom! Had another great morning of working out...ready to play some music!
1/18 =16th day freedom! I am going for a month!! I joined the "Alcohol Experiment" Super informational...I have been just reading and listening..this weekend I am going to start writing in the journal. I recommend this to you all, if just to read and listen to all the interesting information.
1/19 =17th day- my husband drank through the day until bedtime and I had to go to the guest room to sleep because he snored again. A definite pattern of loud snoring when he drinks wine at night. I caught up in the "Alcohol Experiment" yesterday and started writing in it. It really is helping me in so many ways. I feel blessed to have the opportunity to be able to go through it, and I highly recommend it. There is no pressure about your alcohol intake.
1/20 =18th day of freedom from alcohol addiction. My mind and body are really loving it. Yesterday was my first social event to go to. I had no problem in saying that I wasn't having any wine, when asked twice. I said I was on a cleanse and I have to stay away from the sugar. My doctor did say that I have to stay away from sugar last year, as I have a hereditary condition called GSID-Genetic Sucrase-Isomaltase Deficiency. I have been following the diet fine, except for the alcohol, until now. I have even another reason to stay away from it.
1/21 =19th freedom day
1/22 =20th day...a tempting day in that I just don't feel up to doing much. Previously, this is when I drank. I am hanging in there.
1/23 =21st day...did intermittent fasting and just love it! Started a Thread on Challenges!
1/24 =22nd day of freedom. I went way past my goal of under 7 drinks a week. I have no cravings and am loving my life without alcohol.
1/25 =23rd day of freedom! I finished This Naked Mind last night! Such a great book! I will continue to refer to it!
1/26 =24th day...6 more days and I will hit the 30 mark! I was thinking about how it was so difficult to hold my drinking until 2 pm...I was drinking daily at noon...I feel so blessed now to be away from that addiction. Thank you God!!!!
1/27 =25th day...I really don't feel liking drinking anymore. It just feels like it would wreck what I feel like I got in my life now from not drinking. I feel so much stronger, happier, healthier, and enjoying life so much more, as well as accomplishing so much more...I am so so thankful for this thread...It really has helped me to realize and accomplish a whole new way of life.
1/28 =26th day freedom!
1/29 =27th day freedom! I think I am going to save this log in my computer for future reference, as a reminder.
1/30 =28th day of freedom done! I have been tearing apart our basement and getting so much done! I have much more mental and physical energy for projects since I stopped drinking.
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jclark14572 wrote: »I have also started doing this. Seems to be the only way for me to
Lose weight now
That is how I got started on this journey! I have lost 21 pounds since December 1st.
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MaryBethHempel wrote: »jclark14572 wrote: »I have also started doing this. Seems to be the only way for me to
Lose weight now
That is how I got started on this journey! I have lost 21 pounds since December 1st.
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Personal victory for last night!
I was having one of those days...all day long. My husband was behind schedule, frustrated, and taking it out on me. I got an email from two of my son's (16) teachers telling me once again, "he's brilliant, but not pushing himself." No homework and incomplete classwork will result in two C's on his forth coming report card. My daughter (13) kept texting me all day because she was bored...testing day, she was done so they could have their phones. When she got home she explained that she thought she was brightening my day, but I was busy (work from home), so really it was just adding fuel to the fire.
By the time my husband left to make deliveries, I was ready to fix a rum and Coke. I managed to talk myself into a hot cocoa, and that worked well. Too well. I got sidetracked looking at Facebook while I drank it, and ended up starting dinner an hour late...with two hungry teens in the house. My plan was for homemade chicken and dumplings, but of course, I'd forgotten to thaw the chicken. No worries, my husband gave me a pressure cooker for Christmas, I got this! I got the veggies all cleaned and chopped, the spices all measured out and added, tossed in the chicken, set the timer, then started cleaning up. Not until about 10 minutes later did it occur to me that the pot hadn't started yet. I figured in the rush I hadn't sealed the lid correctly, so I opened it up, checked everything (seemed fine), and tried again. Waited about 5 more minuets, it still didn't sound right. Opened it up, checked it again, still looked alright, so headed to the internet to see what I could possibly be doing wrong. I hadn't realized, the meat being frozen, it would take longer to build pressure. So if I hadn't kept messing with, it would probably have been about done at that point. I left it alone, the pressure finally started to build, so I got on to the dumplings. I was rushing now, didn't read the directions carefully enough, and added the milk before I got the butter cut into the flour. My hands were covered in sticky dough, and I had to call my daughter down to keep sprinkling flour over the mess until I could get it scraped off of me. Once we got those leveled out, the soup part was done...my son was so hungry he actually emerged from his room unbidden...the dumplings only took about 5 minutes to cook, and I had made a healthy dinner that we all seemed to enjoy.
I was thinking hard about the rum and Coke again by the time we all got our chores done, but I was able to distract myself with the Downton Abbey tea the kids gave me for Christmas and a few cookies from my secret stash. After that I figured I'd call it an early night and get ready for bed. As soon as I was done, hubby gets home...with groceries. Don't get me wrong, I'm happy he went shopping, but putting away groceries at 9pm was not what I had planned for the rest of the night. We get that done, but I didn't want to go to bed anymore. I wanted the rum and Coke that had been looming the back of my mind all evening. I gave in. I was heading to the kitchen to fix it when it hit me that I knew one would easily turn to two, which would probably turn to three before it was all said and done, so, begrudgingly, I fixed another cup of tea. After that, I really did head to bed...SOBER. And woke this morning...with NO HANGOVER!
I'm sure this just seems like the ramblings of any wife and mother to some, but maybe someone else can relate and take something from it. Hopefully it will help if ever another of you finds yourself in a similar situation...or just wants to know that yes, we all have the same mundane struggles.12 -
@DCRunnerGirl78 Great story because you set the tone and suspense, and I couldn't wait to see if you had that rum and coke!!
What a triumph! When all is said and done, these successes add up. Builds strength and mental fitness. So happy for you!! Sober and clearheaded in the morning- like winning a lottery, I feel.4 -
Tonight I plan to finish January off with a glass of wine. I was thinking that I might end it on a dry note, but I am making pasta with homemade puttanesca sauce for dinner and this is one of those meals that I really like to have a glass of wine with. I am planning for 1 glass (5oz). So my January stats will be:
12 days with alcohol/ 19 days without
Total consumption of 140 oz wine, 2 oz whiskey, 1 (weak) bloody Mary
Based on 5oz glass of wine, that is an average of 30 drinks total or just under 1 drink per day
My goal was to keep my consumption to an average of 1 drink per day with no more than 3 drinks in one day. I did teeter on that edge of 3 drinks per day, having 18 oz of wine and 20 oz of wine on two occasions. Bottom line is that I did much better than I normally would when not trying to control my alcohol. However, I know that I can do better and that is my goal for February: Less average drinks and no days with greater than 3 drinks.
Congrats to everyone on a stellar job this month whatever your goal was. See you all in February!
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Great job everyone! I close the month at 25 days without (all in a row) & 6 with. I'm going to shoot for a totally free dry Feb, but I'm not sure at this point how stringent I want to hold myself to that.2
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Well done everyone!!! Youve all have done an awesome job
I completed 23 days of Jan with 2 slips
Im thinking to make mini goals for myself of 23 days withoutany slips ...
than i only have 6 more days to hang on to it til the end of the mth. 5 -
Day 31! I made it! I only could have done it because of this thread- such great, warm, kind, caring people. We are in this together!
Actually debated on a celebratory wine on the way home from work. Felt the pull of my fav local bar that I havent seen the inside of in 31 days. But came home and made tea. Not sure how long I"ll stay sober , but I'm going to really try! Xoxo Hugs to all who participated this month and even to the people who just read all the threads.... we felt your positive vibes.15 -
@JuliaAL1969 and everybody else -- I agree, I could not have done it without this thread. I never felt alone. And now, it's the night of Jan. 31 and I can proudly say that the entire month was dry. I am so amazed that I've come this far. Maybe it was that epic New Year's Day hangover that inspired me to get headed in the right direction! See you guys over on the Feb. thread and really looking to keeping this going. I plan to never go back to daily wine drinking, with the help of all of you, of course. Planning on another dry day tomorrow, and then a glass or two with my celebratory dinner out Fri. night. I'm very curious to see how I'll react.2
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@JuliaAL1969 and everybody else -- I agree, I could not have done it without this thread. I never felt alone. And now, it's the night of Jan. 31 and I can proudly say that the entire month was dry. I am so amazed that I've come this far. Maybe it was that epic New Year's Day hangover that inspired me to get headed in the right direction! See you guys over on the Feb. thread and really looking to keeping this going. I plan to never go back to daily wine drinking, with the help of all of you, of course. Planning on another dry day tomorrow, and then a glass or two with my celebratory dinner out Fri. night. I'm very curious to see how I'll react.
Bravo Kitty!! Yes, see how you'll react on Friday. Annie Grace or another author says that you will feel it right away and maybe one or two drinks will be enough for the buzz. Let us know:)
I giggled when you said epic hangover. My last epic hangover was Dec. 1, 2017. That is burned in my brain:) LOL2 -
Well done everyone!!! Youve all have done an awesome job
I completed 23 days of Jan with 2 slips
Im thinking to make mini goals for myself of 23 days withoutany slips ... than i only have 6 more days to hang on to it til the end of the mth.
23 days is awesome!! What an accomplishment indeed:)
@justlog 25 days is nearly four weeks. I bet your body and mind feel great! I'm sure you will make February just fine!3 -
I did 25 days in January alcohol free. The 6 days were weekends. I cannot tell everyone how glad I am to be in this group, I am ready to drink less in February and beat my January stats. I can say my face is less red and puffy, eyes are brighter, skin softer. I do not have any stomach issues and feel amazing in the AM. I sleep much deeper and I have started good habit of tea every night. Challenges are still stress, weekends and the hubby drinking every night. I don't want to join in I really want him to cut back, but I will focus on myself first. I am up to 1 hour 6 times a week working out and even started to run. No real weight loss but I feel leaner and firmer. Thank you Julie, love you GF. Thank you all of you for postings and sharing your wins and losses. Let's kick February in gear.10
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Last day of Jan progress report
Goal of only drinking on Saturdays, only drank 3 times. Along a with a few days where i had some one ounce beer samples at work.
I only went over calories 4 days total, 2 of those were healthy food i just overate, 2 of them conplete cheat meals.
I worked out 16 out of 31 days. Only did yoga twice, i sweari will improve that one next month.
11.6 pounds lost and feeling better. Still a long journey ahead.
I am going to look to have the same food, drink, excercise goals in Feb and hope to lose about a pound a week.
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So 3 A.F days in 10 days for jan. Was actually hard last night, had to fight not to have a glass of wine but made it through and i actually slept better. I actually made under my calorie goal which is another good thing, see ya in the feb. post.8
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What a wonderful thread this has been! I'm so thankful to have stumbled upon it right as we were heading off for vacation at the start of the month.
A recap for me:
I started the challenge just wanting to cut back a little and ended up not drinking at all for 28 days.
- Jan 1: 2 glasses of wine
- Jan 3: 2 glasses of wine
- Jan 5: 1/2 glass of microbrew on vacation
I sleep better! I use a Garmin VivoActive to record my runs, but it also tracks sleep. In the past month, I have a larger percentage of deep sleep and less wakefulness than in the previous 6 months.
I eat a ton of food and have easily maintained my weight. Without so many calories being allocated to alcohol, I have dessert more often, and have been able to add an additional snack into my day without gaining any weight. I'm at maintenance and not trying to lose. The extra food has been a wonderful reward!
My workouts are better! I wake up generally feeling refreshed and ready to have a great workout.
I got a raise at work
! Ok, this isn't related to abstaining in January as it's based on work I did last year, but it was a real boost for me this month!
My mood has improved and I seem to deal with stress a better. Actually, I have less stress in my life without drinking. I feel the act of moderating alcohol is a stressor, at least for me. I'm making time for knitting and quilting, I'm getting a lot more accomplished on the weekends and in the evenings at home, time spent with my family has increased and is better quality, and I'm just enjoying life more than before.
I've loved being part of this thread and I've signed on for a dry February and beyond.
Thank you to everyone that contributed to this amazing thread, and good luck with whatever your goals are!
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DCRunnerGirl78 wrote: »Personal victory for last night!
I was having one of those days...all day long. My husband was behind schedule, frustrated, and taking it out on me. I got an email from two of my son's (16) teachers telling me once again, "he's brilliant, but not pushing himself." No homework and incomplete classwork will result in two C's on his forth coming report card. My daughter (13) kept texting me all day because she was bored...testing day, she was done so they could have their phones. When she got home she explained that she thought she was brightening my day, but I was busy (work from home), so really it was just adding fuel to the fire.
By the time my husband left to make deliveries, I was ready to fix a rum and Coke. I managed to talk myself into a hot cocoa, and that worked well. Too well. I got sidetracked looking at Facebook while I drank it, and ended up starting dinner an hour late...with two hungry teens in the house. My plan was for homemade chicken and dumplings, but of course, I'd forgotten to thaw the chicken. No worries, my husband gave me a pressure cooker for Christmas, I got this! I got the veggies all cleaned and chopped, the spices all measured out and added, tossed in the chicken, set the timer, then started cleaning up. Not until about 10 minutes later did it occur to me that the pot hadn't started yet. I figured in the rush I hadn't sealed the lid correctly, so I opened it up, checked everything (seemed fine), and tried again. Waited about 5 more minuets, it still didn't sound right. Opened it up, checked it again, still looked alright, so headed to the internet to see what I could possibly be doing wrong. I hadn't realized, the meat being frozen, it would take longer to build pressure. So if I hadn't kept messing with, it would probably have been about done at that point. I left it alone, the pressure finally started to build, so I got on to the dumplings. I was rushing now, didn't read the directions carefully enough, and added the milk before I got the butter cut into the flour. My hands were covered in sticky dough, and I had to call my daughter down to keep sprinkling flour over the mess until I could get it scraped off of me. Once we got those leveled out, the soup part was done...my son was so hungry he actually emerged from his room unbidden...the dumplings only took about 5 minutes to cook, and I had made a healthy dinner that we all seemed to enjoy.
I was thinking hard about the rum and Coke again by the time we all got our chores done, but I was able to distract myself with the Downton Abbey tea the kids gave me for Christmas and a few cookies from my secret stash. After that I figured I'd call it an early night and get ready for bed. As soon as I was done, hubby gets home...with groceries. Don't get me wrong, I'm happy he went shopping, but putting away groceries at 9pm was not what I had planned for the rest of the night. We get that done, but I didn't want to go to bed anymore. I wanted the rum and Coke that had been looming the back of my mind all evening. I gave in. I was heading to the kitchen to fix it when it hit me that I knew one would easily turn to two, which would probably turn to three before it was all said and done, so, begrudgingly, I fixed another cup of tea. After that, I really did head to bed...SOBER. And woke this morning...with NO HANGOVER!
I'm sure this just seems like the ramblings of any wife and mother to some, but maybe someone else can relate and take something from it. Hopefully it will help if ever another of you finds yourself in a similar situation...or just wants to know that yes, we all have the same mundane struggles.
I enjoyed reading this!! You almost got me when you said you went to make the rum and coke LOL!3
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