Less alcohol- February 2018- one day at a time
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springsweet wrote: »Help.
It's gray out here, I'm about to get off work, my hubby won't be home til 8:00, I'm feeling blue and have a headache again, all I really want to do is stop at the store on the way home and get a bottle of red, then plop on the couch with it and zone out on tv... Ugh. Hate this feeling.
Hey, if u have a headache, dont have wine. You'll be worse tommow. Grab some pain killers and drink lots of water put some relaxing meditating music on then drop on the couch. Or bed woukd be better than u can sleep all night.
Hope u get better soon.3 -
springsweet wrote: »Help.
It's gray out here, I'm about to get off work, my hubby won't be home til 8:00, I'm feeling blue and have a headache again, all I really want to do is stop at the store on the way home and get a bottle of red, then plop on the couch with it and zone out on tv... Ugh. Hate this feeling.
Sounds like a good night for a hot bath and some herbal tea instead!5 -
lporter229 wrote: »springsweet wrote: »Help.
It's gray out here, I'm about to get off work, my hubby won't be home til 8:00, I'm feeling blue and have a headache again, all I really want to do is stop at the store on the way home and get a bottle of red, then plop on the couch with it and zone out on tv... Ugh. Hate this feeling.
Sounds like a good night for a hot bath and some herbal tea instead!
That's a great suggestion. Maybe I'll get some Eucalyptus bath salts at the store that'll soothe my head as well.
And thanks also @Alzzi76 It never makes sense to crave wine when I have a headache because of that very reason, yet I do...
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MrsJenniferLynn wrote: »Im in how do u join sorry im new to this.
Welcome!2 -
springsweet wrote: »Help.
It's gray out here, I'm about to get off work, my hubby won't be home til 8:00, I'm feeling blue and have a headache again, all I really want to do is stop at the store on the way home and get a bottle of red, then plop on the couch with it and zone out on tv... Ugh. Hate this feeling.
Make a big pot of tea, sip it often, tuck yourself into bed, and watch a funny movie! Distract yourself if you can. It will make your headache worse. Xo1 -
Just came back from acupuncture treatment. I don't know how it works or why, but after 30 minutes of lying on the warm table, soothing music playing and yes, the needles sticking me, I always feel better. I told chiropractor about my 43 days of no alcohol ; he said when he got married, he told his wife who liked to drink , that they would not have alcohol in the house. If she wanted a drink, he'd be glad to take her out and she could have a few. He said if it's not home, you wont drink it. If it's at home, you build up a tolerance, and one drink, turns to two and then three. I replied, "Don't I know it!" Haha
He also added, that eventually, she just stopped drinking it. He said it is numbing to your whole nervous system which is why you feel loose and relaxed. And it's incredibly taxing on your kidneys, too. He said, "I'm proud of you!" It made me really happy:)13 -
shareebarnett2017 wrote: »Help! They want a ‘girls night’ with pre drinks.... so I’m going for a sober 2018. I haven’t missed alcohol AT ALL so far and I always regret having it the following day. It’s not worth writing my car off for a day and not getting stuff done
Just plan ahead. Go and have the bartender make you a yummy mocktail or drink club soda with lime and some cherries to make it look pretty. I survived a weekend in Nashville with my drinking buddy girlfriends and just told myself alcohol that weekend was not an option. Think of how good you'll feel the day after. Cheering you on! Xoxo5 -
I'm in. I've been wanting to cut back/stop for awhile now. I actually had created an "Alcohol" section in my MFP food categories. A couple glasses of wine a night add up. I need to kick start some weight loss. Glad to find this group.
Welcome to our group! We are all making progress because we can learn from each other, are strengthening our resolve and setting some goals. Sounds like you'll fit right in. Share with us what works for you2 -
springsweet wrote: »Help.
It's gray out here, I'm about to get off work, my hubby won't be home til 8:00, I'm feeling blue and have a headache again, all I really want to do is stop at the store on the way home and get a bottle of red, then plop on the couch with it and zone out on tv... Ugh. Hate this feeling.
Hang in there! A warm bath, couch and blanket, tv binge watch will still be the relaxation you crave with or without some wine. I mostly just imagine the wine part of that fantasy out of habit, when the truth is just sitting still on the couch and doing nothing is what i am wanting most.3 -
springsweet wrote: »Help.
It's gray out here, I'm about to get off work, my hubby won't be home til 8:00, I'm feeling blue and have a headache again, all I really want to do is stop at the store on the way home and get a bottle of red, then plop on the couch with it and zone out on tv... Ugh. Hate this feeling.
Do you like hot yoga? You can try that or if your gym has a jacuzzi or sauna, that could help. Stay strong2 -
Ok. Not going totally dry, but plan to cut down4
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Sabine_Stroehm wrote: »Cardinals_3 wrote: »Anyone else have trouble sleeping after you quit or cut back? Any recommendations? I've been waking up A LOT at night. Someone at work recommended taking GABA supplements--I took one last night and I did fall asleep easily but then was up half the night. I fell asleep ok at a reasonable hour and slept until about 1:30 am but then I was wide awake and could not fall back asleep until about 5am. I'm not really a big fan of tea--I thought about trying a sleepytime tea or something like that.
YES! I'm on my 32nd day and only manage 5-7 hrs of sleep per night. I do take the magnesium citrate supplements and drink either Sleepytime or chamomile tea in the evening. Last night I downloaded 'Headspace', a meditation app. I'm anxious to try it tonight.
If Headspace doesn't work, there are "sleep songs". Moby has an entire album of them. There's also a piece called 8 hour deep sleep. It's on youtube, so it's streaming. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=txQ6t4yPIM0
There are quite a few deep sleep pieces out there. I like "binuaural beats", personally.
This is awesome. Going to try tonight. Thanks.1 -
Thanku everyone, very helpful and supportive.
The other question is, what else other than alcohol will give that "buzz", or " let your hair down" , relaxed feel..?
This is a bit scary bcoz.. for some families this is what is their main or one of thier " hold together".
Its really sad bcoz there not that real love and respect bteen them.
Weed!!!
Has anyone tried kratom? I have heard good and bad. It has been described as very relaxing. My biggest worry is changing one addiction for another.
But since someone brought weed thought I would throw this out there.5 -
springsweet wrote: »Help.
It's gray out here, I'm about to get off work, my hubby won't be home til 8:00, I'm feeling blue and have a headache again, all I really want to do is stop at the store on the way home and get a bottle of red, then plop on the couch with it and zone out on tv... Ugh. Hate this feeling.
Hope you were able to stay strong. But if not tomorrow is a new start and we are here to listen5 -
MrsJenniferLynn wrote: »Im in how do u join sorry im new to this.
welcome , we r a group of people that want to cut back or quit . We tell each other what our goals are and go from there. We support each other in hard times. I want to reach my ideal weight so im trying to quit till ive reach it. i am struggling but i would have given in along time ago if it wasn't for Julie and her crew.
All the best on your journey.. xo
Yes, couldn’t have said it any better. I feel like those of us that are “regulars” in this group can all say the same. No matter the differences in our goals, everyone is supportive and having this group to discuss wins and losses had made it easier to stay on track6 -
I am curious....would accountabilibuddies work? Someone you can talk to, chat, show up at the door...when you want a drink4
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No wine tonight and so happy - I ended up having a few glasses of wine last night with friiends over for dinner and had really bad anxiety and felt down all day and I really think the wine was the problem! I’m gratefully drinking water and relaxing tonight.10
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I really love the way everybody is so supportive here - coming up with solutions and suggestions, tea, relaxing bath, meditation, sleep songs. I never would have thought of the last two, so I'm learning new ways to cope.
I had another successful night and am feeling better every day. But I know the craving could hit at any time, and now I know where I'll come when it does. Thanks, everyone!6 -
First time wanting a drink since I stopped on Jan 17 - 4 weeks ago. And it was because I had a *kitten* day at work. When I realised that was why I wanted to drink, I decided not to give in to such a stupid reason. Then I didn't know how to cope with fairly "normal" feelings we all get of like *eerrggghhh* *kitten* day. So I think I've been using alcohol just to chill everyday as much job can cause a bit of stress. (we all relate to that I guess). I thought of myself as a casual / social drinker ... but I am beginning to re-think that, and wanting to do something more about it.
To those saying they want to just "cut down", still drink on weekends etc ... I'm nervous to try this, won't that open the doors again?
But then again, I don't want to say never also. So I guess I'll focus on Feb for now and decided about March in a couple of weeks.
Thanks for the space here to vent/off load/process. Feel good I didn't drink but still feeling a little lousy about my stupid "*kitten* day". Ah well, that's life innit.9
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