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mustacheU2Lift
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What did you learn about yourself or others when you were the "bad guy"?
@bojack5 great idea or point...we love pointing out others faults...what is our own.
Post your red flags...if you were to warn others of your issues or quirks...run if you see....
@bojack5 great idea or point...we love pointing out others faults...what is our own.
Post your red flags...if you were to warn others of your issues or quirks...run if you see....
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* I am stubborn and can only see what the other person does wrong.
* my ex knew he wanted someone more affectionate and homemaker than I provided him.
* I'm more likely to shut down and avoid relationships then work through things or take chances.
My Red flags...
Flag- someone who cant open up
Flag- someone who rather eat out than cook at home
Flag- someone who piles clean laundry on the dresser or floor.
Flag- someone who would rather leave then talk through a disagreement1 -
Red flag...if you go over to their house and their Christmas decorations are out in april.4
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Red flag...run if the sink is piled with day old dishes2
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Red flag...run if their mom calls to check on him while on your first date.3
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Red flag run...when you realize that after dating a couple months you are still not being invited to birthdays, holidays, friend dinners...you are seemingly a "secret"1
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Run if the mold in on their shower curtain waved to you0
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Run if the dog is allowed to stay in the room for play time.2
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If I get quiet and expressionless0
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I hate doing housework and will do anything I can to avoid it
I have dozens of unfinished projects and dozens more in the planning stages
Once a month I get really needy and insecure4 -
My biggest red flag is the I’m always “happy”. But I’m not, just bottle it all up and then eventually there’s no more room and it explodes7
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I buy into the cliches that "relationships take work" "relationships have rough patches" too heavily and stay in them way too long trying to make them work when they should have ended months or years earlier.
I'm very resistant to being controlled or manipulated.
I have great difficulty sharing living space with someone who doesn't have similar standards of tidiness/cleanliness.
I need alone time.0 -
Flag - calls the police when she sees me in the tree outside.9
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if she's a libra4
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I feel that this belongs here.
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- I can be extremely negative
- I complain too much
- I can be self absorbed
Red flags
- Bad temper
- Manipulative
- Treats customer service people like sh***
- If he’s an Aquarius, Gemini or Aries RUN for the hills.3 -
Red flag ...popcorn is one of the main food groups0
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I have multiple walls up. And a crocodile filled moat. I crave love, but keep so guarded that most lose patience and leave or I push them away before they can crush me or know my flaws.3
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