Red Flags

mustacheU2Lift
mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
edited October 2018 in Chit-Chat
What did you learn about yourself or others when you were the "bad guy"?

@bojack5 great idea or point...we love pointing out others faults...what is our own.


Post your red flags...if you were to warn others of your issues or quirks...run if you see....
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  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
    * I am stubborn and can only see what the other person does wrong.
    * my ex knew he wanted someone more affectionate and homemaker than I provided him.
    * I'm more likely to shut down and avoid relationships then work through things or take chances.


    My Red flags...

    Flag- someone who cant open up
    Flag- someone who rather eat out than cook at home
    Flag- someone who piles clean laundry on the dresser or floor.
    Flag- someone who would rather leave then talk through a disagreement
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
    Red flag...if you go over to their house and their Christmas decorations are out in april.
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
    Red flag...run if the sink is piled with day old dishes
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
    Red flag...run if their mom calls to check on him while on your first date.
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
    Red flag run...when you realize that after dating a couple months you are still not being invited to birthdays, holidays, friend dinners...you are seemingly a "secret"
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
    Run if the mold in on their shower curtain waved to you
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
    Run if the dog is allowed to stay in the room for play time.
  • danavelling
    danavelling Posts: 1,224 Member
    If I get quiet and expressionless
  • Versicolour
    Versicolour Posts: 7,164 Member
    I hate doing housework and will do anything I can to avoid it

    I have dozens of unfinished projects and dozens more in the planning stages

    Once a month I get really needy and insecure
  • ythannah
    ythannah Posts: 4,371 Member
    I buy into the cliches that "relationships take work" "relationships have rough patches" too heavily and stay in them way too long trying to make them work when they should have ended months or years earlier.

    I'm very resistant to being controlled or manipulated.

    I have great difficulty sharing living space with someone who doesn't have similar standards of tidiness/cleanliness.

    I need alone time.
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    if she's a libra
  • bootyrubsandtacos
    bootyrubsandtacos Posts: 775 Member
    edited October 2018
    - I can be extremely negative
    - I complain too much
    - I can be self absorbed

    Red flags
    - Bad temper
    - Manipulative
    - Treats customer service people like sh***
    - If he’s an Aquarius, Gemini or Aries RUN for the hills.
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
    Red flag ...popcorn is one of the main food groups
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  • Just_Mel_
    Just_Mel_ Posts: 3,992 Member
    I have multiple walls up. And a crocodile filled moat. I crave love, but keep so guarded that most lose patience and leave or I push them away before they can crush me or know my flaws.
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
    Avocado_AS5 wrote: »
    I have multiple walls up. And a crocodile filled moat. I crave love, but keep so guarded that most lose patience and leave or I push them away before they can crush me or know my flaws.

    At least red is pretty and flags are cool.
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
    cee134 wrote: »
    I dated this really sweet women that was also a communist. She had so many red flags.

    :# true. I have so many red flags. And. Communism.
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  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
    cee134 wrote: »
    mustacheU2Lift wrote: »
    cee134 wrote: »
    I dated this really sweet women that was also a communist. She had so many red flags.

    :# true. I have so many red flags. And. Communism.

    A communist joke isn't funny.
    Unless everyone gets it.

    :#:D:D:D
  • danavelling
    danavelling Posts: 1,224 Member
    cee134 wrote: »
    mustacheU2Lift wrote: »
    cee134 wrote: »
    I dated this really sweet women that was also a communist. She had so many red flags.

    :# true. I have so many red flags. And. Communism.

    A communist joke isn't funny.
    Unless everyone gets it.

    I think it’s hilarious
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
    Red flag...I randomly text have a good life because you jumped in the shower instead of responding to my texts.
  • ythannah
    ythannah Posts: 4,371 Member
    mustacheU2Lift wrote: »
    Red flag...I randomly text have a good life because you jumped in the shower instead of responding to my texts.

    I'm prone to misplacing or ignoring my phone for hours so I don't respond to texts or voicemails. Guess that's a red flag for some people.

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