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  • Cutemesoon
    Cutemesoon Posts: 2,646 Member
    edited November 2018
    bojack5 wrote: »
    Cutemesoon wrote: »
    If a guy posts alot of selfies. It tells me one of two things:

    1) He's self centered/conceited/narcissistic

    OR

    2) He has low self esteem. He doesn't get much female attention in his real life so he posts pics online where lots of people gas his head up.

    I realize we live in a selfie culture but if you have a life, why are you posting pics of yourself online all day? 🤔

     

    Oh i know this was meant for me......its because i want you to notice me dammit!!

    Oh. That explains alot! 😏 Don't worry. Everyone notices you. 😜 Which one are you tho? 🤣
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
    Chael2dot0 wrote: »
    Every picture is filtered and angled....

    🤷‍♀️
  • Mandygring
    Mandygring Posts: 704 Member
    I think I'm very optimistic and can be funny however my red flag issue is I can be extremely sensitive at times.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    I can be intensely focused on 10 different things at once...
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
    Apparently talk too much...that's one I definitely never heard
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    I tend to see everyone and everything in the world as just in my way
  • DawnOfTheDead_Lift
    DawnOfTheDead_Lift Posts: 753 Member
    edited November 2018
    I'm not very naturally talkative, unless its topic based. If someone asks me about a topic I'm very comfortable talking and can often make others laugh but I don't mind silence and just being in the prescence of others or just my own thoughts.

    "Why are you so quiet, is everything ok?" is something i've heard many times.
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    DawnOfTheDead_Lift wrote: »
    I'm not very naturally talkative, unless its topic based. If someone asks me about a topic I'm very comfortable talking and can often make others laugh but I don't mind silence and just being in the prescence of others or just my own thoughts.

    "Why are you so quiet, is everything ok?" is something i've heard many times.

    I can appreciate this. I don't talk for the sake of filling the silence. I prefer silence often to 'small talk'
  • CaptainFantastic01
    CaptainFantastic01 Posts: 9,558 Member
    edited November 2018
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  • Maestromik3y
    Maestromik3y Posts: 35 Member
    mustacheU2Lift wrote: »
    What did you learn about yourself or others when you were the "bad guy"?

    @bojack5 great idea or point...we love pointing out others faults...what is our own.


    Post your red flags...if you were to warn others of your issues or quirks...run if you see....

    I seriously emotionally block out people in every sense of the word and turn cold as ice.
  • Maestromik3y
    Maestromik3y Posts: 35 Member
    CoffeeAndContour wrote: »
    - I am not a very tolerable person. I exit relationships over things many think aren’t “that serious”

    - I won’t bite my tongue. If I am angry or disappointed, I won’t ever not say something and would prefer if I had the same in return.

    - I need a lot of time to myself to do my own thing or the relationship will begin to feel overwhelming.


    Amen to that.

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