Red Flags
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xFunctionalStrengthx wrote: »Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »xFunctionalStrengthx wrote: »Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »george5911 wrote: »Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »Expects me to come to him all the time because he has no job and no vehicle. Nope.
Surely you can do better than that! 😜
Yep
That got shut down real quick, lol
So, you upgraded to a guy with a job (paperroute) who has a bike and lives with his mom...
Makin it sound like I'm robbin the cradle
Was a reference to "Benchwarmers"
Oh, Ive never seen it 0 -
CoffeeAndContour wrote: »If he talks terribly about his exes, I immediately lose interest.
If he gets jealous of male friends, run.
Oh this made me think of an ex.
I dated a guy several yrs ago. That would lie about being at his baby mama's house (they had an on and off again thing).. I don't care he'd go over and be around the kid and her a bit, as I like civil co-parenting but when you are staying and watching movies with her until 2am or later, and lying about it... only getting caught because FB app used to tell where you are near if its enabled... then no.1 -
Every picture is filtered and angled....3
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Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »xFunctionalStrengthx wrote: »Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »xFunctionalStrengthx wrote: »Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »george5911 wrote: »Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »Expects me to come to him all the time because he has no job and no vehicle. Nope.
Surely you can do better than that! 😜
Yep
That got shut down real quick, lol
So, you upgraded to a guy with a job (paperroute) who has a bike and lives with his mom...
Makin it sound like I'm robbin the cradle
Was a reference to "Benchwarmers"
Oh, Ive never seen it
Great movie to watch if you're into Rob Schneider comedies or are a fan of baseball. Kind of a silly, feel good movie about kids, missed opportunities and being bullied. It's a Happy Madison movie.
Benchwarmers on IMDB0 -
CoffeeAndContour wrote: »If he talks terribly about his exes, I immediately lose interest.
If he gets jealous of male friends, run.
I find it so incredibly attractive when a guy shows no jealousy. That kind of security is really hot2 -
CoffeeAndContour wrote: »If he talks terribly about his exes, I immediately lose interest.
If he gets jealous of male friends, run.
What if she/he was really nasty? Not the good nasty but the nasty nasty.0 -
CoffeeAndContour wrote: »george5911 wrote: »CoffeeAndContour wrote: »If he talks terribly about his exes, I immediately lose interest.
If he gets jealous of male friends, run.
What if she/he was really nasty? Not the good nasty but the nasty nasty.
If he’s still so angry at his ex that he’s talking to his current date about it, I’d assume he’s not over it and question why he’s on a date with me. So another red flag.
People shouldn’t let other people have control of their emotions so much. The only case in which I could be more understandable is if there are children involved.
Both are excellent answers and pretty much what I expected from you. 😁0 -
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Mistaking arrogance and being self-centered for confidence.2
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SnackherBarrell wrote: »SnackherBarrell wrote: »If they can't keep an indoor plant alive
I cannot keep plants alive. I have kept a 16 yr old son alive by myself.
That doesn't count for anything?
Nope! DQ'd.
dangit. I was really hoping for redemption.
What if I buy a fake plant and water it when you come over so that it LOOKS real?1 -
If people are mean to you they are not your people.
If people accuse you of *kitten* for no reason they are not your people
If people lie to you about dumb stuff that's obviously a lie they are not your people.
If they won't compromise on what to watch with you they're probably someone to work with.
Don't associate with people who yuck your yums.2 -
I'm really bad at plants but i care strongly for people and try to treat them well @SnackherBarrell0
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SnackherBarrell wrote: »CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »I'm really bad at plants but i care strongly for people and try to treat them well @SnackherBarrell
The loop hole isdont buy house plants and its fine
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caco_ethes wrote: »CoffeeAndContour wrote: »If he talks terribly about his exes, I immediately lose interest.
If he gets jealous of male friends, run.
I find it so incredibly attractive when a guy shows no jealousy. That kind of security is really hot
Having been cheated on multiple times, I can understand where one would be cautious and potentially untrusting. But, I've always given people the benefit of the doubt until something comes up that causes me to question her motives.
This is the opposite of how my ex-wife was. She forbid me from having female friends. Yet, she was the one who cheated. So, in some ways, I'm a bit cautious and look for certain signs in a person's character. But, never jealous.CoffeeAndContour wrote: »george5911 wrote: »CoffeeAndContour wrote: »If he talks terribly about his exes, I immediately lose interest.
If he gets jealous of male friends, run.
What if she/he was really nasty? Not the good nasty but the nasty nasty.
If he’s still so angry at his ex that he’s talking to his current date about it, I’d assume he’s not over it and question why he’s on a date with me. So another red flag.
People shouldn’t let other people have control of their emotions so much. The only case in which I could be more understandable is if there are children involved.
There's a point where I can understand having a neutral discussion about why/how something might have happened and how it's caused one to be a bit more cautious or be a certain way. Potential deal breakers, so to speak. But, how they talk about their exes and what's said is more important than just the discussion.
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if she says she's "not ticklish"1
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laprimaJenny wrote: »If he says Canada is an American state.
What if one is from "South Canadia"?0 -
Complaining about having to work or your job everyday. Hey we all have bad days, ill even let a tough week slide by.....but after that, no. Change your reality, adjust to it, or embrace it. Life is hard, i get it......now get over it.10
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A never ending list of superficial red flags of no consequence... sends up a red flag.7
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If he won't ugly eat takeout right out of the box with me in bed... he's not the one
ETA... this is meant for the deal breaker thread 😋4 -
Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »If he won't ugly eat takeout right out of the box with me in bed... he's not the one
ETA... this is meant for the deal breaker thread 😋
Note to myself, always eat the box.1 -
If a guy posts alot of selfies. It tells me one of two things:
1) He's self centered/conceited/narcissistic
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2) He has low self esteem. He doesn't get much female attention in his real life so he posts pics online where lots of people gas his head up.
I realize we live in a selfie culture but if you have a life, why are you posting pics of yourself online all day? 🤔
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crusheverything1981 wrote: »Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »If he won't ugly eat takeout right out of the box with me in bed... he's not the one
ETA... this is meant for the deal breaker thread 😋
Note to myself, always eat the box.
Lol.
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Cutemesoon wrote: »If a guy posts alot of selfies. It tells me one of two things:
1) He's self centered/conceited/narcissistic
OR
2) He has low self esteem. He doesn't get much female attention in his real life so he posts pics online where lots of people gas his head up.
I realize we live in a selfie culture but if you have a life, why are you posting pics of yourself online all day? 🤔
Oh i know this was meant for me......its because i want you to notice me dammit!!3 -
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My personal red flags:
I overthink certain things. If I think I possibly said something to offend you, or made a mistake, it is probably keeping me awake at 3am six months later.
I'm a walking contradiction. Ridiculously laid back but anxious at the same time. A super extroverted introvert. It makes it hard to function sometimes.
I also am a terrible housekeeper, and would never make a good housewife.
Since losing weight, I look at myself in the mirror a billion times a day. Hahaha. Not on purpose, but I could see how it could drive a partner crazy.1
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