What's on your mind?

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  • Keep_on_cardio
    Keep_on_cardio Posts: 4,166 Member
    I don't know how to handle people who push others away when they are struggling. I WANT to be there. I don't know how much reaching out and saying "I am here" is too much and what isn't enough. It's like walking a thin line between being supportive and obnoxious. It makes me paranoid and anxious.

    Sometimes the ones pushing away, aren’t wanting to push you away. They’re more understanding that you can’t fix their struggle. I’m sure they appreciate you, even if it comes across as wanting to be alone. You sound like a wonderful friend 💜

    Thank you! That's probably partially it. I am a fixer and most people know that. I just never want anyone to feel like I have abandoned them so I have a constant internal battle of giving them space and reinforcing that I am there.

    I appreciate people like you ❤️
  • Den_of_Iniquity
    Den_of_Iniquity Posts: 424 Member
    Best St. Patrick's Day Ever!

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  • Tankiscool
    Tankiscool Posts: 11,105 Member
    Best St. Patrick's Day Ever!

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    I disagree. You are able to post this and spell correctly.
  • its_jus_me
    its_jus_me Posts: 1 Member
    Best St. Patrick's Day Ever!

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    She said check your instagram
  • Den_of_Iniquity
    Den_of_Iniquity Posts: 424 Member
    its_jus_me wrote: »
    Best St. Patrick's Day Ever!

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    She said check your instagram

    Pure gold at the end of the rainbow. Thank ye lass.
  • LiftingSpirits
    LiftingSpirits Posts: 2,207 Member
    I don't know how to handle people who push others away when they are struggling. I WANT to be there. I don't know how much reaching out and saying "I am here" is too much and what isn't enough. It's like walking a thin line between being supportive and obnoxious. It makes me paranoid and anxious.

    just keep loving the people you love the best you can without worrying about how they respond to you

    This is excellent advice. Thank you ❤
  • ElC_76
    ElC_76 Posts: 3,054 Member
    Bed
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    ElC_76 wrote: »
    Bed

    Already? Big dog has just gone pretty much lol.
  • ElC_76
    ElC_76 Posts: 3,054 Member
    ElC_76 wrote: »
    Bed

    Already? Big dog has just gone pretty much lol.

    In a little bit yep, bc I get up at 2.30 for a 3.am workout. Need stacks of beauty sleep.
  • Reckoner67
    Reckoner67 Posts: 3,344 Member
    Trying to motivate for work
  • JustAMurmur
    JustAMurmur Posts: 7,867 Member
    Dreading some appoinrments
  • LiftingSpirits
    LiftingSpirits Posts: 2,207 Member
    pudgy1977 wrote: »
    Trying to figure out unemployment. Yay!

    Oh no! I am so sorry. I know that is very stressful!
  • Reckoner67
    Reckoner67 Posts: 3,344 Member
    How's my body so exhausted while my mind is racing like this?
  • Keep_on_cardio
    Keep_on_cardio Posts: 4,166 Member
    Someone take the corned beef and cabbage, HELP! 😩😩 I do not want to eat this solo.
  • ElC_76
    ElC_76 Posts: 3,054 Member
    I need to be asleep but I can't for some reason 😑

    Lots of sympathy to u
  • ElC_76
    ElC_76 Posts: 3,054 Member
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    How's my body so exhausted while my mind is racing like this?

    That would be awesome if active brain/mind could burn calories. I'd NEVER would get fat
  • Reckoner67
    Reckoner67 Posts: 3,344 Member
    ElC_76 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    How's my body so exhausted while my mind is racing like this?

    That would be awesome if active brain/mind could burn calories. I'd NEVER would get fat

    Ugh, I hear ya there. I'm proof otherwise tho, heh.

    Some day's it's quieter than others, today the old gray blob won't shut up!! Argh
  • ElC_76
    ElC_76 Posts: 3,054 Member
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    ElC_76 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    How's my body so exhausted while my mind is racing like this?

    That would be awesome if active brain/mind could burn calories. I'd NEVER would get fat

    Ugh, I hear ya there. I'm proof otherwise tho, heh.

    Some day's it's quieter than others, today the old gray blob won't shut up!! Argh

    :D

    U need to get some space
  • Mmae20
    Mmae20 Posts: 17 Member
    I’m thinking about new clothes when I lose the weight, but this time i need to wait until i reach my goal before buying new clothes. But i need new clothes that look better and not baggie on me. So the question that I’m trying to answer is, should i buy or wait?
  • Carried_aw4y
    Carried_aw4y Posts: 45 Member
    edited March 2019
    Why is it so hard to make new friends and real connections when you want them so badly.... 🤔
  • Keep_on_cardio
    Keep_on_cardio Posts: 4,166 Member
    Just say no
  • amorfati601070
    amorfati601070 Posts: 2,890 Member
    edited March 2019
    Globalisation ... ain’t it a thing? Shut up and drink your java you Addict.

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  • LiftingSpirits
    LiftingSpirits Posts: 2,207 Member
    World domination, but first I'm gonna get some sleep
  • ElC_76
    ElC_76 Posts: 3,054 Member
    World domination, but first I'm gonna get some sleep

    Good place to be! :);)
  • JustAMurmur
    JustAMurmur Posts: 7,867 Member
    Why is it so hard to make new friends and real connections when you want them so badly.... 🤔

    Agreed. :(
  • amorfati601070
    amorfati601070 Posts: 2,890 Member
    all i do is work & try to feel better

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    Grow a moustache and become an Edgelord❤️.


    https://youtu.be/xVdF0k4DN1U
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