What's on your mind?

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  • MaxT370
    MaxT370 Posts: 274 Member
    Wondering if my toddler is going to simmer down and go to sleep.
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  • Tankiscool
    Tankiscool Posts: 11,105 Member
    tinkerhellraiser wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
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    also, I can’t possibly figure out intentions with any degree of accuracy unless I really know a person well. But I don’t have to. if you cause me pain, regardless of intention, my feelings are valid. someone telling me those feelings are not valid makes me feel worse. i have choices in those situations. Hunker down and lick my wounds, address the subject directly- preferably with the person who has offended me, lash out and become another hurtful person...

    what i won’t do is harden my heart. i’d rather feel the pain

    All this talk about being offended. I'm offended by your shirt Mistress, please take it off 😉

    naughty boy. go stand facing the corner

    Ok i know you just wanna stare at my good side 😋😏

    nose to the wall, you fresh thing

    Don't be greedy, I got enough to feed the needy.

    Don’t sass me, boy.

    Yes Mistress.
    @Tankiscool You may exit the corner now.

    Yes Mistress.


    ubqgbjiata0v.gif

    You still defiant?

    I may need to be taught a lesson or few.

    i like the way you grovel 🤣

    I knew you would. Tables will turn, no? I'm sure there are more than a few lessons to be learned on your end.

    i don’t switch
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    also, I can’t possibly figure out intentions with any degree of accuracy unless I really know a person well. But I don’t have to. if you cause me pain, regardless of intention, my feelings are valid. someone telling me those feelings are not valid makes me feel worse. i have choices in those situations. Hunker down and lick my wounds, address the subject directly- preferably with the person who has offended me, lash out and become another hurtful person...

    what i won’t do is harden my heart. i’d rather feel the pain

    All this talk about being offended. I'm offended by your shirt Mistress, please take it off 😉

    naughty boy. go stand facing the corner

    Ok i know you just wanna stare at my good side 😋😏

    nose to the wall, you fresh thing

    Don't be greedy, I got enough to feed the needy.

    Don’t sass me, boy.

    Yes Mistress.
    @Tankiscool You may exit the corner now.

    Yes Mistress.


    ubqgbjiata0v.gif

    You still defiant?

    I may need to be taught a lesson or few.

    i like the way you grovel 🤣

    I knew you would. Tables will turn, no? I'm sure there are more than a few lessons to be learned on your end.

    i don’t switch

    But you never been with me 😇

    that not how it works tank

    You're cute when you're jelly, don't worry love, enough of me to go around
  • Tankiscool
    Tankiscool Posts: 11,105 Member
    JustPassingTime wrote: »
    tinkerhellraiser wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    also, I can’t possibly figure out intentions with any degree of accuracy unless I really know a person well. But I don’t have to. if you cause me pain, regardless of intention, my feelings are valid. someone telling me those feelings are not valid makes me feel worse. i have choices in those situations. Hunker down and lick my wounds, address the subject directly- preferably with the person who has offended me, lash out and become another hurtful person...

    what i won’t do is harden my heart. i’d rather feel the pain

    All this talk about being offended. I'm offended by your shirt Mistress, please take it off 😉

    naughty boy. go stand facing the corner

    Ok i know you just wanna stare at my good side 😋😏

    nose to the wall, you fresh thing

    Don't be greedy, I got enough to feed the needy.

    Don’t sass me, boy.

    Yes Mistress.
    @Tankiscool You may exit the corner now.

    Yes Mistress.


    ubqgbjiata0v.gif

    You still defiant?

    I may need to be taught a lesson or few.

    i like the way you grovel 🤣

    I knew you would. Tables will turn, no? I'm sure there are more than a few lessons to be learned on your end.

    i don’t switch
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    also, I can’t possibly figure out intentions with any degree of accuracy unless I really know a person well. But I don’t have to. if you cause me pain, regardless of intention, my feelings are valid. someone telling me those feelings are not valid makes me feel worse. i have choices in those situations. Hunker down and lick my wounds, address the subject directly- preferably with the person who has offended me, lash out and become another hurtful person...

    what i won’t do is harden my heart. i’d rather feel the pain

    All this talk about being offended. I'm offended by your shirt Mistress, please take it off 😉

    naughty boy. go stand facing the corner

    Ok i know you just wanna stare at my good side 😋😏

    nose to the wall, you fresh thing

    Don't be greedy, I got enough to feed the needy.

    Don’t sass me, boy.

    Yes Mistress.
    @Tankiscool You may exit the corner now.

    Yes Mistress.


    ubqgbjiata0v.gif

    You still defiant?

    I may need to be taught a lesson or few.

    i like the way you grovel 🤣

    I knew you would. Tables will turn, no? I'm sure there are more than a few lessons to be learned on your end.

    i don’t switch

    But you never been with me 😇

    that not how it works tank

    What doesn't work that way?

    Apparently my magic st...
  • Tankiscool
    Tankiscool Posts: 11,105 Member
    JustPassingTime wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    JustPassingTime wrote: »
    tinkerhellraiser wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    also, I can’t possibly figure out intentions with any degree of accuracy unless I really know a person well. But I don’t have to. if you cause me pain, regardless of intention, my feelings are valid. someone telling me those feelings are not valid makes me feel worse. i have choices in those situations. Hunker down and lick my wounds, address the subject directly- preferably with the person who has offended me, lash out and become another hurtful person...

    what i won’t do is harden my heart. i’d rather feel the pain

    All this talk about being offended. I'm offended by your shirt Mistress, please take it off 😉

    naughty boy. go stand facing the corner

    Ok i know you just wanna stare at my good side 😋😏

    nose to the wall, you fresh thing

    Don't be greedy, I got enough to feed the needy.

    Don’t sass me, boy.

    Yes Mistress.
    @Tankiscool You may exit the corner now.

    Yes Mistress.


    ubqgbjiata0v.gif

    You still defiant?

    I may need to be taught a lesson or few.

    i like the way you grovel 🤣

    I knew you would. Tables will turn, no? I'm sure there are more than a few lessons to be learned on your end.

    i don’t switch
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    also, I can’t possibly figure out intentions with any degree of accuracy unless I really know a person well. But I don’t have to. if you cause me pain, regardless of intention, my feelings are valid. someone telling me those feelings are not valid makes me feel worse. i have choices in those situations. Hunker down and lick my wounds, address the subject directly- preferably with the person who has offended me, lash out and become another hurtful person...

    what i won’t do is harden my heart. i’d rather feel the pain

    All this talk about being offended. I'm offended by your shirt Mistress, please take it off 😉

    naughty boy. go stand facing the corner

    Ok i know you just wanna stare at my good side 😋😏

    nose to the wall, you fresh thing

    Don't be greedy, I got enough to feed the needy.

    Don’t sass me, boy.

    Yes Mistress.
    @Tankiscool You may exit the corner now.

    Yes Mistress.


    ubqgbjiata0v.gif

    You still defiant?

    I may need to be taught a lesson or few.

    i like the way you grovel 🤣

    I knew you would. Tables will turn, no? I'm sure there are more than a few lessons to be learned on your end.

    i don’t switch

    But you never been with me 😇

    that not how it works tank

    What doesn't work that way?

    Apparently my magic st...

    😂 Maybe it isn't magical...Just take em to the candy shop then

    @Tinkerhellraiser already knows what I got. Apparently it hits the spot, whoa!
  • Tankiscool
    Tankiscool Posts: 11,105 Member
    tinkerhellraiser wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    tinkerhellraiser wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    also, I can’t possibly figure out intentions with any degree of accuracy unless I really know a person well. But I don’t have to. if you cause me pain, regardless of intention, my feelings are valid. someone telling me those feelings are not valid makes me feel worse. i have choices in those situations. Hunker down and lick my wounds, address the subject directly- preferably with the person who has offended me, lash out and become another hurtful person...

    what i won’t do is harden my heart. i’d rather feel the pain

    All this talk about being offended. I'm offended by your shirt Mistress, please take it off 😉

    naughty boy. go stand facing the corner

    Ok i know you just wanna stare at my good side 😋😏

    nose to the wall, you fresh thing

    Don't be greedy, I got enough to feed the needy.

    Don’t sass me, boy.

    Yes Mistress.
    @Tankiscool You may exit the corner now.

    Yes Mistress.


    ubqgbjiata0v.gif

    You still defiant?

    I may need to be taught a lesson or few.

    i like the way you grovel 🤣

    I knew you would. Tables will turn, no? I'm sure there are more than a few lessons to be learned on your end.

    i don’t switch
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    also, I can’t possibly figure out intentions with any degree of accuracy unless I really know a person well. But I don’t have to. if you cause me pain, regardless of intention, my feelings are valid. someone telling me those feelings are not valid makes me feel worse. i have choices in those situations. Hunker down and lick my wounds, address the subject directly- preferably with the person who has offended me, lash out and become another hurtful person...

    what i won’t do is harden my heart. i’d rather feel the pain

    All this talk about being offended. I'm offended by your shirt Mistress, please take it off 😉

    naughty boy. go stand facing the corner

    Ok i know you just wanna stare at my good side 😋😏

    nose to the wall, you fresh thing

    Don't be greedy, I got enough to feed the needy.

    Don’t sass me, boy.

    Yes Mistress.
    @Tankiscool You may exit the corner now.

    Yes Mistress.


    ubqgbjiata0v.gif

    You still defiant?

    I may need to be taught a lesson or few.

    i like the way you grovel 🤣

    I knew you would. Tables will turn, no? I'm sure there are more than a few lessons to be learned on your end.

    i don’t switch

    But you never been with me 😇

    that not how it works tank

    You're cute when you're jelly, don't worry love, enough of me to go around

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  • ElC_76
    ElC_76 Posts: 3,054 Member
    Annoyingly slow technology
  • Tankiscool
    Tankiscool Posts: 11,105 Member
    JustPassingTime wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    JustPassingTime wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    JustPassingTime wrote: »
    tinkerhellraiser wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    also, I can’t possibly figure out intentions with any degree of accuracy unless I really know a person well. But I don’t have to. if you cause me pain, regardless of intention, my feelings are valid. someone telling me those feelings are not valid makes me feel worse. i have choices in those situations. Hunker down and lick my wounds, address the subject directly- preferably with the person who has offended me, lash out and become another hurtful person...

    what i won’t do is harden my heart. i’d rather feel the pain

    All this talk about being offended. I'm offended by your shirt Mistress, please take it off 😉

    naughty boy. go stand facing the corner

    Ok i know you just wanna stare at my good side 😋😏

    nose to the wall, you fresh thing

    Don't be greedy, I got enough to feed the needy.

    Don’t sass me, boy.

    Yes Mistress.
    @Tankiscool You may exit the corner now.

    Yes Mistress.


    ubqgbjiata0v.gif

    You still defiant?

    I may need to be taught a lesson or few.

    i like the way you grovel 🤣

    I knew you would. Tables will turn, no? I'm sure there are more than a few lessons to be learned on your end.

    i don’t switch
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    also, I can’t possibly figure out intentions with any degree of accuracy unless I really know a person well. But I don’t have to. if you cause me pain, regardless of intention, my feelings are valid. someone telling me those feelings are not valid makes me feel worse. i have choices in those situations. Hunker down and lick my wounds, address the subject directly- preferably with the person who has offended me, lash out and become another hurtful person...

    what i won’t do is harden my heart. i’d rather feel the pain

    All this talk about being offended. I'm offended by your shirt Mistress, please take it off 😉

    naughty boy. go stand facing the corner

    Ok i know you just wanna stare at my good side 😋😏

    nose to the wall, you fresh thing

    Don't be greedy, I got enough to feed the needy.

    Don’t sass me, boy.

    Yes Mistress.
    @Tankiscool You may exit the corner now.

    Yes Mistress.


    ubqgbjiata0v.gif

    You still defiant?

    I may need to be taught a lesson or few.

    i like the way you grovel 🤣

    I knew you would. Tables will turn, no? I'm sure there are more than a few lessons to be learned on your end.

    i don’t switch

    But you never been with me 😇

    that not how it works tank

    What doesn't work that way?

    Apparently my magic st...

    😂 Maybe it isn't magical...Just take em to the candy shop then

    @Tinkerhellraiser already knows what I got. Apparently it hits the spot, whoa!

    Maybe she'll have you spending all you got

    Probs, you've seen her, one taste of what shes got ill be additicted. Long as she ain't stopping, homie I ain't stopping
  • Tankiscool
    Tankiscool Posts: 11,105 Member
    JustPassingTime wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    JustPassingTime wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    JustPassingTime wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    JustPassingTime wrote: »
    tinkerhellraiser wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    also, I can’t possibly figure out intentions with any degree of accuracy unless I really know a person well. But I don’t have to. if you cause me pain, regardless of intention, my feelings are valid. someone telling me those feelings are not valid makes me feel worse. i have choices in those situations. Hunker down and lick my wounds, address the subject directly- preferably with the person who has offended me, lash out and become another hurtful person...

    what i won’t do is harden my heart. i’d rather feel the pain

    All this talk about being offended. I'm offended by your shirt Mistress, please take it off 😉

    naughty boy. go stand facing the corner

    Ok i know you just wanna stare at my good side 😋😏

    nose to the wall, you fresh thing

    Don't be greedy, I got enough to feed the needy.

    Don’t sass me, boy.

    Yes Mistress.
    @Tankiscool You may exit the corner now.

    Yes Mistress.


    ubqgbjiata0v.gif

    You still defiant?

    I may need to be taught a lesson or few.

    i like the way you grovel 🤣

    I knew you would. Tables will turn, no? I'm sure there are more than a few lessons to be learned on your end.

    i don’t switch
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    MistressSara wrote: »
    also, I can’t possibly figure out intentions with any degree of accuracy unless I really know a person well. But I don’t have to. if you cause me pain, regardless of intention, my feelings are valid. someone telling me those feelings are not valid makes me feel worse. i have choices in those situations. Hunker down and lick my wounds, address the subject directly- preferably with the person who has offended me, lash out and become another hurtful person...

    what i won’t do is harden my heart. i’d rather feel the pain

    All this talk about being offended. I'm offended by your shirt Mistress, please take it off 😉

    naughty boy. go stand facing the corner

    Ok i know you just wanna stare at my good side 😋😏

    nose to the wall, you fresh thing

    Don't be greedy, I got enough to feed the needy.

    Don’t sass me, boy.

    Yes Mistress.
    @Tankiscool You may exit the corner now.

    Yes Mistress.


    ubqgbjiata0v.gif

    You still defiant?

    I may need to be taught a lesson or few.

    i like the way you grovel 🤣

    I knew you would. Tables will turn, no? I'm sure there are more than a few lessons to be learned on your end.

    i don’t switch

    But you never been with me 😇

    that not how it works tank

    What doesn't work that way?

    Apparently my magic st...

    😂 Maybe it isn't magical...Just take em to the candy shop then

    @Tinkerhellraiser already knows what I got. Apparently it hits the spot, whoa!

    Maybe she'll have you spending all you got

    Probs, you've seen her, one taste of what shes got ill be additicted. Long as she ain't stopping, homie I ain't stopping

    I'm done lol! I don't remember the song it's been so long

    Lol same you just reminded me of it 😛
  • Deadman_Diggingup
    Deadman_Diggingup Posts: 3,082 Member
    The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »
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    Saw these in the candy aisle... I didn't feel right buying them but I still did. 😒😅

    Liquid filled camel balls..... only in Quebec.

    😂
  • Tankiscool
    Tankiscool Posts: 11,105 Member
    tinkerhellraiser wrote: »
    oh no candy shop for me tks



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  • Tankiscool
    Tankiscool Posts: 11,105 Member
    JustPassingTime wrote: »
    tinkerhellraiser wrote: »
    oh no candy shop for me tks



    Lol. Sorry @Tankiscool

    Lol I'm curious as to what it said before she edited it!
  • Reckoner67
    Reckoner67 Posts: 3,344 Member
    Bach's Prelude in C
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    https://youtu.be/m6Uw2DJ9Md8
  • Nerdswrkout2_1978
    Nerdswrkout2_1978 Posts: 147 Member
    Mulch, mulch and more mulch...
  • JustAMurmur
    JustAMurmur Posts: 7,867 Member
    How to solve a problem
  • LiftingSpirits
    LiftingSpirits Posts: 2,207 Member
    JustPassingTime wrote: »
    Just found out they're shutting my workplace down and we're getting transferred to another facility 😑😑😑
    I'm really gonna miss this place my "projects", some friends I've made, sneaking on the rooftop during the warm summer nights just to "get away". Oh wells it is what it is I guess 😞

    I am glad you still have a job though
  • Keep_on_cardio
    Keep_on_cardio Posts: 4,166 Member
    LiftingSpirits wrote: »
    I don't know how to handle people who push others away when they are struggling. I WANT to be there. I don't know how much reaching out and saying "I am here" is too much and what isn't enough. It's like walking a thin line between being supportive and obnoxious. It makes me paranoid and anxious.

    Sometimes the ones pushing away, aren’t wanting to push you away. They’re more understanding that you can’t fix their struggle. I’m sure they appreciate you, even if it comes across as wanting to be alone. You sound like a wonderful friend 💜
  • bootyrubsandtacos
    bootyrubsandtacos Posts: 775 Member
    I read an article that said most caregivers end up dying before the one they’re caring for. It kind of freaked me out, because I’ve always felt my life would end tragically.
  • amorfati601070
    amorfati601070 Posts: 2,890 Member
    bootyrubsandtacos wrote: »
    I read an article that said most caregivers end up dying before the one they’re caring for. It kind of freaked me out, because I’ve always felt my life would end tragically.

    That's a pretty cruel fate or not...I don't know. It's almost as if like the life is being transferred between the two.
  • tc1333
    tc1333 Posts: 4,033 Member
    Oh God I hope not!
  • LiftingSpirits
    LiftingSpirits Posts: 2,207 Member
    Keep_on_cardio wrote: »
    LiftingSpirits wrote: »
    I don't know how to handle people who push others away when they are struggling. I WANT to be there. I don't know how much reaching out and saying "I am here" is too much and what isn't enough. It's like walking a thin line between being supportive and obnoxious. It makes me paranoid and anxious.

    Sometimes the ones pushing away, aren’t wanting to push you away. They’re more understanding that you can’t fix their struggle. I’m sure they appreciate you, even if it comes across as wanting to be alone. You sound like a wonderful friend 💜

    Thank you! That's probably partially it. I am a fixer and most people know that. I just never want anyone to feel like I have abandoned them so I have a constant internal battle of giving them space and reinforcing that I am there.
  • MsQ0499
    MsQ0499 Posts: 30 Member
    Just swinging on my patio swing wishing tomorrow wasn’t Monday.
  • Keep_on_cardio
    Keep_on_cardio Posts: 4,166 Member
    LiftingSpirits wrote: »
    Keep_on_cardio wrote: »
    LiftingSpirits wrote: »
    I don't know how to handle people who push others away when they are struggling. I WANT to be there. I don't know how much reaching out and saying "I am here" is too much and what isn't enough. It's like walking a thin line between being supportive and obnoxious. It makes me paranoid and anxious.

    Sometimes the ones pushing away, aren’t wanting to push you away. They’re more understanding that you can’t fix their struggle. I’m sure they appreciate you, even if it comes across as wanting to be alone. You sound like a wonderful friend 💜

    Thank you! That's probably partially it. I am a fixer and most people know that. I just never want anyone to feel like I have abandoned them so I have a constant internal battle of giving them space and reinforcing that I am there.

    I appreciate people like you ❤️
  • Den_of_Iniquity
    Den_of_Iniquity Posts: 424 Member
    Best St. Patrick's Day Ever!

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  • Tankiscool
    Tankiscool Posts: 11,105 Member
    Den_of_Iniquity wrote: »
    Best St. Patrick's Day Ever!

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    I disagree. You are able to post this and spell correctly.
  • its_jus_me
    its_jus_me Posts: 1 Member
    Den_of_Iniquity wrote: »
    Best St. Patrick's Day Ever!

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    She said check your instagram
  • Den_of_Iniquity
    Den_of_Iniquity Posts: 424 Member
    its_jus_me wrote: »
    Den_of_Iniquity wrote: »
    Best St. Patrick's Day Ever!

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    She said check your instagram

    Pure gold at the end of the rainbow. Thank ye lass.

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