Sorry babe. That's a deal-breaker

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  • FinelyFermented
    FinelyFermented Posts: 102 Member
    If she's too pushy🤣
  • Reckoner67
    Reckoner67 Posts: 3,344 Member
    If she pushes certain things at certain times in certain ways, the deal is OFF

    But other times it's OK, it really just depends in certain things
  • glovepuppet
    glovepuppet Posts: 1,710 Member
    The inability to accept that I'm right.
  • FriendlyNeighborhoodEngineer
    FriendlyNeighborhoodEngineer Posts: 940 Member
    Closed mindedness
  • glovepuppet
    glovepuppet Posts: 1,710 Member
    awdouth wrote: »
    Closed mindedness

    Truth.

    They should be open minded to the fact that I am right.
  • missjck2
    missjck2 Posts: 146 Member
    Dishonesty, insecurity, hygiene issues, anger management issues, drug/alcohol issues, the inability to "adult"....
  • Versicolour
    Versicolour Posts: 7,164 Member
    When they tell me to let my hair down and live a little. I live a lot, thank you very much, and my hair is hardly ever tied up. Go blow up a doll dude
  • mermaidsgrave
    mermaidsgrave Posts: 98 Member
    I hate the “if the issue doesn’t directly effect me then it’s not my problem” stance. I’m not a social justice warrior or anything but being passionate about a cause or having empathy are great things.
    Also: Ignorance, racism, intolerance are a big no-go’s for me.
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    mermaidsgrave wrote: »
    I hate the “if the issue doesn’t directly effect me then it’s not my problem” stance. I’m not a social justice warrior or anything but being passionate about a cause or having empathy are great things.
    Also: Ignorance, racism, intolerance are a big no-go’s for me.

    agree
  • Reckoner67
    Reckoner67 Posts: 3,344 Member
    tinkerhellraiser wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    If she pushes certain things at certain times in certain ways, the deal is OFF

    But other times it's OK, it really just depends in certain things

    what if she slowly pushes things off the coffee table like the remote and your keys then water glass

    I find this sort of behavior endearing
  • The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_
    The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ Posts: 2,069 Member
    Narcisism
  • PAFC84
    PAFC84 Posts: 1,871 Member
    honeybee__12 wrote: »
    PAFC84 wrote: »
    honeybee__12 wrote: »
    If you let me push you around,
    I'll pass.

    Do you test the guy on this? How do you distinguish between him letting you push him around and him just being interested in the same things/laid back?

    Really?
    You don't get it?

    I get what I’m doing when I do it but I’m curious on your thought process.

  • PAFC84
    PAFC84 Posts: 1,871 Member
    mermaidsgrave wrote: »
    I hate the “if the issue doesn’t directly effect me then it’s not my problem” stance. I’m not a social justice warrior or anything but being passionate about a cause or having empathy are great things.
    Also: Ignorance, racism, intolerance are a big no-go’s for me.


    You can be empathetic and not want to get involved though, IMO.
  • PAFC84
    PAFC84 Posts: 1,871 Member
    cjklitch wrote: »
    PAFC84 wrote: »
    honeybee__12 wrote: »
    PAFC84 wrote: »
    honeybee__12 wrote: »
    If you let me push you around,
    I'll pass.

    Do you test the
    honeybee__12 wrote: »
    PAFC84 wrote: »
    honeybee__12 wrote: »
    If you let me push you around,
    I'll pass.

    Do you test the guy on this? How do you distinguish between him letting you push him around and him just being interested in the same things/laid back?

    Really?
    You don't get it?

    Brat isn't my thing but I do appreciate SSC

    SSC?
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    edited July 2019
    .
  • mattig89ch
    mattig89ch Posts: 2,648 Member
    Loving horror movies. Zombies in particular, but horror in general.
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    Loving horror movies. Zombies in particular, but horror in general.

    Even if s/he indulges without you?
  • tc1333
    tc1333 Posts: 4,033 Member
    Smoking
  • mattig89ch
    mattig89ch Posts: 2,648 Member
    your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    Loving horror movies. Zombies in particular, but horror in general.

    Even if s/he indulges without you?

    As long as s/he doesn't try to get me to participate, that'd be fine. But I do mean 0 participation, nothing in our living space, no discussion of it, nothing.
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    edited July 2019
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    Loving horror movies. Zombies in particular, but horror in general.

    Even if s/he indulges without you?

    As long as s/he doesn't try to get me to participate, that'd be fine. But I do mean 0 participation, nothing in our living space, no discussion of it, nothing.
    This makes sense to me. Out of the house.

    ETA: This struck a chord because I used to feel very similarly especially about zombies, violence, etc. I mean for many, many years. I don’t know why or how that changed. It is an odd thing to have happened. I’m not at all trying to talk you out of your feelings. Just sharing my experience.

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