Sorry babe. That's a deal-breaker

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  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    Loving horror movies. Zombies in particular, but horror in general.

    Even if s/he indulges without you?

    As long as s/he doesn't try to get me to participate, that'd be fine. But I do mean 0 participation, nothing in our living space, no discussion of it, nothing.
    This makes sense to me. Out of the house.

    ETA: This struck a chord because I used to feel very similarly especially about zombies, violence, etc. I mean for many, many years. I don’t know why or how that changed. It is an odd thing to have happened. I’m not at all trying to talk you out of your feelings. Just sharing my experience.

    I can relate to this but for me it was rap music. I was absolutely against it and more so after I had my first baby. Like you, I'm not sure what changed but I certainly don't feel this way anymore. I guess I just became more open minded 🤷‍♀️
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    Loving horror movies. Zombies in particular, but horror in general.

    Even if s/he indulges without you?

    As long as s/he doesn't try to get me to participate, that'd be fine. But I do mean 0 participation, nothing in our living space, no discussion of it, nothing.
    This makes sense to me. Out of the house.

    ETA: This struck a chord because I used to feel very similarly especially about zombies, violence, etc. I mean for many, many years. I don’t know why or how that changed. It is an odd thing to have happened. I’m not at all trying to talk you out of your feelings. Just sharing my experience.

    I can relate to this but for me it was rap music. I was absolutely against it and more so after I had my first baby. Like you, I'm not sure what changed but I certainly don't feel this way anymore. I guess I just became more open minded 🤷‍♀️

    As long as it’s not my hardening conscience. 😁
  • mattig89ch
    mattig89ch Posts: 2,648 Member
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    Loving horror movies. Zombies in particular, but horror in general.

    Even if s/he indulges without you?

    As long as s/he doesn't try to get me to participate, that'd be fine. But I do mean 0 participation, nothing in our living space, no discussion of it, nothing.
    This makes sense to me. Out of the house.

    ETA: This struck a chord because I used to feel very similarly especially about zombies, violence, etc. I mean for many, many years. I don’t know why or how that changed. It is an odd thing to have happened. I’m not at all trying to talk you out of your feelings. Just sharing my experience.
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    Loving horror movies. Zombies in particular, but horror in general.

    Even if s/he indulges without you?

    As long as s/he doesn't try to get me to participate, that'd be fine. But I do mean 0 participation, nothing in our living space, no discussion of it, nothing.
    This makes sense to me. Out of the house.

    ETA: This struck a chord because I used to feel very similarly especially about zombies, violence, etc. I mean for many, many years. I don’t know why or how that changed. It is an odd thing to have happened. I’m not at all trying to talk you out of your feelings. Just sharing my experience.

    I can relate to this but for me it was rap music. I was absolutely against it and more so after I had my first baby. Like you, I'm not sure what changed but I certainly don't feel this way anymore. I guess I just became more open minded 🤷‍♀️

    I mean, we change with time and experience. So maybe you both grew out of it?
  • lauragreenbaum
    lauragreenbaum Posts: 1,017 Member
    Calling me "Babe"
  • PAFC84
    PAFC84 Posts: 1,871 Member
    Calling me "Babe"

    Pamela? Is that you?
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    edited July 2019
    Calling me "Babe"

    Calling me “lady.” That gets snide remarks from me. ETA: or silence
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Calling me "Babe"

    how about "baby"?
    ...gag
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Borrows my car and leaves garbage in it, crumbs on the seat, low on gas

    Guess what? If you want to keep that burger wrapper and drink cup and dirty napkin, I'll save it for you and throw it on your drivers seat or better yet, on your pillow.
  • PAFC84
    PAFC84 Posts: 1,871 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Borrows my car and leaves garbage in it, crumbs on the seat, low on gas

    Guess what? If you want to keep that burger wrapper and drink cup and dirty napkin, I'll save it for you and throw it on your drivers seat or better yet, on your pillow.

    Why not just talk to him/her like an adult?
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    PAFC84 wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Borrows my car and leaves garbage in it, crumbs on the seat, low on gas

    Guess what? If you want to keep that burger wrapper and drink cup and dirty napkin, I'll save it for you and throw it on your drivers seat or better yet, on your pillow.

    Why not just talk to him/her like an adult?

    Because I'm a bit of a rager and I act and speak before I think
  • Tankiscool
    Tankiscool Posts: 11,105 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Calling me "Babe"

    how about "baby"?
    ...gag

    Baby, would you like some mashed potatoes? 😝
  • Tankiscool
    Tankiscool Posts: 11,105 Member
    edited July 2019
    PAFC84 wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Borrows my car and leaves garbage in it, crumbs on the seat, low on gas

    Guess what? If you want to keep that burger wrapper and drink cup and dirty napkin, I'll save it for you and throw it on your drivers seat or better yet, on your pillow.

    Why not just talk to him/her like an adult?

    Meh I'm with V on this. If this is how you treat someone else car, I don't want to see your house.
    Idk I was taught that if you borrow someones stuff you return it how you found it or in better condition. For example get the car washed after using it. Fill the tank.
  • Tigg_er
    Tigg_er Posts: 22,001 Member
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Calling me "Babe"

    how about "baby"?
    ...gag

    Baby, would you like some mashed potatoes? 😝

    Hey Babe :D
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Calling me "Babe"

    how about "baby"?
    ...gag

    Baby, would you like some mashed potatoes? 😝

    If there are potatoes for me involved, you can call me anything you want!

    Kinda random...in the last week I've been called "sweetheart" by a guy at the liquour store, "Jenn" by my good friends brother that I've known for 12 years, "hun" by a client, and "Brittany" by another client.
  • Tigg_er
    Tigg_er Posts: 22,001 Member
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    PAFC84 wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Borrows my car and leaves garbage in it, crumbs on the seat, low on gas

    Guess what? If you want to keep that burger wrapper and drink cup and dirty napkin, I'll save it for you and throw it on your drivers seat or better yet, on your pillow.

    Why not just talk to him/her like an adult?

    Meh I'm with V on this. If this is how you treat someone else car, I don't want to see your house.
    Idk I was taught that if you borrow someones stuff you return it how you found it or in better condition. For example get the car washed after using it. Fill the tank.

    Yep, kinda hard to talk to an Adult that acts worse then a child !
  • Versicolour
    Versicolour Posts: 7,164 Member
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    Loving horror movies. Zombies in particular, but horror in general.

    Even if s/he indulges without you?

    As long as s/he doesn't try to get me to participate, that'd be fine. But I do mean 0 participation, nothing in our living space, no discussion of it, nothing.

    Well, guess who will be taken completely unaware when a zombie apocalypse happens!
  • Tankiscool
    Tankiscool Posts: 11,105 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Calling me "Babe"

    how about "baby"?
    ...gag

    Baby, would you like some mashed potatoes? 😝

    If there are potatoes for me involved, you can call me anything you want!

    Kinda random...in the last week I've been called "sweetheart" by a guy at the liquour store, "Jenn" by my good friends brother that I've known for 12 years, "hun" by a client, and "Brittany" by another client.

    Lol random but also weird as I know none of these are your name :D
  • mattig89ch
    mattig89ch Posts: 2,648 Member
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    Loving horror movies. Zombies in particular, but horror in general.

    Even if s/he indulges without you?

    As long as s/he doesn't try to get me to participate, that'd be fine. But I do mean 0 participation, nothing in our living space, no discussion of it, nothing.

    Well, guess who will be taken completely unaware when a zombie apocalypse happens!

    thats why we'd have a basement bunker. With 6 months of supplies. ;)
  • PAFC84
    PAFC84 Posts: 1,871 Member
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    Loving horror movies. Zombies in particular, but horror in general.

    Even if s/he indulges without you?

    As long as s/he doesn't try to get me to participate, that'd be fine. But I do mean 0 participation, nothing in our living space, no discussion of it, nothing.

    Well, guess who will be taken completely unaware when a zombie apocalypse happens!

    thats why we'd have a basement bunker. With 6 months of supplies. ;)

    My mum has the same in case BREXIT actually happens lol
  • amyjsparkles
    amyjsparkles Posts: 6,165 Member
    Being indecisive. Either you want to be with me or not. None of this, I'm totally into you and then getting scared and acting different.