Question for the ladies

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  • calibri
    calibri Posts: 439 Member
    As long as the insides are still squishy, I'm good.
  • GTOgirl1969
    GTOgirl1969 Posts: 2,527 Member
    I like a man with arms strong enough to hold me tight, but a shoulder soft enough to lean on. Does that make sense?
  • changeisgood55
    changeisgood55 Posts: 274
    Natural for me too. Too muscular makes me think he's only about himself and how he looks. He wouldn't have time for me because he would be in the gym all time looking at his muscles!
  • lausa22
    lausa22 Posts: 467 Member
    Natural.
    But a bit of tone is always nice. You know, a small bit of a six-pack or toned arms/shoulders.

    I don't like 'ripped' guys, it just looks too much.
  • MissingMinnesota
    MissingMinnesota Posts: 7,486 Member
    If you have seen Crazy Stupid Love look at Ryan Gossling. Not that I would ever expect to find that in really like and actually love my boyfriend's build which is "ex hockey player/Army" build.
  • missmom57
    missmom57 Posts: 12
    Aweome job!
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    natural look for sure.. Muscles are a turn-off I like to lay my head on a soft belly and not a rock hard stomach

    either.

    and i continue to lower my standards as the years go by...

    Lower your standards...are you crazy lol??

    This brings to light the question though...what defines 'too big' to you girls...?...since the overwhelming majority of you have said 'natural'...and the overwhelming majority of guys wish they could be something out of a fitness magazine.
  • hush7hush
    hush7hush Posts: 2,273 Member
    But what's in his heart is much more important.


    (and what's in his pants.)
    Hah. No, just kidding.

    I totally agree about his heart meaning a lot more than his muscles. Or lack thereof.
  • beach_bum_gurl
    beach_bum_gurl Posts: 200
    Natural...toned and defined, but not ripped. However, personality tops body shape every time~
  • albinogorilla
    albinogorilla Posts: 1,056 Member
    guess we need to put down the dumbells and pick up some cheeseburgers fellas...................
  • catwrangler
    catwrangler Posts: 918 Member
    just no man boobs please:laugh:
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    Natural--not into the meathead look. Lean muscles say "I care about my health and fitness, but I have a life outside of the gym and a normal level of vanity." :happy:

    Same for me!
  • starwhisperer
    starwhisperer Posts: 367
    why would I choose only one?! There are so many beautiful men to enjoy staring at and certainly not all of them are in one category!
  • foremant86
    foremant86 Posts: 1,115 Member
    natural for sure, body builders are freaky looking.

    at the same time I don't actually care about a guys body all that much, i mean yes there has to be an attraction but i care so much more about personality. Yes i want a guy who is going to take care of himself but i don't care if he has wash board abs or not.
  • Caitie1986
    Caitie1986 Posts: 72 Member
    A little squish is good for cuddling- but there have been times where I watch "300" for more than the story. :)
  • IamRoJ
    IamRoJ Posts: 530 Member
    natural look for sure.. Muscles are a turn-off I like to lay my head on a soft belly and not a rock hard stomach

    either.

    and i continue to lower my standards as the years go by...

    OMG I love this answer. I am done. No one can top it.
  • hush7hush
    hush7hush Posts: 2,273 Member
    One final post from me:


    I like them all! [:

    Mmmmm, boysboysboys. <3
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    guess we need to put down the dumbells and pick up some cheeseburgers fellas...................

    Seriously!

    This reminds me of the women's body type threads where all the guys say 'curvy' but point at the picture of 'overweight'. Yet, somehow...it's always the ripped ball player with a lamborghini that has his choice =p.

    It boggles my mind lol.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    I'm sorry to be the b*tch of the thread (but there's always one right?) :happy: . But I don't think "natural" defines any particular body shape. I don't get it.:huh:

    You can be naturally 400lbs :wink:

    I like slender with pretty decent muscle definition but not large body builder muscles.

    Exhibit A:


    bradley-cooper-shirtless.jpg
  • skinnylove00
    skinnylove00 Posts: 662 Member
    NATURAL, because too much muscle is just gross...a little definition cant hurt but id rather have a natural boyfriend than a very muscular, hercules-looking boyfriend
  • Autumn15
    Autumn15 Posts: 213
    natural look for sure.. Muscles are a turn-off I like to lay my head on a soft belly and not a rock hard stomach

    either.

    and i continue to lower my standards as the years go by...

    LOL Love it! :laugh:


    Natural with rugged looks are great....Not really into bulk body builder types
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    I'm sorry to be the b*tch of the thread (but there's always one right?) :happy: . But I don't think "natural" defines any particular body shape. I don't get it.:huh:

    You can be naturally 400lbs :wink:

    I like slender with pretty decent muscle definition but not large body builder muscles.

    Exhibit A:

    bradley-cooper-shirtless.jpg
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    natural look for sure.. Muscles are a turn-off I like to lay my head on a soft belly and not a rock hard stomach

    either.

    and i continue to lower my standards as the years go by...


    OMG I love this answer. I am done. No one can top it.


    :bigsmile:

    it's true.
  • msrobinson77
    msrobinson77 Posts: 177
    No meatheads. Naturally toned or a little squishy (like me) is ideal. Although, my hunny is a string bean:love:
  • anewattitude
    anewattitude Posts: 483 Member
    I like a man who stays in shape and has a strong physique. I don't want spaghetti arms trying to hug me and if a guy needs ME to open the jars... game OVER! lol
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    I like a man who stays in shape and has a strong physique. I don't want spaghetti arms trying to hug me and if a guy needs ME to open the jars... game OVER! lol

    Haha!

    And odusgolp...that guy would be considered pretty ripped by most standards.
  • mtkautz
    mtkautz Posts: 218 Member
    ummm I guess I'm the minority here? :love: :love: I LOVE MUSCLES.:love::love: But I guess it depends on what you view as "body builder type"
    My current bf is on the natural side, secretly I wish he'd bulk up:wink:

    I would definitely choose muscles over "natural" any day, without going into other considerations.... seems that the ripped guys get pegged as being jerks here... I don't find a difference between a 'natural jerk' and a 'ripped jerk', they are still jerks.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    I like a man who stays in shape and has a strong physique. I don't want spaghetti arms trying to hug me and if a guy needs ME to open the jars... game OVER! lol

    Haha!

    And odusgolp...that guy would be considered pretty ripped by most standards.

    Yep. In all reality i like relatively ripped. Rarely ever get it *LOL* But ya know ;)

    But still slender/medium, ya know? "BIG" is a turn-off for me

    Exhibit B:

    imgad?id=CJibsq-EhuOlrQEQoAEYwgQyCLOpOzkyiwOG
  • Dylanzmom
    Dylanzmom Posts: 120
    Muscles are a huge turn on for me!! But not to big just defined
  • j_courter
    j_courter Posts: 999 Member
    A little squish is good for cuddling- but there have been times where I watch "300" for more than the story. :)

    oh yeah... 300... gotta go grab that now! thanks! ;-)
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