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  • Amysgetnfit
    Amysgetnfit Posts: 231
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    eh, there is a fine line here....

    like muscles/definition, but not what I call a "muscle-head". (think no visible neck)

    Like if you can't walk or put your arms down by your side, you have over done it, in my book. I am a fan of big guns though.....:smile:
    What she said! Don't want someone rock hard no neck can't put their arms down legs look like tree trunks.defined is nice....real nice think Mathew McCaunhey(sp) body type
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
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    natural look for sure.. Muscles are a turn-off I like to lay my head on a soft belly and not a rock hard stomach

    either.

    and i continue to lower my standards as the years go by...

    I agree. By the time I was 35, all I wanted was a chubby obedient one...

    *LMAO* I'm 34... five more years of this and I may not even require a partner with a penis.

    LOL, come on now...I barely know you...other than reading your posts of course, but if that's you in your avatar, with your quick wit, straight up intelligence (my girlfriend is an accountant as well), and what clearly is a good heart...you've got to have no lack of options!

    Or are all men nowadays truly intimidated by real women?
  • Chubby_bunnyy
    Chubby_bunnyy Posts: 50 Member
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    I prefer natural and defined. Bulky muscle, not my thing. Thats just me. We're all different.

    same here.
    i like the thin lean swimmer look
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
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    either.

    and i continue to lower my standards as the years go by...

    I agree. By the time I was 35, all I wanted was a chubby obedient one...

    *LMAO* I'm 34... five more years of this and I may not even require a partner with a penis.

    LOL, come on now...I barely know you...other than reading your posts of course, but if that's you in your avatar, with your quick wit, straight up intelligence (my girlfriend is an accountant as well), and what clearly is a good heart...you've got to have no lack of options!

    Or are all men nowadays truly intimidated by real women?

    Yes, that is me *LOL* I have posted a recent dating story... as well as an ex-boyfriend story. I sincerely have no luck in meeting anyone with long term potential since my divorce :sad:
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
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    What she said! Don't want someone rock hard no neck can't put their arms down legs look like tree trunks.defined is nice....real nice think Mathew McCaunhey(sp) body type

    dragons-1.jpg

    I wouldn't mind that...but just a bit bigger in the chest, shoulders, and arms.

    Not a lot.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
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    What she said! Don't want someone rock hard no neck can't put their arms down legs look like tree trunks.defined is nice....real nice think Mathew McCaunhey(sp) body type

    dragons-1.jpg

    I wouldn't mind that...but just a bit bigger in the chest, shoulders, and arms.

    Not a lot.


    ewww.... what the heck movie is that from? *LOL*
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
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    What she said! Don't want someone rock hard no neck can't put their arms down legs look like tree trunks.defined is nice....real nice think Mathew McCaunhey(sp) body type

    dragons-1.jpg

    I wouldn't mind that...but just a bit bigger in the chest, shoulders, and arms.

    Not a lot.


    ewww.... what the heck movie is that from? *LOL*

    Reign of Fire lol.

    And eww on the body type? Or eww on the tattoos, and blood? =p
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
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    it's ew on that sad sad excuse for facial hair *LOL*

    Blondes should never have beards in my opinion :)
  • Amysgetnfit
    Amysgetnfit Posts: 231
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    What she said! Don't want someone rock hard no neck can't put their arms down legs look like tree trunks.defined is nice....real nice think Mathew McCaunhey(sp) body type

    dragons-1.jpg

    I wouldn't mind that...but just a bit bigger in the chest, shoulders, and arms.

    Not a lot.

    THATS SO NOT THE IMAGE I HAD IN MIND! iI was thinking more his look in the movie Sahara... LOL
    ewww.... what the heck movie is that from? *LOL*
  • bregalad5
    bregalad5 Posts: 3,965 Member
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    I like the body that looks like it was built on a soccer field or a track or on a surf board, NOT in gym. You can tell when a guy is an athlete and his body was sculpted from action not repetition. Of course they spend time in the gym, but that's not all they do.

    This. There's a secondary reason I'm a soccer junkie... THE BODIES! Wow. A fellow female soccer fan once called soccer "porn for women" :blushing: Aaanyway, ok now that I'm done blushing... I don't want overly muscular. Toned is my style. Nice abs are a plus, but not absolutely necessary.

    Picture for emphasis:

    fernando-torres7.jpg
  • irishgal44
    irishgal44 Posts: 1,181 Member
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    I like men with your exact arms...perfect! My hubby has a little pouch of cushion for a belly and I love it - it's cuddly...however, if he had a solid stomach area, I would probably like that just as much. But arms and a bigger/solid chest are a total turn on...no moobs!!!!!!! And a little hair on that chest please!!
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
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    it's ew on that sad sad excuse for facial hair *LOL*

    Blondes should never have beards in my opinion :)

    LOL, you win =D.
  • Shannon023
    Shannon023 Posts: 14,529 Member
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    I passed by this topic a dozen times thinking it was a TOM thread. :laugh:

    I prefer natural muscles. :smokin:
  • NewVonnie
    NewVonnie Posts: 683 Member
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    For me the more natural look would be toned with some definition, Body Builder would be the guys on stage with muscles that would scare small children and veins bulging out everywhere that is just to much.

    But...where's the middle ground? That's a pretty huge range!

    For me...I like my build. It's not perfect, I need less bodyfat, but I only want to be a little bigger. 5-10lbs of muscle will be nice...and about 5-7% less bodyfat.

    I suppose that is why I'm curious. I'm happily attached, but its interesting to apply this stuff to yourself lol.




    Sorry Cris, I'm not trying to be improper or forward..but you have the ideal body in my opinion..and the facial hair..we wont go there..LOL
  • Cait_Sidhe
    Cait_Sidhe Posts: 3,150 Member
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    No question, natural look for me.

    I find huge muscles kinda gross and a turnoff. Also really dislike the veinyness that goes with it. Admittedly, I do stereotype and I equate musclebound men with the jerkoff jocks in high school who tried to make up for a lack of brains by lifting weights.now, if I happened to meet someone who otherwise was an incredible person but with lots of muscle, I could get over it. But on first impression, so not my type.
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
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    I like men with your exact arms...perfect! My hubby has a little pouch of cushion for a belly and I love it - it's cuddly...however, if he had a solid stomach area, I would probably like that just as much. But arms and a bigger/solid chest are a total turn on...no moobs!!!!!!! And a little hair on that chest please!!

    Define 'your' lol?
    Sorry Cris, I'm not trying to be improper or forward..but you have the ideal body in my opinion..and the facial hair..we wont go there..LOL

    Von, you're a sweetheart =D. A compliment like that is not improper or forward...it's a compliment...and appreciated with the spirit in which it was given.

    Facial hair? lol?
  • NewVonnie
    NewVonnie Posts: 683 Member
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    I like men with your exact arms...perfect! My hubby has a little pouch of cushion for a belly and I love it - it's cuddly...however, if he had a solid stomach area, I would probably like that just as much. But arms and a bigger/solid chest are a total turn on...no moobs!!!!!!! And a little hair on that chest please!!

    Define 'your' lol?
    Sorry Cris, I'm not trying to be improper or forward..but you have the ideal body in my opinion..and the facial hair..we wont go there..LOL

    Von, you're a sweetheart =D. A compliment like that is not improper or forward...it's a compliment...and appreciated with the spirit in which it was given.

    Facial hair? lol?

    Facial hair...you have it..I love it..really love it..:)
  • CakeFit21
    CakeFit21 Posts: 2,521 Member
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    I like the body that looks like it was built on a soccer field or a track or on a surf board, NOT in gym. You can tell when a guy is an athlete and his body was sculpted from action not repetition. Of course they spend time in the gym, but that's not all they do.

    This. There's a secondary reason I'm a soccer junkie... THE BODIES! Wow. A fellow female soccer fan once called soccer "porn for women" :blushing: Aaanyway, ok now that I'm done blushing... I don't want overly muscular. Toned is my style. Nice abs are a plus, but not absolutely necessary.

    Ooo, good call!

    Picture for emphasis:

    fernando-torres7.jpg
  • ilookthetype
    ilookthetype Posts: 3,021 Member
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    Natural is nice, I don't like the whole crazy muscles on muscles on muscles thing. I like a guy who can haul me around and pick me up, he doesn't need to look like Arnold in his prime, in fact that would make me nervous. I'm a woman, I already know that if things go terrible south I won't be able to "defend" myself, I don't need him to look like he does 'roids to remind me.
  • bry_all01
    bry_all01 Posts: 3,100 Member
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    I would prefer an almost hard body myself. Not complete body builder status, but not complete dough, either.

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