Online dating
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Tinder, yeah it works sometimes and can be a good platform to get started. But most of the time it goes nowhere. Might give Bumble a go.1
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Nope..... never will.....0
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your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Versicolour wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »The__ViKinG__BATMAN wrote: »People can fake their way into your life without using a dating app, dating apps just make it easier.
That said, some people find true love in this manner, and despite 2 or 3 bad experiences with people I've met on a dating app, I still think they're good as some people are successful on them.
I just don't like modern day dating in general to be honest, I'm not cool with shiz like dating multiple people and so on but apparently it's the norm.
I'll just wait for a sheildmaiden to walk into my life 😂😭
It’s been the norm for a long time. I think it’s odd to want an exclusive commitment right from the start. Seems controlling. Maybe there’s a middle ground?
I also expect exclusive dating. I can't even chat with two guys at the same time without feeling bad about it. If that means I will be alone, so be it. I've taken sloppy seconds before and never again. I am worth it for someone. Or I'm not and that is fine too
I hope you find what you’re looking for and that it turns out well ❤️
Eta: fwiw, of course you’re worth it if that’s what you want. From my point of view though, it’s about getting to know someone before making what I see as a serious commitment.
2nd edit: I feel as though I am worth the patience and the effort. Though tbh, it might be a long wait.
Its for this reason I have given up on online dating. How much can you really get to know someone online? And how can you trust them? Maybe its just me, but I am tired of all the effort with no results. I would rather be alone than in a constant state of doubt3 -
Fine, I will give in to peer pressure and date all of you online6
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your_future_ex_wife wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »The__ViKinG__BATMAN wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »The__ViKinG__BATMAN wrote: »People can fake their way into your life without using a dating app, dating apps just make it easier.
That said, some people find true love in this manner, and despite 2 or 3 bad experiences with people I've met on a dating app, I still think they're good as some people are successful on them.
I just don't like modern day dating in general to be honest, I'm not cool with shiz like dating multiple people and so on but apparently it's the norm.
I'll just wait for a sheildmaiden to walk into my life 😂😭
It’s been the norm for a long time. I think it’s odd to want an exclusive commitment right from the start. Seems controlling. Maybe there’s a middle ground?
Nah I'm far from controlling, I just like loyalty, I wouldn't be messing around with other girls if I was dating someone, my interest would be in her, if they want to date multiple people it's fine but just don't involve me.
I understand monogamy but in what you’re describing it’s the logistics I don’t understand. If you’ve just met, how does that work?
If I went on a date with someone I really liked, I'd stop seeing other people, or planning other dates with prospective partners. I can understand that this method is complicated when you are going on first dates with multiple people, that usually doesn't happen for most men.
Ah ok. That does explain that aspect of it.
Do you not feel it’s a red flag when someone demands exclusivity right from the start? Perhaps that’s primarily a worry women contend with?
I guess there is a difference between demanding and asking. No one likes being told what to do. But if a lady suggested that the only way she'd be giving it up to me is was for me to stop using an app, that sounds reasonable.3 -
CalgaryMac wrote: »Internet dating is like a blind date without someone introducing you to the other person. I have used and it works - we have been married 15 years.
So far it is not working for me. Maybe is because I still remember and love my last boyfriend. :-(7 -
psychod787 wrote: »Nope..... never will.....
I used to say the same....0 -
While Tinder isn't a "dating app" as such, I met the love of my life there - 6 years, 1 house, 1 dog and 1 cat later, we are more in love than ever.7
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I think that the reason why so many men find Tinder useless is because it's a hookup app. Not many women are looking for a hookup.0
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Only a few more months to go 😉
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Went out on a Tinder date last night. It went really well and he actually brought me flowers. That has not happened in years. I was shocked. Lol15
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I don’t know about friends. We are going out again on Halloween. 😋5 -
just_Tomek wrote: »Because of this thread I just signed on on tinder. This like a hot or not exercise isnt it?? Anyways, if I end up getting a match I will report back.
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I only use them for ONS‘s. Wouldn‘t expect to find someone for a serious relationship4
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biggiwig4483 wrote: »I only use them for ONS‘s.
Finally.3 -
your_future_ex_wife wrote: »biggiwig4483 wrote: »I only use them for ONS‘s.
Finally.
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I find online dating only works if you actually meet rather quickly, unless you just want something casual or to stay online. My best experiences were with men I chatted with briefly online, then met (at a neutral public location) within a week or so.
I met the love of my life on Bumble 💕4 -
Found out about Hinge from here, tried it out. More of the same. Bunch of gross guys looking for hookups. Got propositioned by a sugar daddy. DM me if you want his number. Also guys, just know we screenshot everything you say and send it to our friends for their approval, just fyi.5
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Found out about Hinge from here, tried it out. More of the same. Bunch of gross guys looking for hookups. Got propositioned by a sugar daddy. DM me if you want his number. Also guys, just know we screenshot everything you say and send it to our friends for their approval, just fyi.
R ur frends hot2 -
Reckoner68 wrote: »Found out about Hinge from here, tried it out. More of the same. Bunch of gross guys looking for hookups. Got propositioned by a sugar daddy. DM me if you want his number. Also guys, just know we screenshot everything you say and send it to our friends for their approval, just fyi.
R ur frends hot
The hottest5 -
Found out about Hinge from here, tried it out. More of the same. Bunch of gross guys looking for hookups. Got propositioned by a sugar daddy. DM me if you want his number. Also guys, just know we screenshot everything you say and send it to our friends for their approval, just fyi.
I'd be interested in his number as long as he doesn't actually expect any "sugar!"
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Cutemesoon wrote: »Found out about Hinge from here, tried it out. More of the same. Bunch of gross guys looking for hookups. Got propositioned by a sugar daddy. DM me if you want his number. Also guys, just know we screenshot everything you say and send it to our friends for their approval, just fyi.
I'd be interested in his number as long as he doesn't actually expect any "sugar!"
Oh no. He made it clear that sugar was expected.3 -
Found out about Hinge from here, tried it out. More of the same. Bunch of gross guys looking for hookups. Got propositioned by a sugar daddy. DM me if you want his number. Also guys, just know we screenshot everything you say and send it to our friends for their approval, just fyi.
I make it very clear on my profile that I don’t do hookups or FWB, but many men don’t care and try to push that agenda with me.
To me, that’s disrespectful. Don’t waste my time. For the ones who aren’t really single and are looking for a side piece, if they lie to me about it and I find out, I will blow up their spot and have receipts.
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Cutemesoon wrote: »Found out about Hinge from here, tried it out. More of the same. Bunch of gross guys looking for hookups. Got propositioned by a sugar daddy. DM me if you want his number. Also guys, just know we screenshot everything you say and send it to our friends for their approval, just fyi.
I'd be interested in his number as long as he doesn't actually expect any "sugar!"
Oh no. He made it clear that sugar was expected.
Wouldn't settle for stevia?3 -
George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »Cutemesoon wrote: »Found out about Hinge from here, tried it out. More of the same. Bunch of gross guys looking for hookups. Got propositioned by a sugar daddy. DM me if you want his number. Also guys, just know we screenshot everything you say and send it to our friends for their approval, just fyi.
I'd be interested in his number as long as he doesn't actually expect any "sugar!"
Oh no. He made it clear that sugar was expected.
Wouldn't settle for stevia?
I counter offered with sweet n low and he blocked me.4 -
George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »Cutemesoon wrote: »Found out about Hinge from here, tried it out. More of the same. Bunch of gross guys looking for hookups. Got propositioned by a sugar daddy. DM me if you want his number. Also guys, just know we screenshot everything you say and send it to our friends for their approval, just fyi.
I'd be interested in his number as long as he doesn't actually expect any "sugar!"
Oh no. He made it clear that sugar was expected.
Wouldn't settle for stevia?George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »Cutemesoon wrote: »Found out about Hinge from here, tried it out. More of the same. Bunch of gross guys looking for hookups. Got propositioned by a sugar daddy. DM me if you want his number. Also guys, just know we screenshot everything you say and send it to our friends for their approval, just fyi.
I'd be interested in his number as long as he doesn't actually expect any "sugar!"
Oh no. He made it clear that sugar was expected.
Wouldn't settle for stevia?
I counter offered with sweet n low and he blocked me.
Dang! The most I'm willing to offer is Equal. But DAS IT!!!1
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