What’s a red flag for you?

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  • isalsayourface123
    isalsayourface123 Posts: 2,153 Member
    kam26001 wrote: »
    When she introduces me to her friends and I notice they're referring to her by the nickname of Icepick. 😯

    Aawww. This guy. What happened to him?
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    if she likes that Billie Eilish bad guy song
    😂 you gonna hate on Lizzo too now?
  • johnbtay3
    johnbtay3 Posts: 170 Member
    Hairy arm pits
    Toe cheese
    And bed bugs
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    johnbtay3 wrote: »
    Hairy arm pits
    Toe cheese
    And bed bugs
    Same!
  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
    When I notice a cycle of M.I.A in a person. One minute they are there then gone the next. Repeat.

    I usually stay away from people who work this way.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    When the act like the sky is falling and panic over stupid things...

  • justinewillcutyou
    justinewillcutyou Posts: 530 Member
    Someone who is unkind to service staff, speaks poorly of his ex or is a deadbeat parent.
  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
    • Arrogance, self-important
    • Treats others with disdain
    • Thinks of themselves as superior to everyone around them, more intelligent
    • Believes in conspiracy theories
    • Thinks they are not human
    • Anti-vaxxer
    • Quick to rage, even when no violence is present
    • Likes to drown out others with word salad, never lets you get a word in edge wise in an argument
    • Use of circular arguments
    • Gaslighting
    • Lovebombing (showering one with excessive and expensive gifts as a means of keeping you around)
    • Not respecting personal boundaries
    • Never apologizes even when actually wrong
    • Do as I say, not as I do attitude
    • Have to walk on eggshells at all times, cautious of what you say
    • Can't take constructive (or other) criticism, but has no problem dishing it out
    • Thinks it's totally okay to use the "n" and "c" words simply because they know a PoC or a woman (uh, no dude)
    • Thinks being charming glosses over subtle racism
    • Refers to exes or people they don't like in ways that dehumanize them
    • Thinks it's okay to poke fun of you, but gets super offended when you do it to them in a teasing manner
    • Perceives slights when none are present
    • Drinks every day and is a high-functioning alcoholic
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
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  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    KosmosKitten wrote: »
    • Arrogance, self-important
    • Treats others with disdain
    • Thinks of themselves as superior to everyone around them, more intelligent
    • Believes in conspiracy theories
    • Thinks they are not human
    • Anti-vaxxer
    • Quick to rage, even when no violence is present
    • Likes to drown out others with word salad, never lets you get a word in edge wise in an argument
    • Use of circular arguments
    • Gaslighting
    • Lovebombing (showering one with excessive and expensive gifts as a means of keeping you around)
    • Not respecting personal boundaries
    • Never apologizes even when actually wrong
    • Do as I say, not as I do attitude
    • Have to walk on eggshells at all times, cautious of what you say
    • Can't take constructive (or other) criticism, but has no problem dishing it out
    • Thinks it's totally okay to use the "n" and "c" words simply because they know a PoC or a woman (uh, no dude)
    • Thinks being charming glosses over subtle racism
    • Refers to exes or people they don't like in ways that dehumanize them
    • Thinks it's okay to poke fun of you, but gets super offended when you do it to them in a teasing manner
    • Perceives slights when none are present
    • Drinks every day and is a high-functioning alcoholic

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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    KosmosKitten wrote: »
    • Arrogance, self-important
    • Treats others with disdain
    • Thinks of themselves as superior to everyone around them, more intelligent
    • Believes in conspiracy theories
    • Thinks they are not human
    • Anti-vaxxer
    • Quick to rage, even when no violence is present
    • Likes to drown out others with word salad, never lets you get a word in edge wise in an argument
    • Use of circular arguments
    • Gaslighting
    • Lovebombing (showering one with excessive and expensive gifts as a means of keeping you around)
    • Not respecting personal boundaries
    • Never apologizes even when actually wrong
    • Do as I say, not as I do attitude
    • Have to walk on eggshells at all times, cautious of what you say
    • Can't take constructive (or other) criticism, but has no problem dishing it out
    • Thinks it's totally okay to use the "n" and "c" words simply because they know a PoC or a woman (uh, no dude)
    • Thinks being charming glosses over subtle racism
    • Refers to exes or people they don't like in ways that dehumanize them
    • Thinks it's okay to poke fun of you, but gets super offended when you do it to them in a teasing manner
    • Perceives slights when none are present
    • Drinks every day and is a high-functioning alcoholic

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  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    "i had a dream about you..." girls

    Quit preemptively killing my lines.
  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    "i had a dream about you..." girls

    I'm sorry, but if it was a weird dream, you deserve to know. If I had to be tormented by it, so should you! :lol:
  • ythannah
    ythannah Posts: 4,371 Member
    KosmosKitten wrote: »
    • Arrogance, self-important
    • Treats others with disdain
    • Thinks of themselves as superior to everyone around them, more intelligent
    • Believes in conspiracy theories
    • Thinks they are not human
    • Anti-vaxxer
    • Quick to rage, even when no violence is present
    • Likes to drown out others with word salad, never lets you get a word in edge wise in an argument
    • Use of circular arguments
    • Gaslighting
    • Lovebombing (showering one with excessive and expensive gifts as a means of keeping you around)
    • Not respecting personal boundaries
    • Never apologizes even when actually wrong
    • Do as I say, not as I do attitude
    • Have to walk on eggshells at all times, cautious of what you say
    • Can't take constructive (or other) criticism, but has no problem dishing it out
    • Thinks it's totally okay to use the "n" and "c" words simply because they know a PoC or a woman (uh, no dude)
    • Thinks being charming glosses over subtle racism
    • Refers to exes or people they don't like in ways that dehumanize them
    • Thinks it's okay to poke fun of you, but gets super offended when you do it to them in a teasing manner
    • Perceives slights when none are present
    • Drinks every day and is a high-functioning alcoholic

    Holy crap, most of that describes my ex. Other than the lovebombing, he complained bitterly about any money he spent on gifts for me. (And I don't think he ever expressed an opinion on vaccination, that I can remember.)

    Add: becomes enraged when you refuse to loan him money to pay off his credit card debt
  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
    ythannah wrote: »
    KosmosKitten wrote: »
    • Arrogance, self-important
    • Treats others with disdain
    • Thinks of themselves as superior to everyone around them, more intelligent
    • Believes in conspiracy theories
    • Thinks they are not human
    • Anti-vaxxer
    • Quick to rage, even when no violence is present
    • Likes to drown out others with word salad, never lets you get a word in edge wise in an argument
    • Use of circular arguments
    • Gaslighting
    • Lovebombing (showering one with excessive and expensive gifts as a means of keeping you around)
    • Not respecting personal boundaries
    • Never apologizes even when actually wrong
    • Do as I say, not as I do attitude
    • Have to walk on eggshells at all times, cautious of what you say
    • Can't take constructive (or other) criticism, but has no problem dishing it out
    • Thinks it's totally okay to use the "n" and "c" words simply because they know a PoC or a woman (uh, no dude)
    • Thinks being charming glosses over subtle racism
    • Refers to exes or people they don't like in ways that dehumanize them
    • Thinks it's okay to poke fun of you, but gets super offended when you do it to them in a teasing manner
    • Perceives slights when none are present
    • Drinks every day and is a high-functioning alcoholic

    Holy crap, most of that describes my ex. Other than the lovebombing, he complained bitterly about any money he spent on gifts for me. (And I don't think he ever expressed an opinion on vaccination, that I can remember.)

    Add: becomes enraged when you refuse to loan him money to pay off his credit card debt

    Unlike my former posts in this thread, these are all from one person. :grimace:
  • solarex1
    solarex1 Posts: 408 Member
    Everything. I am hyper analytical
  • rodnichols69
    rodnichols69 Posts: 83 Member
    justinewillcutyou wrote: »
    Someone who is unkind to service staff, speaks poorly of his ex or is a deadbeat parent.

    100% agree
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Red flag to me when a client pays a $2000 bill all in twenties

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  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Red flag to me when a client pays a $2000 bill all in twenties

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  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    tams_89 wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    When the act like the sky is falling and panic over stupid things...

    But

    https://youtu.be/oUbpGmR1-QM

    I didn't mean that like it may have sounded... 🤦🏽‍♂️
    I'm sorry ❤️

    Love the song 😘
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Red flag to me when a client pays a $2000 bill all in twenties

    Does seem like s/he works in a cash business. Maybe landlord or drug dealer
  • honeybee__12
    honeybee__12 Posts: 15,688 Member
    The inability to be on time.
  • solarex1
    solarex1 Posts: 408 Member
    When they are too emotionally demanding
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  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    Clingons...can't/don't know how to be alone sometimes. I like my alone time.

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