Guys/Girls: What is your real opinion on..

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  • _Kashmir_314
    _Kashmir_314 Posts: 707 Member
    edited March 2020
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Ladies...

    Guys in dress shirts... The third button undone, sexy or no?

    Not a fan

    What about with chest hair and. A chain 😂
    Ladies...

    Guys in dress shirts... The third button undone, sexy or no?

    How many chest hairs peeking out? 🤔

    As I’m scrolling down you’re reading my mind- and I’ll just say I know my cookies yo 😉

    Wait, did you actually create a chain from said chest hairs? I'm scared....turtlenecks for you, Sir! 😛

    Lol I can’t grow chest hair or a full beard 🤷‍♂️
    I'mma buy you a present 💥

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    Send it with the cookies - pleas and thanks 😊 [/quot
    🍪🍪😘
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,170 Member
    balanc79 wrote: »
    Ladies

    Middle aged men in skinny jeans? Yes or no

    As long as they fit well

    And he's gotta have age-appropriate footwear, not like some Etnies he bought in 2007 along with the ultra-tight skinnies.

    I used to rock some etnies slides back in the day - man I miss those
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    Ladies...

    Guys in dress shirts... The third button undone, sexy or no?

    Not a fan

    Same...

    My breaking heart hugs you 😂

    honey, why are you wearing a shirt?
    tinak33 wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    Ladies...

    Guys in dress shirts... The third button undone, sexy or no?

    Not a fan

    Same...

    My breaking heart hugs you 😂

    honey, why are you wearing a shirt?

    I second this....

    😊😊😊...

    If I stand up perfectly straight, the loose skin isn't really to bad 🙈😂
  • GettinLean19
    GettinLean19 Posts: 452 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    mixing the mayo and ketchup?

    🙊 Isn't that McDonald's "special sauce?"

    No no no - that’s thousand island .. c’mon M

    "Thousand Island dressing is made with mayonnaise and ketchup (or some other sweetened tomato condiment), thickened with a hard-boiled egg pressed through a sieve, and enlivened with vinegar and sweet pickle relish" - Random Google Response

    SO ALL MY LIFE I HAVE PAINSTAKINGLY MIXED MAYO AND KETCHUP AND PICKLE JUICE AND BROWN SUGAR AND THATS BASICALLY WHAT THOUSAND ISLAND IS 😩
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    Ladies...

    Guys in dress shirts... The third button undone, sexy or no?

    How many chest hairs peeking out? 🤔

    New question...

    Shaved or hairy chest? 🤔

    Hairy. Unless it's constantly shaved, it tends to feels like sandpaper. I have sensitive skin, so if he doesn't shave every day or every other day, just keep it hairy.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    What do men really think about women who work vs stay home? For guys that want their woman to work, are you really ok with doing 50% of the housework or just hope your woman will end up doing most of it......?

    I prefer her to not work and maintain the home and kids... That's just me tho
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    And the response about the toxic dudes confirms my theory that most woman dig a holes and nice guys finish last - sup wit dat ladies - elaborate a bit

    Obviously I can't speak for the majority of ♀️, only myself - but I don't dig a-holes at all.

    Currently I'm a fat slug, but I've been attractive enough in the recent past to have been hit on by a lot of guys, with a wide assortment of personality types.
    The a-holes have always just been a-holes, period. For me, no amount of having a pretty face or muscles makes up for it.

    And on the flip side - frankly, most of the guys I've known who lump themselves into the "nice guys finish last" category have not been nearly as nice as they believed themselves to be.

    So much this.
    That's why I hate that saying.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    Ladies...

    I realize everyone is different so I'm curious to see what you all have to say...

    Do you prefer someone who is... Shy and awkward (not creepy), or confident and cocky (bordering arrogant)?

    Shy and awkward. Confidence can be gained.
    Plus I think awkward is adorable.

    I did the shy guy thing. I made the first move and he was receptive and grateful and I didn’t mind.

    Then I had to make any and all subsequent moves for the rest of our lives forever and ever amen.

    Is there a middle ground?

    Yes I'm Cocky and confident just not around the os... In real life that is 🤷🏽‍♂️
  • GettinLean19
    GettinLean19 Posts: 452 Member
    Ladies...

    Guys in dress shirts... The third button undone, sexy or no?

    How many chest hairs peeking out? 🤔

    New question...

    Shaved or hairy chest? 🤔

    Yes

    😂

    But seriously. Yes
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    What do guys really think of women with muscles? I'm not necessarily speaking of "toned," I'm talking muscle.

    Honestly... I know women today are after the muscles and who am I to tell them what they should be after one way or the other...

    But I prefer thin, but not skinny... And I'm talking about that soft layer... That drives me more crazy than muscle... Btjm 🤷🏽‍♂️

    oh hey - soft layer heeeeeeeeere!! :p

    That's the funnest part honestly 😏
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    And on the flip side - frankly, most of the guys I've known who lump themselves into the "nice guys finish last" category have not been nearly as nice as they believed themselves to be.

    This is very true. It is not that women don’t want guys who are nice. They want someone with a cool personality who they are attracted to. Some guys are just all around unappealing but try to label themselves nice to blame women for their lack of success.

    Exactly.
    That's manipulative and narcissistic. Can't be his fault, must be all the women he dates not seeing how great he is.

    Any guys who uses "nice guys finish last" when I am dating him, I immediately second guess my decision to date him further.....

    Same! It they are truly nice, then their actions will show it.
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,170 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    And the response about the toxic dudes confirms my theory that most woman dig a holes and nice guys finish last - sup wit dat ladies - elaborate a bit

    Obviously I can't speak for the majority of ♀️, only myself - but I don't dig a-holes at all.

    Currently I'm a fat slug, but I've been attractive enough in the recent past to have been hit on by a lot of guys, with a wide assortment of personality types.
    The a-holes have always just been a-holes, period. For me, no amount of having a pretty face or muscles makes up for it.

    And on the flip side - frankly, most of the guys I've known who lump themselves into the "nice guys finish last" category have not been nearly as nice as they believed themselves to be.

    Fair enough - I’ve appreciated the elaboration from all the when on this topic today - ladies I applaud you 👏
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,170 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    Ladies...

    Guys in dress shirts... The third button undone, sexy or no?

    How many chest hairs peeking out? 🤔

    New question...

    Shaved or hairy chest? 🤔

    Hairy. Unless it's constantly shaved, it tends to feels like sandpaper. I have sensitive skin, so if he doesn't shave every day or every other day, just keep it hairy.

    How bout just naturally hairless - like a sphinx cat - but not as wrinkly of course- asking for a friend
  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,740 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    What do men really think about women who work vs stay home? For guys that want their woman to work, are you really ok with doing 50% of the housework or just hope your woman will end up doing most of it......?

    I prefer her to not work and maintain the home and kids... That's just me tho

    What happens when the kids are older? I'm not arguing this...I have a totally different lifestyle. But I often wonder about this as quite a few of my acquaintances are moms of teens and college kids, but have never worked.
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    edited March 2020
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    Ladies...

    Guys in dress shirts... The third button undone, sexy or no?

    How many chest hairs peeking out? 🤔

    New question...

    Shaved or hairy chest? 🤔

    Hairy. Unless it's constantly shaved, it tends to feels like sandpaper. I have sensitive skin, so if he doesn't shave every day or every other day, just keep it hairy.

    How bout just naturally hairless - like a sphinx cat - but not as wrinkly of course- asking for a friend

    Even better!

    ETA: Hairy or hairless... or very little hair... it's all good.
    As long as it's not shaved... lol
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies -

    married guys off limits?

    Yes. I need to be #1
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Ladies...

    Guys in dress shirts... The third button undone, sexy or no?

    How many chest hairs peeking out? 🤔

    New question...

    Shaved or hairy chest? 🤔

    Yes

    😂

    But seriously. Yes

    You're just way too picky for me 😏😂
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Ladies...

    I hear brains are important... But what if he's just not a smart guy?

    Is that really a deal breaker? 🤷🏽‍♂️
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    edited March 2020
    Ladies...

    I hear brains are important... But what if he's just not a smart guy?

    Is that really a deal breaker? 🤷🏽‍♂️

    Depends on what you call smart.
    People have different ideas of what they think is smart or intelligent. My idea of a smart guy might be an idiot to someone else.

    But if I think the guy is dumber than a box of rocks.... I won't date him. lol I can't. I would rather watch grass grow....
  • martianspuds
    martianspuds Posts: 93 Member
    Ladies...

    I hear brains are important... But what if he's just not a smart guy?

    Is that really a deal breaker? 🤷🏽‍♂️

    There are multiple kinds of intelligence, and as long as he exhibits at least one form, I've found I'm able to be attracted to a guy who is barely average in terms of old-fashioned gray matter.

    As with many things in life, what tends to matter most is how he uses what he's got.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    What do men really think about women who work vs stay home? For guys that want their woman to work, are you really ok with doing 50% of the housework or just hope your woman will end up doing most of it......?

    I prefer her to not work and maintain the home and kids... That's just me tho

    What happens when the kids are older? I'm not arguing this...I have a totally different lifestyle. But I often wonder about this as quite a few of my acquaintances are moms of teens and college kids, but have never worked.

    At that point... It's really going to be up to her...
    I'd like to see her do something that she loves to do or work on school or something... Rather than go to work doing something she would hate...

    Like a side business or something
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    Ladies...

    I hear brains are important... But what if he's just not a smart guy?

    Is that really a deal breaker? 🤷🏽‍♂️

    I love smart, open-minded men. Women too but in a different way
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  • GettinLean19
    GettinLean19 Posts: 452 Member
    1sphere wrote: »
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    And on the flip side - frankly, most of the guys I've known who lump themselves into the "nice guys finish last" category have not been nearly as nice as they believed themselves to be.

    This is very true. It is not that women don’t want guys who are nice. They want someone with a cool personality who they are attracted to. Some guys are just all around unappealing but try to label themselves nice to blame women for their lack of success.

    Exactly.
    That's manipulative and narcissistic. Can't be his fault, must be all the women he dates not seeing how great he is.

    Any guys who uses "nice guys finish last" when I am dating him, I immediately second guess my decision to date him further.....

    Same! It they are truly nice, then their actions will show it.
    I despise this kind of guy who just puts on a facade, and not only that but is manipulative. The greedy narcissist.

    Sounds like there might be a backstory and I’m here for it
  • slessofme
    slessofme Posts: 7,744 Member
    Ladies...

    Guys in dress shirts... The third button undone, sexy or no?

    How many chest hairs peeking out? 🤔

    New question...

    Shaved or hairy chest? 🤔

    Hairy chest. Extra points if he doesnt mind if I grab a handful. Other manscaping is appreciated.
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  • GettinLean19
    GettinLean19 Posts: 452 Member
    1sphere wrote: »
    1sphere wrote: »
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    And on the flip side - frankly, most of the guys I've known who lump themselves into the "nice guys finish last" category have not been nearly as nice as they believed themselves to be.

    This is very true. It is not that women don’t want guys who are nice. They want someone with a cool personality who they are attracted to. Some guys are just all around unappealing but try to label themselves nice to blame women for their lack of success.

    Exactly.
    That's manipulative and narcissistic. Can't be his fault, must be all the women he dates not seeing how great he is.

    Any guys who uses "nice guys finish last" when I am dating him, I immediately second guess my decision to date him further.....

    Same! It they are truly nice, then their actions will show it.
    I despise this kind of guy who just puts on a facade, and not only that but is manipulative. The greedy narcissist.

    Sounds like there might be a backstory and I’m here for it
    I don’t have any decent story, but I was horrified with a guy I had to work with one time. His mind was latched to perversion and dark chit. Kind of a dodgy guy, but he probably wasn’t even as bad as some others out there

    Uh huh, sounds terrible. Do you have his number?
  • martianspuds
    martianspuds Posts: 93 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    What do men really think about women who work vs stay home? For guys that want their woman to work, are you really ok with doing 50% of the housework or just hope your woman will end up doing most of it......?

    I prefer her to not work and maintain the home and kids... That's just me tho

    What happens when the kids are older? I'm not arguing this...I have a totally different lifestyle. But I often wonder about this as quite a few of my acquaintances are moms of teens and college kids, but have never worked.

    At that point... It's really going to be up to her...
    I'd like to see her do something that she loves to do or work on school or something... Rather than go to work doing something she would hate...

    Like a side business or something

    To circle back to the latter part of the question posed by @nooshi713 , are you really ok with doing 50% of the housework or just hope your woman will end up doing most of it......:

    I.e., after the kids have left the nest and Mrs. Healthy is now happily busy doing something she loves - do you envision that you would be sharing housework chores at that point?