Guys/Girls: What is your real opinion on..

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  • Abs_magee89
    Abs_magee89 Posts: 127 Member
    ythannah wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies of mfp-

    when the last time you said "i had a good guy but i messed everything up"

    fellas of mfp-

    same question only gender reverse obvi

    Never.

    I've only ever dated good guys (other than one narcissistic dude) but just because they"re "good" doesn't make them the right guy for me.
    💯 plenty of really great guys out there who just aren’t compatible, and that’s okay. No one should feel like they have to stay with someone they don’t love just because they are a good person. That’s not enough.
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies of mfp-

    when the last time you said "i had a good guy but i messed everything up"

    fellas of mfp-

    same question only gender reverse obvi

    I only regret one breakup, but it was right for me at the time

    For me its more like "he might have been a good guy - but I didn't give him a chance"
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,285 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies of mfp-

    when the last time you said "i had a good guy but i messed everything up"

    Take this in the most non-toxic way possible, but this is not plausible for me. I'm currently in the process of finding the last love of my life. I won't *kitten* it up. Neither will he lol
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies of mfp-

    when the last time you said "i had a good guy but i messed everything up"

    fellas of mfp-

    same question only gender reverse obvi

    Same question back atcha
  • GettinLean19
    GettinLean19 Posts: 452 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies of mfp-

    when the last time you said "i had a good guy but i messed everything up"

    fellas of mfp-

    same question only gender reverse obvi

    Any time a relationship has ended i could always see why that was for the best. Sometimes not til 5 years later but i don’t feel like my one true love is out wandering around after i let him slip through my fingers or anything

    Course i get bored easily so
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »
    This one's for everybody: What's your opinion on sleeping in clothes or naked

    Potato

    No! Eyes!!
  • OpheliaCooter
    OpheliaCooter Posts: 1,635 Member
    Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »
    This one's for everybody: What's your opinion on sleeping in clothes or naked

    One of my favorite threads.
  • brittanystebbins95
    brittanystebbins95 Posts: 567 Member
    Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »
    This one's for everybody: What's your opinion on sleeping in clothes or naked

    Can't do completely nude. I just find it to be uncomfortable, and I worry about having to run out of my house in the event of a fire in the middle of the night, or having to face an intruder like that.
    I usually sleep in undies and a t shirt. And socks. I cannot fall asleep without socks on. My feet are always freezing.
  • MoonOverMyHammies7
    MoonOverMyHammies7 Posts: 587 Member
    brittanystebbins95 wrote: »
    Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »
    This one's for everybody: What's your opinion on sleeping in clothes or naked

    Can't do completely nude. I just find it to be uncomfortable, and I worry about having to run out of my house in the event of a fire in the middle of the night, or having to face an intruder like that.
    I usually sleep in undies and a t shirt. And socks. I cannot fall asleep without socks on. My feet are always freezing.

    I’m with ya girl. Same! Unless it’s a special occasion 😬
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    seltzermint555 wrote: »
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    You ladies just freaking want it all don't you? 🙄

    I don’t ask for a lot. All I want is an attractive man that surprises me with trips and gifts, is faithful, loves my birds, loves to talk on the phone, has a stable job, is fun to be around, and helps with housework. 🥰

    See, some people probably think that is a tall order. I think it's awesome. Mine is an attractive man who is frugal and liberal, never wants kids, works hard and really really likes traveling and sex. My husband fits that perfectly. I didn't want anything else. Why is that bad to state what we need and want?

    I agree. Knowing what you want is a good thing!
  • CupcakeCrusoe
    CupcakeCrusoe Posts: 1,484 Member
    Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »
    Ladies: do you prefer stable yet predictable or chaotic yet surprising

    The use of "yet" is killing me rn.

    I prefer stable and predictable. I don't need to come home to chaotic surprising 30 adopted ferrets or some *kitten*.
  • CupcakeCrusoe
    CupcakeCrusoe Posts: 1,484 Member
    mi_nina_lola wrote: »
    ok guys and ladies. if someone has noticeable acne scarring - is that a deal breaker?

    Not at all.
  • CupcakeCrusoe
    CupcakeCrusoe Posts: 1,484 Member
    r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »
    Guys/Girls

    If someone you're not interested in romantically keeps sending you selfies of themselves, what do you do? Should the person ask if it's okay to send you selfies first?

    I have had this happen. It was a surprise! pic of you know what from someone I worked with. :tired_face: I asked him to kindly stop. Either they will or they get blocked. I think sending selfies should be a thing you ask about first.
  • CupcakeCrusoe
    CupcakeCrusoe Posts: 1,484 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    Something I’m listening to just said to women,
    “Your so-called flaws or imperfections are what make you beautiful and unique.” And also...
    “Men fall in love with you for what you perceive to be your flaws or insecurities, not in spite of them.”
    She doesn’t specify physical or otherwise. I can see this to a point but...it can’t be ALL flaws. Do you think this statement is way too broad like I do?

    Waaay too broad. People have a mix of good traits and bad ones. The mix is what makes someone attractive. If people had all good traits, would get boring. All bad, they wouldn't even get considered.
  • CupcakeCrusoe
    CupcakeCrusoe Posts: 1,484 Member
    Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »
    This one's for everybody: What's your opinion on sleeping in clothes or naked

    Naked unless it's super cold/I'm sick/bleeding/I'm staying somewhere other than my house.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    These stupid YouTube vids. This is a big *kitten* question.

    What does love mean to you? How do you define it?

    Baby don't hurt me... Don't hurt me, no more
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    These stupid YouTube vids. This is a big *kitten* question.

    What does love mean to you? How do you define it?

    Darkness cannot drive away Darkness only light can do that, hate cannot drive away hate only love can do that...

    MLK Jr.
  • CupcakeCrusoe
    CupcakeCrusoe Posts: 1,484 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    These stupid YouTube vids. This is a big *kitten* question.

    What does love mean to you? How do you define it?

    Background: my mouth runs faster than my brain sometimes.

    What does it mean to me? It means having a bubble in which to say whatever the heck is on my mind, without fear of being judged for bad intentions, because he knows I've got good ones. A space in which to argue about things without the stakes being unbearably high. Having a place where everything I do is not only okay, but even good, or funny, or considerate, because I have no need for claws being out. Love is having a safe place/person.

    How do I define it? Love is my partner being happy with me as myself, without the normal filters society puts on behavior/discussion. I don't have to keep my thoughts to myself, I don't have to pretend anything's okay when it's not. A relationship in which I can be completely unguarded, and know that he's riding with me no matter what, and that he chose me, and chose the way I am. And the same but me for him.
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    CupcakeCrusoe wrote: »
    Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »
    Ladies: do you prefer stable yet predictable or chaotic yet surprising

    The use of "yet" is killing me rn.

    I prefer stable and predictable. I don't need to come home to chaotic surprising 30 adopted ferrets or some *kitten*.

    This made me giggle.
  • Abs_magee89
    Abs_magee89 Posts: 127 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    These stupid YouTube vids. This is a big *kitten* question.

    What does love mean to you? How do you define it?
    I’ll say there are different levels and types of love. But I know where a person fits on the scale based on how devastating it would be to lose them.
  • GettinLean19
    GettinLean19 Posts: 452 Member
    CupcakeCrusoe wrote: »
    Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »
    Ladies: do you prefer stable yet predictable or chaotic yet surprising

    The use of "yet" is killing me rn.

    I prefer stable and predictable. I don't need to come home to chaotic surprising 30 adopted ferrets or some *kitten*.

    The yet is why its so funny 😆

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